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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone. As usual look forward to genuine replies, funny replies, whatever really from the great members on this site.......
The problem...been under a lot and I mean a lot of stress lately from work and family. .....and yes I have lost my mojo...but..now I dont feel stressed any longer and I have been waiting weeks for my mojo to come back....still getting hard...never any problems there but just dont feel like doing anything with it lol..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Serious question OP - does your happiness depend on having a shag?"
No, not at all. I enjoy lots of non sexual things as much as the next person..hols, cars, bikes, exercise etc |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Serious question OP - does your happiness depend on having a shag?
No, not at all. I enjoy lots of non sexual things as much as the next person..hols, cars, bikes, exercise etc"
Just take a break then, and come back when the mojo is restored. I do that all the time.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Serious question OP - does your happiness depend on having a shag?
No, not at all. I enjoy lots of non sexual things as much as the next person..hols, cars, bikes, exercise etc
Just take a break then, and come back when the mojo is restored. I do that all the time. "
Thanks for the advice..I might just do that...been getting stressed when telling my regular fb that I need some time out..she is married and im her release so there is pressure from her..I might end up losing her but so be it I think..gotta think about myself for a while |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"gotta think about myself for a while "
You do. There's a common misconception that men are horny bastards 24/7 but I know from experience they aren't. I sympathise with her but you have to put yourself first. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"gotta think about myself for a while
You do. There's a common misconception that men are horny bastards 24/7 but I know from experience they aren't. I sympathise with her but you have to put yourself first."
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Stress takes its toll, and it can take a long time to recover. It affects us physically and psychologically. The sexual bits from impacts to both. The last thing you need is any more pressure from anyone- others or yourself, whilst you regain your health and strength. Take it easy and do all the things you love, including rest,exercise and keeping a good diet. If you can minimise any additional stress loads, all the better. Sex isn't the most important thing, as swinging isn't, but you'll regain what drive you need in your own time. Maybe just focus on social meets, if you want to keep some connections going or meet new potential partners for future points. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Serious question OP - does your happiness depend on having a shag?
No, not at all. I enjoy lots of non sexual things as much as the next person..hols, cars, bikes, exercise etc
Just take a break then, and come back when the mojo is restored. I do that all the time.
Thanks for the advice..I might just do that...been getting stressed when telling my regular fb that I need some time out..she is married and im her release so there is pressure from her..I might end up losing her but so be it I think..gotta think about myself for a while "
You come first, you've already said you were stressed and your better now your trying to get your mojo back, I agree a little break might be in order added pressure from your regular isn't going to help the situation. Obviously if she's not cool with your taking a break its her loss |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Stress takes its toll, and it can take a long time to recover. It affects us physically and psychologically. The sexual bits from impacts to both. The last thing you need is any more pressure from anyone- others or yourself, whilst you regain your health and strength. Take it easy and do all the things you love, including rest,exercise and keeping a good diet. If you can minimise any additional stress loads, all the better. Sex isn't the most important thing, as swinging isn't, but you'll regain what drive you need in your own time. Maybe just focus on social meets, if you want to keep some connections going or meet new potential partners for future points. Good luck! "
Great advice...thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Serious question OP - does your happiness depend on having a shag?
No, not at all. I enjoy lots of non sexual things as much as the next person..hols, cars, bikes, exercise etc
Just take a break then, and come back when the mojo is restored. I do that all the time.
Thanks for the advice..I might just do that...been getting stressed when telling my regular fb that I need some time out..she is married and im her release so there is pressure from her..I might end up losing her but so be it I think..gotta think about myself for a while
You come first, you've already said you were stressed and your better now your trying to get your mojo back, I agree a little break might be in order added pressure from your regular isn't going to help the situation. Obviously if she's not cool with your taking a break its her loss "
Brilliant advice..thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Hey..everyone who has posted advice...thank you so much..great advice and im gonna have some me time and put myself first for a change..get back on form and get back to being me again |
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Don't worry about having lost your mojo - do other non sexual stuff instead and one day you'll wake up with a hard-on and have a wank. Don't sweat it or worry about it. It's a normal physiological contra-indication of stress/anxiety etc. - which in itself is also normal, so ya not crazy. wibble. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"gotta think about myself for a while
You do. There's a common misconception that men are horny bastards 24/7 but I know from experience they aren't. I sympathise with her but you have to put yourself first."
Love empathy |
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