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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I mean I have a decent profile...I think??
I have a few pics on display, but I just can't see why I am not attracting the men I am looking for.
Can someone please give me some clues as to where I might be lacking?
All help greatly appreciated   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look for what you want instead of waiting for it to find you. If you're not confident with first messages maybe wink and if they wink back you know there is a mutual interest so sending that first message will then be easier x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean I have a decent profile...I think??
I have a few pics on display, but I just can't see why I am not attracting the men I am looking for.
Can someone please give me some clues as to where I might be lacking?
All help greatly appreciated "
You're just not selling yourself. Your profile tells me nothing and as for the pictures, pure vanilla. Put some thought into it next time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean I have a decent profile...I think??
I have a few pics on display, but I just can't see why I am not attracting the men I am looking for.
Can someone please give me some clues as to where I might be lacking?
All help greatly appreciated "
You could try moving to civilization  |
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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I mean I have a decent profile...I think??
I have a few pics on display, but I just can't see why I am not attracting the men I am looking for.
Can someone please give me some clues as to where I might be lacking?
All help greatly appreciated
You're just not selling yourself. Your profile tells me nothing and as for the pictures, pure vanilla. Put some thought into it next time "
I'll try harder |
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"I mean I have a decent profile...I think??
I have a few pics on display, but I just can't see why I am not attracting the men I am looking for.
Can someone please give me some clues as to where I might be lacking?
All help greatly appreciated "
I see what you did there  |
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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I mean I have a decent profile...I think??
I have a few pics on display, but I just can't see why I am not attracting the men I am looking for.
Can someone please give me some clues as to where I might be lacking?
All help greatly appreciated
I see what you did there "
What?   |
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"I mean I have a decent profile...I think??
I have a few pics on display, but I just can't see why I am not attracting the men I am looking for.
Can someone please give me some clues as to where I might be lacking?
All help greatly appreciated
I see what you did there
What? "
I think you need more action shots...guy definitely dig action shots |
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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I mean I have a decent profile...I think??
I have a few pics on display, but I just can't see why I am not attracting the men I am looking for.
Can someone please give me some clues as to where I might be lacking?
All help greatly appreciated
I see what you did there
What?
I think you need more action shots...guy definitely dig action shots "
Pft men and their action shots, do you have no imagination? |
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"I mean I have a decent profile...I think??
I have a few pics on display, but I just can't see why I am not attracting the men I am looking for.
Can someone please give me some clues as to where I might be lacking?
All help greatly appreciated
I see what you did there
What?
I think you need more action shots...guy definitely dig action shots
Pft men and their action shots, do you have no imagination? "
We are visual creatures, cut us some slack |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The tone is nice. A bit too verbose. It's an essay..chop it down. I tried, but I just couldn't be bothered to get to the end. And I'm a girl. Guy's attention spans tend to be shorter!  I'm not into chicks. That said...your pics are lovely! And you have enough there to entice. g'luck  |
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"I mean I have a decent profile...I think??
I have a few pics on display, but I just can't see why I am not attracting the men I am looking for.
Can someone please give me some clues as to where I might be lacking?
All help greatly appreciated "
Pfft! "I just can't see why I am not attracting the men I am looking for". I shall reserve my pity for my single male brethren who have trouble attracting ANY female and not for someone with 29 verifications and is looking for her ego to be stroked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, I'm stunned you even have to ask to be honest. Perhaps what I don't understand is just what type is it you're not attracting. The profile is long, but I'm the worse person to comment on this lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm just wondering how many guys you have actually made the effort to message? Many females tend to just plough through the countless messages that us males send them. Try being proactive (if indeed you haven't yet) and try messaging some of the guys that you like the profile of. At least then, you are in control of your own 'sexual destiny'  x Hope this helps x |
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"U already met 26 pple of this site
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Yeah but she's a straight chick and she met with us chicks, so one shouldn't assume the numbers mean anything
Foxy I'm not telling you again,
but someone else already did
location, location, location x x |
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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"U already met 26 pple of this site
Yeah but she's a straight chick and she met with us chicks, so one shouldn't assume the numbers mean anything
Foxy I'm not telling you again,
but someone else already did
location, location, location x x "
I know I know!
But is also now wondering where peoples sense of humour has disappeared to |
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"I mean I have a decent profile...I think??
I have a few pics on display, but I just can't see why I am not attracting the men I am looking for.
Can someone please give me some clues as to where I might be lacking?
All help greatly appreciated "
Crickey, if you're not getting any meets then i have no chance, mind you i'm not getting any meets either....Hence i have changed my status to say taking a break  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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your pics are ok maybe some more a b it risqué, your main problem is its too long and too many don't this don't thats your scareing any potential meets away as they don't think they can make the grade with you , you look nice so sell your self, shame your in Scotland |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try uploading lots of muff shots from various angles....
Do you think that would really work???
I am incredibly shy you know "
more revealing body shots undies ect, muff shots not so sure about that, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Crickey, if you're not getting any meets then i have no chance, mind you i'm not getting any meets either....Hence i have changed my status to say taking a break "
try changing your age range, I know someone who would love to meet you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try uploading lots of muff shots from various angles....
Do you think that would really work???
I am incredibly shy you know "
Don't forget a sky remote somehow shoe horned in  |
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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Simple really!
You're a size 68.
And you smoke.
And you're north of the border.
I'd just quit now if I were you and become a nun! "
Funnily enough I did place a call to the nunnery last week, just waiting to hear back from them, I think they are trying to see if they can measure me up for the habit
As for sky remote? What is this thing you speak of? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funnily enough I did place a call to the nunnery last week, just waiting to hear back from them, I think they are trying to see if they can measure me up for the habit
As for sky remote? What is this thing you speak of? "
Send them a link to your profile and they will take you on as a challenge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It changes the tv channels over, no idea what other purpose it'd be for
I thought it might have been some sort of measuring devise? Am I wrong? "
I suppose it could be if ya tried to insert it in ya foof or put it next to a gentleman sausage |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It changes the tv channels over, no idea what other purpose it'd be for
I thought it might have been some sort of measuring devise? Am I wrong? "
Its an official EEC measuring pole for penises |
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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"It changes the tv channels over, no idea what other purpose it'd be for
I thought it might have been some sort of measuring devise? Am I wrong?
I suppose it could be if ya tried to insert it in ya foof or put it next to a gentleman sausage "
Now why would I do that? I have good toys But a gentleman's sausage is a different matter all together |
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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"It changes the tv channels over, no idea what other purpose it'd be for
I thought it might have been some sort of measuring devise? Am I wrong?
Its an official EEC measuring pole for penises "
I must have missed that memo thank you for bringing me up to date |
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" Crickey, if you're not getting any meets then i have no chance, mind you i'm not getting any meets either....Hence i have changed my status to say taking a break
try changing your age range, I know someone who would love to meet you "
Really sorry i have a certain age range for a reason......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean I have a decent profile...I think??
I have a few pics on display, but I just can't see why I am not attracting the men I am looking for.
Can someone please give me some clues as to where I might be lacking?
All help greatly appreciated
I see what you did there
What?
I think you need more action shots...guy definitely dig action shots
Pft men and their action shots, do you have no imagination? "
you don't need action shots...that just sends out the wrong message and attracts all the weirdos
maybe something a bit punchy in respect of the wording instead of 'war & peace' lol |
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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
Ok Ok Ok I have to come clean, I am quite surprised some people took this post as serious, it was all tongue in cheek especially when you look at all the 'please help me threads' going around just now!
Now I already know my profile is not for some, however, living in the oil capital of the UK, I do need the do's and don'ts lol and I wont be changing it for those simple reasons, but I do hope everyone has fun however, they choose to find it, and thank you to those who did realise it was all just a bit of fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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your profile doesnt have enough detail in.
and, is there any chance you could ask your gyno, next time you go for a checkup, if he could take some shots.
those pics always go down well lol |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
"I mean I have a decent profile...I think??
I have a few pics on display, but I just can't see why I am not attracting the men I am looking for.
Can someone please give me some clues as to where I might be lacking?
All help greatly appreciated "
Remove the face pics |
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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago
where the world takes me |
"I mean I have a decent profile...I think??
I have a few pics on display, but I just can't see why I am not attracting the men I am looking for.
Can someone please give me some clues as to where I might be lacking?
All help greatly appreciated "
Living in Aberdeen! Since you're so damn sexy i'd happily be there in a shot if you weren't so far away |
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