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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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can anyone tell me what im doing wrong on site i know its not the photo's people still looking at me i start chatting to someone and flirt with them even married couples i am polite and friendly to them and little cheeky but that normal on a site like this. what the harm asking meet up for a drink with a guy who likes married cples ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can anyone tell me what im doing wrong on site i know its not the photo's
Stop.Right.There.
I know I shouldn't but...  "
And once we ignore the awful photos, ermmm Miss_Tress do your speech about the rosetta stone pretty please  |
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"can anyone tell me what im doing wrong on site i know its not the photo's
Stop.Right.There.
I know I shouldn't but...
And once we ignore the awful photos, ermmm Miss_Tress do your speech about the rosetta stone pretty please "
I've used it once today already along with Enigna machine...pacing myself, the day is still young!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best photos ever if only you where closer tar flower xxx"
I've never been called a flower before I've got some flower tattoos I've got some roses on my knuckles but no one has ever called me flower before thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ignoring the pictures, do you think your lack of success is in anyway linked to the total lack of effort with your profile.
Oh and you can't accommodate and mention camping, I suspect that othet than at Swingfields people rarely meet in tents... |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"can anyone tell me what im doing wrong on site i know its not the photo's people still looking at me i start chatting to someone and flirt with them even married couples i am polite and friendly to them and little cheeky but that normal on a site like this. what the harm asking meet up for a drink with a guy who likes married cples ???? "
you have to be able to help yourself "help yourself"...
for example... compare your profile to others... would you answer yours???
if you can't sell yourself.... then no one else is going to be able to... you know you better than anyone else!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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really cant think of anything positive to relay im afraid.
photos are terrible, truly terrible.
the text isnt great, have no idea what you can offer, what you want, apart from a quick fumble in a tent by the sound of it.
look at the guys on the forums that are always getting positive responses to posts and so on, they are successful.
take a read of their profiles, how they are structured, the content, the language used, check out their pics, and take some of it on board.
ask yourself 1 question, would you meet a woman/couple if they had your profile?
scratch that, of course you would. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP .. I think you need to read between the lines on this one lol. The comments on your pics being the best might not be quite what the others are saying, and perhaps a new autmn selection might be a good idea ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Best photos ever if only you where closer tar flower xxx
I've never been called a flower before I've got some flower tattoos I've got some roses on my knuckles but no one has ever called me flower before thank you "
ur welcome |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"can anyone tell me what im doing wrong on site i know its not the photo's people still looking at me i start chatting to someone and flirt with them even married couples i am polite and friendly to them and little cheeky but that normal on a site like this. what the harm asking meet up for a drink with a guy who likes married cples ???? "
if you took more time to write in this post than you have in your "shop window to the world" maybe thats the place to start.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can anyone tell me what im doing wrong on site i know its not the photo's
Stop.Right.There.
I know I shouldn't but...
And once we ignore the awful photos, ermmm Miss_Tress do your speech about the rosetta stone pretty please
I've used it once today already along with Enigna machine...pacing myself, the day is still young! "
Oops I just deleted what I was originally going to put cos I'd be on the naughty step right now. |
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"really cant think of anything positive to relay im afraid.
photos are terrible, truly terrible.
the text isnt great, have no idea what you can offer, what you want, apart from a quick fumble in a tent by the sound of it.
look at the guys on the forums that are always getting positive responses to posts and so on, they are successful.
take a read of their profiles, how they are structured, the content, the language used, check out their pics, and take some of it on board.
ask yourself 1 question, would you meet a woman/couple if they had your profile?
scratch that, of course you would."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ignoring the pictures, do you think your lack of success is in anyway linked to the total lack of effort with your profile.
Oh and you can't accommodate and mention camping, I suspect that othet than at Swingfields people rarely meet in tents..."
shud i delette my photo's ??? |
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"Ignoring the pictures, do you think your lack of success is in anyway linked to the total lack of effort with your profile.
Oh and you can't accommodate and mention camping, I suspect that othet than at Swingfields people rarely meet in tents... shud i delette my photo's ??? "
Yes x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you`re taking that approach you arent doing anything wrong. keep doing what ur doing until you score
you dont get to shag every girl you try ur luck with  |
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"can anyone tell me what im doing wrong on site i know its not the photo's
Stop.Right.There. what you mean stop right there ???"
I'll be truthful, your photos are terrible! Pixelated, cock shots etc, out of focus. Really bad!
You say people must like your photos coz they've looked but you have to look to see if you like the fact your not getting offers as a result is the key factor! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"can anyone tell me what im doing wrong on site i know its not the photo's
Stop.Right.There. what you mean stop right there ???
I'll be truthful, your photos are terrible! Pixelated, cock shots etc, out of focus. Really bad!
You say people must like your photos coz they've looked but you have to look to see if you like the fact your not getting offers as a result is the key factor! "
im sorry if they look out of focus its only a cheap camera phone |
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"The last one looks like a 'where's wally'"
Hahaha!! It does!
Sorry op have you not got even one single decent pic of you anywhere? Doesn't need to be nude. If your sending pics like that to anyone I'm not surprised your struggling. |
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"The last one looks like a 'where's wally'"
I wondered why anyone would post a picture of woods, then I thought it was his campsite: didn't see the op until the third look!
Have you been taken tips from Optimous Prime there op?!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive updated profile and thanx for the help even ......flower "
seriously, its very hard to read.
punctuation
content
likes
have you actually looked at anyone elses profile? |
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Did you actually read any of the posts that gave you advice ? All you've done is slightly rewrite the text and deleted all your pictures except the 'where's wally' one.
I don't want to be cruel but if that profile gets you a meet I'll eat my car.
Act on some of the advice that you asked for and you'll stand a much better chance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you actually read any of the posts that gave you advice ? All you've done is slightly rewrite the text and deleted all your pictures except the 'where's wally' one.
I don't want to be cruel but if that profile gets you a meet I'll eat my car.
Act on some of the advice that you asked for and you'll stand a much better chance."
And the pics go back up.
Sigh it makes you wonder why anyone would want to give advice! |
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