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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single guy you are pretty unlikely to be messaged.
Plus you have started more than 1 thread about your profile which is likely to account for people looking at it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"great to have had over 30 views in the past few days, but no one has contacted me  any hints as to what I can do to get some contact?  "
You're STILL expecting to be contacted? 
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"great to have had over 30 views in the past few days, but no one has contacted me any hints as to what I can do to get some contact? "
Women on here don't usually contact men. You'll need to send a decent message to the ones who interest you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single guy on here you need to put the effort in.Another Fab'er told me there are 30 men to every woman and she knew a guy who waited 8 months before they got a meet! 
Patience is the key,along with a decent profile and pics and well thought out messages when you send them... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single guy on here you need to put the effort in.Another Fab'er told me there are 30 men to every woman and she knew a guy who waited 8 months before they got a meet!
Patience is the key,along with a decent profile and pics and well thought out messages when you send them..."
My meet last night waited a year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women on here don't usually contact men. You'll need to send a decent message to the ones who interest you."
I do tend to send a message to a male or a woman (filters permitting) when I see a particularly well-wrought profile, and tell 'm that.
My message regularly results in some really good banter. And a meet sometimes happens, although distance often throws a spanner, but that's just life. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"thanks for your comments folks. I've just signed up as a silver member so I can message people.have also taken into account the need for a sensible message as per comments."
You don't need to pay for membership to send messages. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I message men too. In fact I've removed my preferences so I don't show up in searches and I can just message people who interest me, when I am able to do meets.
I don't think it's the norm on the site though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a lot of the people you want contact with will have seen your posts over the last week and a half, asking for advice, asking for advice, and asking for advice.
it comes across as very desperate and needy, which arent 2 traits that most find particularly welcoming or sexy.
unfortunately some admin seem to want to keep deleting posts from your threads which tell you this, so you probably arent getting the message.
be more proactive in looking for who, and what you want.
stop with the asking advice threads for a while and act on the advice given
if you want to use the forums, then post other subjects, so you get yourself known for all the right reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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unfortunately some admin seem to want to keep deleting posts from your threads which tell you this, so you probably arent getting the message.
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Censorship on these forums is far too heavy handed.
Everyone is an adult and I'm sure we can all look after ourselves. |
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