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Is this site making me paranoid?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi,
An unusual situation this morning. I had a message from a young woman asking if I fancied a MMF this morning. Now that happens to be something I would love to do, but a couple of things didn't ring true for me. She was after a meet straight away, and hadn't even asked for a face pic. Now obviously my profile is wonderful but seemed odd she wouldn't ask. She had been on the site for 2 days, and had a verification on her summary but no detail of who or what.
Her scenario was two guys sucking each other, which she then walked in on. My thought was that she would probably be delayed!
So, my question is, had this site made me into a paranoid person, or am I just being too sensible!?  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Hi,
An unusual situation this morning. I had a message from a young woman asking if I fancied a MMF this morning. Now that happens to be something I would love to do, but a couple of things didn't ring true for me. She was after a meet straight away, and hadn't even asked for a face pic. Now obviously my profile is wonderful but seemed odd she wouldn't ask. She had been on the site for 2 days, and had a verification on her summary but no detail of who or what.
Her scenario was two guys sucking each other, which she then walked in on. My thought was that she would probably be delayed!
So, my question is, had this site made me into a paranoid person, or am I just being too sensible!? "
 I think she may be delayed as well
good shout, as always if it seems too good to be true, it may very well be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds a little suspicious. Check with a phone call maybe. Make sure she is actually living and breathing lol. Othsrwiser you could be in for a long sucking session lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi,
An unusual situation this morning. I had a message from a young woman asking if I fancied a MMF this morning. Now that happens to be something I would love to do, but a couple of things didn't ring true for me. She was after a meet straight away, and hadn't even asked for a face pic. Now obviously my profile is wonderful but seemed odd she wouldn't ask. She had been on the site for 2 days, and had a verification on her summary but no detail of who or what.
Her scenario was two guys sucking each other, which she then walked in on. My thought was that she would probably be delayed!
So, my question is, had this site made me into a paranoid person, or am I just being too sensible!? "
Sounds like you've hit the nail on the head  the profile has probably been made by the guy you'd be sucking off .... But I think there would be a very long wait for the lady to arrive .... Very, very long! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile does say your looking for men, so whats the problem?
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The problem would have been disappearing from work and the fact I know nothing about the guy.....
Fussy I know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Report! its a man
Although it sounds like that may be the case, theres every chance it isn't so how can you "Report" with 0% evidence  "
That is my thought too! I am not sure I can report people for wanting to meet for sex!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hes possibly called Paul 
Why????"
Oh its come from the other thread about the men that sign up as ladies by accident when they join,theres a lady called Paul in new women this morning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Report! its a man
Although it sounds like that may be the case, theres every chance it isn't so how can you "Report" with 0% evidence "
Ok then don't im gonna roll my eyes too now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Report! its a man
Although it sounds like that may be the case, theres every chance it isn't so how can you "Report" with 0% evidence
That is my thought too! I am not sure I can report people for wanting to meet for sex! "
No you shouldn't really even if you have a feeling they are not genuine, just block n move on or take the offer up and see what happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Report! its a man
Although it sounds like that may be the case, theres every chance it isn't so how can you "Report" with 0% evidence
Ok then don't im gonna roll my eyes too now "
Hey dont be pinching my rolleyes....go get your own  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hes possibly called Paul
Why????
Oh its come from the other thread about the men that sign up as ladies by accident when they join,theres a lady called Paul in new women this morning "
Oh ok. Thought you was being mean to me lol. Apologies. I'm A Paul lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hes possibly called Paul
Why????
Oh its come from the other thread about the men that sign up as ladies by accident when they join,theres a lady called Paul in new women this morning
Oh ok. Thought you was being mean to me lol. Apologies. I'm A Paul lol."
Ah the site is making you paranoid |
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"Hi,
An unusual situation this morning. I had a message from a young woman asking if I fancied a MMF this morning. Now that happens to be something I would love to do, but a couple of things didn't ring true for me. She was after a meet straight away, and hadn't even asked for a face pic. Now obviously my profile is wonderful but seemed odd she wouldn't ask. She had been on the site for 2 days, and had a verification on her summary but no detail of who or what.
Her scenario was two guys sucking each other, which she then walked in on. My thought was that she would probably be delayed!
So, my question is, had this site made me into a paranoid person, or am I just being too sensible!?
I think she may be delayed as well
good shout, as always if it seems too good to be true, it may very well be"
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Name and shame, its happening on a daily basis here and becoming more frequent. "
Naming and shaming isn't allowed.
Plus, it seems very dodgy and highly unlikely but it could be genuine. I was accused on another site of being male because my outlook and approach can seem that way (apparently). Since I am actually female it was easy to disprove but being on the end of a false accusation like that can be unpleasant.
There's no evidence this person isn't who they say, even if it doesn't seem likely. In which case, naming and shaming is out of order. |
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