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How long......
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Between joining fab and having your first meet?
Now I've seen sooo many forum posts asking' for opinions on profiles and I'm not aasking that (although constructive criticism and hints are always welcome).
Just curious how soon after joining did you get your first meet?
If you were not having much luck what did you do to improve? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few weeks, that's why don't trust people who been on a year and no verifications!!
Heard all the bullshit, the people we have met don't give out verifications etc etc.
It was quite easy to meet on here when first joined and don't think that has changed much. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wouldn't go near anyone who had Beebe o longer than a mobrh and isn't verified one way or another, I mean it's not hard to go onto webcam and prove your genuine!
We''ve met socially, been on webcam, been to the local swingers club and had a lot of single male attention but yet to have a single fem or couples meet.
I'm not the most patient of girls, I'm seeing soo many gorgeous people on here and I'm getting eager to play lol 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ages and ages. Not really into clubs but done webcams etc. Asked for public meets but not yet been successful. Originally joined with a cyber friend who has done well but they de-friended me a little while ago. But I make the most. Have some good chats on here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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4 days..
3 were spent doing research, reading forums, reading profiles, looking how the site operated and crafting a good and honest profile.
i was lucky in timing too because i was a week away from a local social meet and by attending that and a few judicious uses of tactical emails, i was known to quite a few when i arrived and then just worked the room, introducing myself and chatting.
met socially, with a young lady, who recommended me to her friend who chaperoned me to a party at Chunkymuffins and it snowballed from there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll be honest. We've still met anyone off here & we've been here a long time HOWEVER we don't do clubs & are only wanting to meet up with a single fem. (we've met women from other sites, but of course we can't prove that here)
It all depends one what you're looking for. Single women are always going to have more chance than the guys, & other couples looking for a full swing are always going to have more chance than those of us looking for a threesome.
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I joined in September, arranged to meet a guy within a couple of weeks. Got him the send me a face pic.. His profile pics were about 10 years old!! Lol. I didn't know about filters etc and got a bit pissed off. Deleted, started again with my head more screwed on and had my first meet within a month x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine was a month or so, though I did cancel my profile after a week, as was very intimidated!
Now, I'm more thick skinned and know what I want and look for  "
Me too. Too many messages and I ran for cover  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm still looking. I do have a verification from the couple who introduced me to the scene. We both joined here after our meet and i only recently think i got my profile into a reasonable state. So fingers crossed someone takes an interest or i might have to go a little while longer heh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I started doing the clubs way before joining fabs lol does anyone remember the dating channel lol used to get meets of there lol and a guy off there introduced me to the clubs and we are still great friends x |
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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago
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I got lucky mine was within a week. Got luckier even more as it was meant to be with a couple but the wife had also invited a single woman to so it ended up as a horny foursome. It's been downhill all the way after that, lol |
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I heard about this site in a club, so when I first joined, I barely had time to put in profile text before I was heading out for a meet with someone I'd chatted to in the club, he was on here, so I guess in answer to the op, a few hours.
Then when I had finally begun to sift through the pm's, I met with another gentleman 2 days later. (that was before I discovered filters) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"4 days..
3 were spent doing research, reading forums, reading profiles, looking how the site operated and crafting a good and honest profile.
i was lucky in timing too because i was a week away from a local social meet and by attending that and a few judicious uses of tactical emails, i was known to quite a few when i arrived and then just worked the room, introducing myself and chatting.
met socially, with a young lady, who recommended me to her friend who chaperoned me to a party at Chunkymuffins and it snowballed from there."
Single men take note. This is how you should do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Joined but didn't use the site for about 3 weeks, started browsing and had my first meet within 48 hours.
Not had many meets as I am picky and the bar has been set quite high  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Took me about two months to find a lady who wanted to meet up. Found a good friend, had a great afternoon out, and finally got verified. Am still looking for a playmate though. Rod.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I came off due to time wasters but came back on last month and met my first in a couple of days but not had anything since I must be doing something wrong |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"met the same day I joined. And met a few others within a few weeks.
Not meeting much just now though."
But I'm hopeful you'll get a chance to meet me for this coffee soon though |
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