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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
Been on this site for a while now, had a handful of meets, but no verifications for meets, except my mate and a webcam verification.
I send messages and read peoples profiles and respond accordingly, but its like know one wants to give me the time of day.
Could anyone give me some advice on how to meet more people?
Thanks in advance
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the suggestions guys.
Been in the chat rooms a lot, get loads of profile views but not many messages and don't want to send a message to window shoppers as that might be all it was.
Bit bewildered on going to socials as wouldn't know how to act, wouldn't want to piss anyone off
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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3 months isnt long at all and if you have had a handfull of meets in 3 months you are doing well, but get yourself to clubs and socials, swinging isnt just a website. |
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"Thanks for the suggestions guys.
Been in the chat rooms a lot, get loads of profile views but not many messages and don't want to send a message to window shoppers as that might be all it was.
Bit bewildered on going to socials as
wouldn't know how to act, wouldn't want
to piss anyone off
In that case don't go up to people and scream 'wanna fuck?' in their faces. Act as if you were an invited guest to a party. How would you think you might have acted? Got your cock out? Got d*unk? Giggled reprehensibly? Act like a normal guy, dress well, smile, make eye contact, show an interest in them....normal social skills.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wasn't planning on doing that, but thanks for the heads up anyway.
My mate and I have been talking about going to a club, not that we swing that way, but more for the sake of not going to the club alone.
May look into it a bit more when I don't have piles of work to sort out. |
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"I wasn't planning on doing that, but thanks for the heads up anyway.
My mate and I have been talking about going to a club, not that we swing that way, but more for the sake of not going to the club alone.
May look into it a bit more when I don't have piles of work to sort out."
That's a better attitude - go with your mate and see it as a bar/club where some people might be under-dressed or dressed sexily. Don't assume you'll get some sex but have a look round...friendly and polite, not pushy and see how it goes. Also go in chatrooms on here and post in the forums and there you go...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I know about that lol ! I am a decent sort of bloke and generally get on really well with women in `real life`. I don`t have any prob getting dates from the everyday night out ( excuse the oxymoron ! ) but on here zip, zilch and also nothing. Apart that is from my one very who is a classy lady who had the give me a go as it were.
Oh well just keep plugging away I guess. |
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"Yeah I know about that lol ! I am a decent sort of bloke and generally get on really well with women in `real life`. I don`t have any prob getting dates from the everyday night out ( excuse the oxymoron ! ) but on here zip, zilch and also nothing. Apart that is from my one very who is a classy lady who had the give me a go as it were.
Oh well just keep plugging away I
guess."
Plugging away....  |
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