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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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First off I would like to say hi as this is my first post.
I am looking for some advice really. I have messaged quite a few people over the past 6 or so months and found that I'm still left without a meet...
I've not been straight in with the "I'd fuck you" blah blah blah... I do happen to have a little bit about myself.
I'm just left questioning... Is it me? Or is it that this site does not like 25 year old single males lol.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd suggest losing some of the "interests", especially the more extreme ones unless they're absolutely essential to your sex life."
Much appreciated for that suggestion. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
Without a doubt your age will make it more difficult but there are people out there that are looking for just that.
Youll need to persevere but good luck and welcome  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I will be honest and say, yes, you would be too young for me I'm afraid  "
I agree that not every woman likes younger men... Surely that's not the answer for 6/8 months of nothing... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Without a doubt your age will make it more difficult but there are people out there that are looking for just that.
Youll need to persevere but good luck and welcome "
Thanks. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"I'd suggest losing some of the "interests", especially the more extreme ones unless they're absolutely essential to your sex life.
Much appreciated for that suggestion. "
And go onnnn, give us a smile  . Or is that your artistic moody look? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd suggest losing some of the "interests", especially the more extreme ones unless they're absolutely essential to your sex life.
Much appreciated for that suggestion.
And go onnnn, give us a smile . Or is that your artistic moody look? "
Haha believe it or not I have a smiling skull tattood on my hand so that it fits my face as I don't smile on pictures. It's rather funny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First off I would like to say hi as this is my first post.
I am looking for some advice really. I have messaged quite a few people over the past 6 or so months and found that I'm still left without a meet...
I've not been straight in with the "I'd fuck you" blah blah blah... I do happen to have a little bit about myself.
I'm just left questioning... Is it me? Or is it that this site does not like 25 year old single males lol.
Anthony "
are you 24 or 25? profile says both and many people have a cut off point of 25... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your avatar pic is not welcoming or inviting, your profile does not say much about you and you are a fighter which for me screams aggressive and rings alarm bells.
Sorry.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all for your replies. I am 25, 26 next week.
As for being a fighter... I am a professional fighter (it's a sport) I'm not a thug who decides to go out, get pissed and start fights... I fight in a controlled manor, and along with my form of martial arts I also learnt respect and discipline!
My picture is not inviting? Well what other picture do I put up?
Again I appreciate all of your comments.
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Love the tattoos! Your profile is fine. Age wouldn't bother me coz that's (generally 25-30)what I go for. The pic of you in the pool is more inviting I think. But then I'm not a fan of beards at all. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you all for your replies. I am 25, 26 next week.
Again I appreciate all of your comments.
Anthony "
then you need to change your date of birth on your profile to reflect that because some people may consider a 26 year old where they would not entertain a 24 year old but that is what they see when your profile shows |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I will change my date of birth now, I didn't realise it was wrong.
The beard actually went today as it was for charity but I do still have a tosh as that is also for another charity.
Again thanks. X  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I will change my date of birth now, I didn't realise it was wrong.
The beard actually went today as it was for charity but I do still have a tosh as that is also for another charity.
Again thanks. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think your profile is pretty good, pics are great, love the tats,...I would like to see a naked body pic though, maybe could do with some more info in your profile text as well!
But still better than most...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think your profile is pretty good, pics are great, love the tats,...I would like to see a naked body pic though, maybe could do with some more info in your profile text as well!
But still better than most... "
Thanks I appreciate that. I will be taking some more pictures tomorrow and uploading. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet younger fellas but your photos would dissuade me for replying. I don't like the tattoo picture at all. I think a naturally smiling pic would make a difference. The profile pic is fine and I rather like your boxing  pic. Only my own opinion of course. x |
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I'd change your name as mr bionical sounds like a kids toy. Be more imaginative than me though. I like the boxing pic as it's different. Beards don't go down well - fashion, I suppose but some like them. I'd lose the last pic, it makes you look like a catalogue advert for a garden centre. I'd also reduce the age range - would you really fuck a 99 year old? I'd put more in about what you like/dislike and what you can offer. The pool photo is good. It's a better profile (little of it that there is) than some. Go in te chat rooms and get a cam veri. Go to a social. Join in on the forums! Watch Star Wars, then you'll have something to chat about as in "hey babe wanna c my light sabre extend?"
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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I would meet a man of your age, and you are not too far away but your close-up face picture looks stern and severe and not at all attractive or approachable. It leaves me running for the hills . . .
sorry.
Jane x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Need to get yourself verified through a social or webcam, webcam would be better. And personally if i come across a single male who cannot accommodate it normally suggests your hiding a wife or a gf. I know this doesn't put everybody off but it does a lot. If you live with housemates, state it on your profile. I know that the vast majority of regular women on here through talking to them would not meet someone who didn't have a verification or couldn't accommodate and said they were single. Hope i didn't sound ranty there, just trying to help you out. Good luck. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think your pictures are very nice, I like tattoo's and have fabbed the one in the pool. You still look very nice with a beard just a shame you didn't smile.
Your downfall aside from your age, is there is little in the profile to tempt anyone though to be honest, I have seen one liner profiles with no pictures yet a long list of verifications so really you cannot win
Consider going to Chameleons at Darlaston as its not far from you and good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you all for your replies. I am 25, 26 next week.
As for being a fighter... I am a professional fighter (it's a sport) I'm not a thug who decides to go out, get pissed and start fights... I fight in a controlled manor, and along with my form of martial arts I also learnt respect and discipline!
My picture is not inviting? Well what other picture do I put up?
Again I appreciate all of your comments.
Anthony "
Goto clubs or socials, best way to meet people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Need to get yourself verified through a social or webcam, webcam would be better. And personally if i come across a single male who cannot accommodate it normally suggests your hiding a wife or a gf. I know this doesn't put everybody off but it does a lot. If you live with housemates, state it on your profile. I know that the vast majority of regular women on here through talking to them would not meet someone who didn't have a verification or couldn't accommodate and said they were single. Hope i didn't sound ranty there, just trying to help you out. Good luck. x"
How can a webcam veri be better than a social meet in person veri, anyone can switch on a cam, not everyone has balls to actually go out and meet people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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make your profile more personal rather than a shopping list.
you cant accomodate, so thats going to be a massive negative for those that think you are married, same as a lot of singles that can accomodate, so maybe say why you cant.
that would be the biggest reason why we wouldnt meet you, oh, and no matter how artistic it is (and its very good) just find tattoos below the wrist, or above the neck rather scummy (just a personal thing) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your comments. I will state why I can't accommodate in my profile.
I do get that tattoos on certain parts of the body are not for everyone and I respect your honesty/opinion.
As for the facial hair I think that picture needs to go as the facial hair has gone although I do have a slight moustache but that's temp as it's for charity.
Again I appreciate all of the commenters _iews and comments.
Anthony. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
And what all the comments show is that there are people who would definitely be interested but you cant please all the people all the time 
But well done for asking for comments and listening to peoples replies - a lot don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am not into facial hair - and also as above try going to clubs, Xtasia must also be near to you.
Good luck. "
Yep, and there's a certain lady who's going on Friday and wants as much as she can get... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And what all the comments show is that there are people who would definitely be interested but you cant please all the people all the time
But well done for asking for comments and listening to peoples replies - a lot don't. "
I'm not here to waste my time nor anyone else's... I don't want to be another profile that people want to filter out
I'm not afraid to ask for help just as much as I'm not afraid to offer help.
You all seem like a great bunch, very friendly and I'm glad to contribute to it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a little bit concerned you get your jollies watching Jeremy Kyle! "
I was waiting for someone to comment on that lol.
It makes me feel normal watching such a show 
I can assure you it's not jezzas whining that does it for me :-/ lol |
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"I'm a little bit concerned you get your jollies watching Jeremy Kyle!
I was waiting for someone to comment on that lol.
It makes me feel normal watching such a show
I can assure you it's not jezzas whining that does it for me :-/ lol "
Hahaha!! (I watch it too!! Shhhh don't tell anyone) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you emailed chams, theirs long waiting list for single guy membership, don't just assume can turn up and get in, give the club a call.
Xtasia is also near you as is retro club, if you can travel not that far away from several other clubs like liberty elites, xotix, new paradise club or the attic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the replies.
I will keep your private jezza watching a secret
It's a great shame you're not closer.
I do drive so I can travel to clubs. I have said I will go to the Halloween party at champ as non members can go but have to be on the list. I will be enquiring about a membership at a few others too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've applied for a membership at xtasia so hopefully il be a regular there
I hope someone can show me the ropes
How do you like to be tied up? Any particular position?  "
Any position that you feel is of use... Make sure you do them knots properly, I'm a bit of a mover. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've applied for a membership at xtasia so hopefully il be a regular there
I hope someone can show me the ropes
How do you like to be tied up? Any particular position?
Any position that you feel is of use... Make sure you do them knots properly, I'm a bit of a mover. "
I think it's Julie who's going to be tied up that night... in a very sticky web!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've applied for a membership at xtasia so hopefully il be a regular there
I hope someone can show me the ropes
How do you like to be tied up? Any particular position?
Any position that you feel is of use... Make sure you do them knots properly, I'm a bit of a mover.
I think it's Julie who's going to be tied up that night... in a very sticky web!
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I can't hold in my excitement anymore!
Can't bloody wait! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've applied for a membership at xtasia so hopefully il be a regular there
I hope someone can show me the ropes
How do you like to be tied up? Any particular position?
Any position that you feel is of use... Make sure you do them knots properly, I'm a bit of a mover.
I think it's Julie who's going to be tied up that night... in a very sticky web!
I can't hold in my excitement anymore!
Can't bloody wait! "
Don't peak too soon  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've applied for a membership at xtasia so hopefully il be a regular there
I hope someone can show me the ropes
How do you like to be tied up? Any particular position?
Any position that you feel is of use... Make sure you do them knots properly, I'm a bit of a mover.
I think it's Julie who's going to be tied up that night... in a very sticky web!
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Yes darling |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've applied for a membership at xtasia so hopefully il be a regular there
I hope someone can show me the ropes
How do you like to be tied up? Any particular position?
Any position that you feel is of use... Make sure you do them knots properly, I'm a bit of a mover.
I think it's Julie who's going to be tied up that night... in a very sticky web!
I can't hold in my excitement anymore!
Can't bloody wait!
Don't peak too soon "
I'm sure I can contain myself! well I hope haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've applied for a membership at xtasia so hopefully il be a regular there
I hope someone can show me the ropes
How do you like to be tied up? Any particular position?
Any position that you feel is of use... Make sure you do them knots properly, I'm a bit of a mover.
I think it's Julie who's going to be tied up that night... in a very sticky web!
I can't hold in my excitement anymore!
Can't bloody wait!
Don't peak too soon
I'm sure I can contain myself! well I hope haha "
Just contain yourself until Friday and I'm sure there will be a very willing recipient... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've applied for a membership at xtasia so hopefully il be a regular there
I hope someone can show me the ropes
How do you like to be tied up? Any particular position?
Any position that you feel is of use... Make sure you do them knots properly, I'm a bit of a mover.
I think it's Julie who's going to be tied up that night... in a very sticky web!
I can't hold in my excitement anymore!
Can't bloody wait!
Don't peak too soon
I'm sure I can contain myself! well I hope haha
Just contain yourself until Friday and I'm sure there will be a very willing recipient... "
Ok that's a deal!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Need to get yourself verified through a social or webcam, social would be better. And personally if i come across a single male who cannot accommodate it normally suggests your hiding a wife or a gf. I know this doesn't put everybody off but it does a lot. If you live with housemates, state it on your profile. I know that the vast majority of regular women on here through talking to them would not meet someone who didn't have a verification or couldn't accommodate and said they were single. Hope i didn't sound ranty there, just trying to help you out. Good luck. x
How can a webcam veri be better than a social meet in person veri, anyone can switch on a cam, not everyone has balls to actually go out and meet people"
I meant social, obviously. See the way I changed it there x
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By *ibanditMan
over a year ago
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"You've obviously taken the advice given on board...I like your profile and pictures! "
Yeah, good job there, it's nice to see someone responding positively to the advice they've requested. Welcome to fab and enjoy your swinging! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've obviously taken the advice given on board...I like your profile and pictures!
Yeah, good job there, it's nice to see someone responding positively to the advice they've requested. Welcome to fab and enjoy your swinging!"
Thanks. Much appreciated.
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Anthony |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you have been here 7 months and still cant accomodate yet your single sends alarm bells ringing for me men will say anything to get a shag annoys the hell out of me i hate liars and cheats why i came here don't want all the crap a relationship brings yet you still get it here ! ppl shouldn't lie on here you shouldn't have to
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the replies.
I will keep your private jezza watching a secret
It's a great shame you're not closer.
I do drive so I can travel to clubs. I have said I will go to the Halloween party at champ as non members can go but have to be on the list. I will be enquiring about a membership at a few others too. "
Well i hope you get on the list, i can think of worse things to look at whilst lounging in the jacuzzi.
I have to say your profile was short and to the point i liked that, although a bit more personal stuff would have been good. Loved your tattoo's, and have to say if i was 20 yrs younger i'd be responding to any meet requests cos you are a sexy dude.
Good luck
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"you have been here 7 months and still cant accomodate yet your single sends alarm bells ringing for me men will say anything to get a shag annoys the hell out of me i hate liars and cheats why i came here don't want all the crap a relationship brings yet you still get it here ! ppl shouldn't lie on here you shouldn't have to
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But you're single too and can't accommodate? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you have been here 7 months and still cant accomodate yet your single sends alarm bells ringing for me men will say anything to get a shag annoys the hell out of me i hate liars and cheats why i came here don't want all the crap a relationship brings yet you still get it here ! ppl shouldn't lie on here you shouldn't have to
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I have to say its a little wrong that you judge me considering you don't know me. I could accommodate but recently my younger brother split up with his ex and has his 9 month old daughter full time and I have both of them living with me at the moment, not that I should have to explain myself to you. I hope this answers your small mind... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you have been here 7 months and still cant accomodate yet your single sends alarm bells ringing for me men will say anything to get a shag annoys the hell out of me i hate liars and cheats why i came here don't want all the crap a relationship brings yet you still get it here ! ppl shouldn't lie on here you shouldn't have to
That's a good point.
But you're single too and can't accommodate? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You have come across as a really nice guy; not whining about no meets like some. Welcome to Fab and the forums and looks like you're in for a fun time
ps. do you like lego? "
Thanks
I love Lego lol. The reason for the name is I have a bionical arm and neck tattoo. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"you have been here 7 months and still cant accomodate yet your single sends alarm bells ringing for me men will say anything to get a shag annoys the hell out of me i hate liars and cheats why i came here don't want all the crap a relationship brings yet you still get it here ! ppl shouldn't lie on here you shouldn't have to
I have to say its a little wrong that you judge me considering you don't know me. I could accommodate but recently my younger brother split up with his ex and has his 9 month old daughter full time and I have both of them living with me at the moment, not that I should have to explain myself to you. I hope this answers your small mind... "
dont justify yourself dude, you have no need to do so.
sometimes the bitterness that people carry is stunning.
do your thing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you have been here 7 months and still cant accomodate yet your single sends alarm bells ringing for me men will say anything to get a shag annoys the hell out of me i hate liars and cheats why i came here don't want all the crap a relationship brings yet you still get it here ! ppl shouldn't lie on here you shouldn't have to
I have to say its a little wrong that you judge me considering you don't know me. I could accommodate but recently my younger brother split up with his ex and has his 9 month old daughter full time and I have both of them living with me at the moment, not that I should have to explain myself to you. I hope this answers your small mind...
dont justify yourself dude, you have no need to do so.
sometimes the bitterness that people carry is stunning.
do your thing"
Thanks. It's a little disheartening when someone paints a picture of you when they don't know you and have no idea what the truth is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you have been here 7 months and still cant accomodate yet your single sends alarm bells ringing for me men will say anything to get a shag annoys the hell out of me i hate liars and cheats why i came here don't want all the crap a relationship brings yet you still get it here ! ppl shouldn't lie on here you shouldn't have to
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Pot/kettle springs to mind here...what a nasty comment...and don't get me started on the grammar!
OP this is one of the reasons it's worth taking your time to find the right "lady" to meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you have been here 7 months and still cant accomodate yet your single sends alarm bells ringing for me men will say anything to get a shag annoys the hell out of me i hate liars and cheats why i came here don't want all the crap a relationship brings yet you still get it here ! ppl shouldn't lie on here you shouldn't have to
Pot/kettle springs to mind here...what a nasty comment...and don't get me started on the grammar!
OP this is one of the reasons it's worth taking your time to find the right "lady" to meet "
maybe you're right. It was a nasty comment but as usual it's each to their own, we are all entitled to an opinion it's just a shame she didn't get to know me before she spoilt herself with her ill facts! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you have been here 7 months and still cant accomodate yet your single sends alarm bells ringing for me men will say anything to get a shag annoys the hell out of me i hate liars and cheats why i came here don't want all the crap a relationship brings yet you still get it here ! ppl shouldn't lie on here you shouldn't have to
I have to say its a little wrong that you judge me considering you don't know me. I could accommodate but recently my younger brother split up with his ex and has his 9 month old daughter full time and I have both of them living with me at the moment, not that I should have to explain myself to you. I hope this answers your small mind...
dont justify yourself dude, you have no need to do so.
sometimes the bitterness that people carry is stunning.
do your thing
Thanks. It's a little disheartening when someone paints a picture of you when they don't know you and have no idea what the truth is. "
As said just ignore it, rise above it There are some sad keyboard warriors on here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I won't let her get to me, as I say we all are entitled to our opinions and this time hers was wrong.
Il be rising above it tomorrow
Ooo I "wonder" why "
I like what you done there
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if u drive and single u should be able meet peeps no probs, like anyone is case of chatting and arranging an evening/night or if drive easy to get to a club surely..even if to just socialise least u be out meeting peeps |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if u drive and single u should be able meet peeps no probs, like anyone is case of chatting and arranging an evening/night or if drive easy to get to a club surely..even if to just socialise least u be out meeting peeps "
I have just had my membership approved at a club I'm going to tomorrow so hopefully il be getting in to the swing of things. Pardon the pun |
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over a year ago
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"if u drive and single u should be able meet peeps no probs, like anyone is case of chatting and arranging an evening/night or if drive easy to get to a club surely..even if to just socialise least u be out meeting peeps
I have just had my membership approved at a club I'm going to tomorrow so hopefully il be getting in to the swing of things. Pardon the pun "
thats good then, im sure u soon will |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if u drive and single u should be able meet peeps no probs, like anyone is case of chatting and arranging an evening/night or if drive easy to get to a club surely..even if to just socialise least u be out meeting peeps
I have just had my membership approved at a club I'm going to tomorrow so hopefully il be getting in to the swing of things. Pardon the pun
thats good then, im sure u soon will "
I'm not going to lie, I'm very excited with a hint of nervous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if u drive and single u should be able meet peeps no probs, like anyone is case of chatting and arranging an evening/night or if drive easy to get to a club surely..even if to just socialise least u be out meeting peeps
I have just had my membership approved at a club I'm going to tomorrow so hopefully il be getting in to the swing of things. Pardon the pun
thats good then, im sure u soon will I'm not going to lie, I'm very excited with a hint of nervous "
just go but dont with any expectations, as u never know what can happen..or if anything does. see it as a night out to meet peeps n socialise and enjoy. if anything extra happens then thats a bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if u drive and single u should be able meet peeps no probs, like anyone is case of chatting and arranging an evening/night or if drive easy to get to a club surely..even if to just socialise least u be out meeting peeps
I have just had my membership approved at a club I'm going to tomorrow so hopefully il be getting in to the swing of things. Pardon the pun
thats good then, im sure u soon will I'm not going to lie, I'm very excited with a hint of nervous
just go but dont with any expectations, as u never know what can happen..or if anything does. see it as a night out to meet peeps n socialise and enjoy. if anything extra happens then thats a bonus. "
That's a good way to think of it.
I'm so glad I posted in the forum now, you're all lovely beautiful people.
Thanks. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if u drive and single u should be able meet peeps no probs, like anyone is case of chatting and arranging an evening/night or if drive easy to get to a club surely..even if to just socialise least u be out meeting peeps
I have just had my membership approved at a club I'm going to tomorrow so hopefully il be getting in to the swing of things. Pardon the pun
thats good then, im sure u soon will I'm not going to lie, I'm very excited with a hint of nervous
just go but dont with any expectations, as u never know what can happen..or if anything does. see it as a night out to meet peeps n socialise and enjoy. if anything extra happens then thats a bonus.
That's a good way to think of it.
I'm so glad I posted in the forum now, you're all lovely beautiful people.
Thanks. X"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you have been here 7 months and still cant accomodate yet your single sends alarm bells ringing for me men will say anything to get a shag annoys the hell out of me i hate liars and cheats why i came here don't want all the crap a relationship brings yet you still get it here ! ppl shouldn't lie on here you shouldn't have to
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really pisses me off people with this mindset, ive been on the site 2 years (2nd profile) and have never been able to accom, has nothing to do with hiding a relationship or anything like that, im my granmothers live in carer hence why i cant, and for the fact it comes from a single profile that cant accom makes it even worse! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you have been here 7 months and still cant accomodate yet your single sends alarm bells ringing for me men will say anything to get a shag annoys the hell out of me i hate liars and cheats why i came here don't want all the crap a relationship brings yet you still get it here ! ppl shouldn't lie on here you shouldn't have to
really pisses me off people with this mindset, ive been on the site 2 years (2nd profile) and have never been able to accom, has nothing to do with hiding a relationship or anything like that, im my granmothers live in carer hence why i cant, and for the fact it comes from a single profile that cant accom makes it even worse! "
I couldn't agree more. I find it an utter cheek the fact she tried to judge when in fact she can't accom herself.
She's the only person I've come across on here so far who's been a cock! I'd love to hear what she has to say now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not very often you come across them mate but id avoid them if they stated that on their profiles anyway tbf, plenty more out there that dont mind, ive found most couples accom anyway and if not theres always clubs/hotels |
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By *ike74Man
over a year ago
newport |
"Thank you all for your replies. I am 25, 26 next week.
As for being a fighter... I am a professional fighter (it's a sport) I'm not a thug who decides to go out, get pissed and start fights... I fight in a controlled manor, and along with my form of martial arts I also learnt respect and discipline!
My picture is not inviting? Well what other picture do I put up?
Again I appreciate all of your comments.
Anthony "
lose the ring shot
smile on a photo
and be a little bit more forward on what you are looking for.
been said try the forums and a club maybe?? good luck both times a jokey comment has got me started .... dont know the style of message but come at a different angle then sex sex sex etc about feelings as well??
hope this helps if not still enjoy site and good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you all for your replies. I am 25, 26 next week.
As for being a fighter... I am a professional fighter (it's a sport) I'm not a thug who decides to go out, get pissed and start fights... I fight in a controlled manor, and along with my form of martial arts I also learnt respect and discipline!
o
My picture is not inviting? Well what other picture do I put up?
Again I appreciate all of your comments.
Anthony
lose the ring shot
smile on a photo
and be a little bit more forward on what you are looking for.
been said try the forums and a club maybe?? good luck both times a jokey comment has got me started .... dont know the style of message but come at a different angle then sex sex sex etc about feelings as well??
hope this helps if not still enjoy site and good luck x"
sorry I prefer his pics to yours... and id meet him over you |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I'd say that your interests are your interests and you shouldn't change them to try to appeal more widely. You need to work out how to attract the people who interest you as yourself. Trying to be what others want, or expect, will usually lead to disappointment all round.
25 is quite young, to me. It's at the bottom end of the age range I'll consider and I usually prefer guys in their 30's and 40's. That said, some 20 year olds can be more mature than some 40 year olds.
You're undeniably attractive and you have some great photos - the boxing ring one is really hot.
If you sent me a (decent) message I would probably reply. I'd wonder why a hot 25 year old was messaging me though! Whether it went anywhere would depend on whether you kept my interest over the course of a few messages, whether I felt we had anything in common and my gut feeling about whether everything felt basically ok.
Once you get the hang of this I think you could do very well. I'd concentrate on working out how to write first messages that capture the reader's interest and on how to keep it.
Good luck. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"if u drive and single u should be able meet peeps no probs, like anyone is case of chatting and arranging an evening/night or if drive easy to get to a club surely..even if to just socialise least u be out meeting peeps
I have just had my membership approved at a club I'm going to tomorrow so hopefully il be getting in to the swing of things. Pardon the pun
thats good then, im sure u soon will I'm not going to lie, I'm very excited with a hint of nervous
just go but dont with any expectations, as u never know what can happen..or if anything does. see it as a night out to meet peeps n socialise and enjoy. if anything extra happens then thats a bonus.
That's a good way to think of it.
I'm so glad I posted in the forum now, you're all lovely beautiful people.
Thanks. X"
A lot of it is down to how you posted and how you've responded to the advice you've been given. Stick around and you'll see men asking the same basic question in a different way. They usually get a very different response.
Take some of the credit for approaching this really well. I hope you find all the fun you're looking for here because it sounds like you deserve it. |
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"if u drive and single u should be able meet peeps no probs, like anyone is case of chatting and arranging an evening/night or if drive easy to get to a club surely..even if to just socialise least u be out meeting peeps
I have just had my membership approved at a club I'm going to tomorrow so hopefully il be getting in to the swing of things. Pardon the pun
thats good then, im sure u soon will I'm not going to lie, I'm very excited with a hint of nervous
just go but dont with any expectations, as u never know what can happen..or if anything does. see it as a night out to meet peeps n socialise and enjoy. if anything extra happens then thats a bonus.
That's a good way to think of it.
I'm so glad I posted in the forum now, you're all lovely beautiful people.
Thanks. X
A lot of it is down to how you posted and how you've responded to the advice you've been given. Stick around and you'll see men asking the same basic question in a different way. They usually get a very different response.
Take some of the credit for approaching this really well. I hope you find all the fun you're looking for here because it sounds like you deserve it."
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Thank you all for your replies. I am 25, 26 next week.
As for being a fighter... I am a professional fighter (it's a sport) I'm not a thug who decides to go out, get pissed and start fights... I fight in a controlled manor, and along with my form of martial arts I also learnt respect and discipline!
o
My picture is not inviting? Well what other picture do I put up?
Again I appreciate all of your comments.
Anthony
lose the ring shot
smile on a photo
and be a little bit more forward on what you are looking for.
been said try the forums and a club maybe?? good luck both times a jokey comment has got me started .... dont know the style of message but come at a different angle then sex sex sex etc about feelings as well??
hope this helps if not still enjoy site and good luck x
sorry I prefer his pics to yours... and id meet him over you "
Agree. A lot. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks everyone. I'm going to my first club tonight so hopefully il get verified too.
I appreciate all the kind words. I do need to brush up on my first message skills. I can hold a convocation as long as I'm getting something to work with in return. Nothing worse then fighting to keep It flowing when you're the only one contributing.
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