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Still Neva met anyone of here
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You've been here four weeks and have photos of yourself . ..
How is anyone to notice you from the hundreds of other profiles ? 
Sarcasm aside ....
You've got to stand out from the crowd ..
Grab their attention ...
Do something positive ....
And keep at it | |||
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"Must not be having much luck Ha"really? and you sound like a bit of a catch too  | |||
"Must not be having much luck Ha
really? and you sound like a bit of a catch too "gosh _ackandkate, it don't take much to persuade you | |||
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"8 words and no pictures. I suspect that that total lack of effort may have something to do with your total lack of results." Thank you for making me smile, on what was looking to be a rather uneventful day.
Joking aside, that pretty much sums it up much more eloquently than I could have put it.
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"Must not be having much luck Ha"What's luck got to do with it? Make an effort with your profile in the first instance...photos, a few paragraphs of info, spell check, and really, "Master"!!!??? | |||
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"Must not be having much luck Ha"You make your own luck... but I recommend you listen to the advice, act on it and maybe it will work. Otherwise buy a magic lamp with a genie inside | |||
" Otherwise buy a magic lamp with a genie inside "I want one | |||
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"8 words and no pictures. I suspect that that total lack of effort may have something to do with your total lack of results." This is the right answer. Plus you're 26 Plus you're only looking for FF couples or females Plus you have only been on here 4 weeks | |||
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"Chin up...Rome was'nt built in a day "Dont know? I wasn't on that particular job  | |||
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"Although there is a very strong temptation to be harsh.... here are a couple of observations. 'Neva' may be intended as ironic, but runs a high risk of being interpreted as being illiterate. If you take the effort to post seeking advice, allow others to spend their time giving it, why is it that you appear to have ignored EVERY suggestion? High risk of being interpreted as lazy or, worse still, arrogant. If you don't like what you're getting out, change what you're putting in!" To be fair, he hasn't logged in since his OP. | |||
"Here we go again "why bother posting, just pass by if this is all you have to say, people are allowed to post threads even if they have been done before. | |||
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" Otherwise buy a magic lamp with a genie inside
I want one "I got one,,, it had a female genie inside, I rubbed the lamp and a cloud of smoke appeared and she stood before me,,, ,,,,,,,,,,,,
she said " you have One wish,,, anything your heart desires choose wisely,,!!"
I thought for a moment then said " I d like my co*k to touch the floor,,!",,,
A puff of smoke and the genie disappeared,, and the next moment,
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my legs fell off,,  | |||
"You live in Blackpool mate, get yourself into one of the clubs, and you'll be sorted. Don't waste any more of your youth in here "I have to agree. Studied and lived on Blackpool for 5 years.. done and seen more than many folks dream of.. your in theSin capital of the Northwest.. | |||
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"We've also had no meets yet been let down 3 times . What are we doin wrong . Any advice " not a thing , your profile if hot out   | |||
"We've also had no meets yet been let down 3 times . What are we doin wrong . Any advice " The profile is honest but probably doing you no favours. | |||
"We've also had no meets yet been let down 3 times . What are we doin wrong . Any advice The profile is honest but probably doing you no favours. " Im interested to know your reasons? | |||
"We've also had no meets yet been let down 3 times . What are we doin wrong . Any advice The profile is honest but probably doing you no favours. Im interested to know your reasons?" Reads that they are more interested in the fantasy than the reality. Would we risk meeting a couple who mention being interested in picture swap and cam before they talk about swinging and state that they don't know how far they'd go? Not a chance. Like I said I admire the honesty but anyone that is just looking for a cheap thrill on cam or pictures to wank over. | |||
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"To the op... You do not look very bright by the way you gave witten the the thread title...." The irony.... | |||
"Here we go again ....
You've been here four weeks and have photos of yourself . ..
How is anyone to notice you from the hundreds of other profiles ?
Sarcasm aside ....
You've got to stand out from the crowd ..
Grab their attention ...
Do something positive ....
And keep at it " | |||
"We've also had no meets yet been let down 3 times . What are we doin wrong . Any advice " As others have wisely said your profile does read very much as a bunch of fantasists. There will be people into this but there wont be many of them honestly we really get bored of camming and picture swapping its just not a pale on the real thing. | |||
" Otherwise buy a magic lamp with a genie inside
I want one
I got one,,, it had a female genie inside, I rubbed the lamp and a cloud of smoke appeared and she stood before me,,, ,,,,,,,,,,,,
she said " you have One wish,,, anything your heart desires choose wisely,,!!"
I thought for a moment then said " I d like my co*k to touch the floor,,!",,,
A puff of smoke and the genie disappeared,, and the next moment,
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my legs fell off,, "If you can do a Dervish dance on it...there's your act for the next social | |||
"Here we go again
why bother posting, just pass by if this is all you have to say, people are allowed to post threads even if they have been done before." | |||
"We've also had no meets yet been let down 3 times . What are we doin wrong . Any advice " Personally can't see who would meet you. That's not meant in a nasty way but you're into soft swap, claim to be bi curious but don't know how far you want to go, you don't accommodate so I'd be hesitant in booking a hotel as doubt you'd turn up. Your profile is honest: paradoxically, you're honesty is probably what's putting people off! | |||
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"OK re-worded, hopefully much better? And to the OP, sorry for hijacking your thread xx" Much better | |||
"Thanks for all the replies. Not sure how to re-word it really. We are genuinely not sure how we would feel on the night, and don't want repercussions on our relationship. We are really more miffed about the folks who arrange to meet us and then fizzle away into the ether, as that impacts on our weekends and childcare arrangements.I would rather we got no response at all. It seems we either go the whole hog and agree to let them fuck us both or sit watching cams lol! (oh, and we are the TARGET of pic collectors , nbot the other way around!). " I think your profile is great, not everyone on here expects you to jump into this with both feet. Stick to your guns and you will find the right couple who you can relax with and explore at your own pace. Really shit that people have stood you up, their loss x | |||
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"OK re-worded, hopefully much better? And to the OP, sorry for hijacking your thread xx" I didn't see your previous worded profile but this one looks fine to me. Exciting times eh? | |||
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"Lot of useful advice on here. Single guys shouldn't assume there are a lot of desperate women available. " So true..been asked to meet hundreds of people have said no to everyone except one girl..as a lot of guys just assume its a done deal in the first mesage  | |||
"Thanks for all the replies. Not sure how to re-word it really. We are genuinely not sure how we would feel on the night, and don't want repercussions on our relationship. We are really more miffed about the folks who arrange to meet us and then fizzle away into the ether, as that impacts on our weekends and childcare arrangements.I would rather we got no response at all. It seems we either go the whole hog and agree to let them fuck us both or sit watching cams lol! (oh, and we are the TARGET of pic collectors , nbot the other way around!). " I've had a quick look & the main thing that sticks out to me with your profile is the lack of pics of the fella? There are 16 pics of Mrs & one of Mr? Yes, there are more pics of me (Mrs) on ours than of my fella but there are still several varied pics of him which show you pretty much exactly what we both look like from every angle, I think it's important to have varied pics of both of the couple. Also the fact that you don't know what you want from a meet will put a lot of people off. Set an initial boundary for your first meet ie soft swap. If it goes well & you both want to do more next time then great, if not you'll know where to draw your line. Can't understand why people keep flaking on you, but there will always be time wasters. Good luck x | |||
"Thanks for all the replies. Not sure how to re-word it really. We are genuinely not sure how we would feel on the night, and don't want repercussions on our relationship. We are really more miffed about the folks who arrange to meet us and then fizzle away into the ether, as that impacts on our weekends and childcare arrangements.I would rather we got no response at all. It seems we either go the whole hog and agree to let them fuck us both or sit watching cams lol! (oh, and we are the TARGET of pic collectors , nbot the other way around!). I've had a quick look & the main thing that sticks out to me with your profile is the lack of pics of the fella? There are 16 pics of Mrs & one of Mr? Yes, there are more pics of me (Mrs) on ours than of my fella but there are still several varied pics of him which show you pretty much exactly what we both look like from every angle, I think it's important to have varied pics of both of the couple. Also the fact that you don't know what you want from a meet will put a lot of people off. Set an initial boundary for your first meet ie soft swap. If it goes well & you both want to do more next time then great, if not you'll know where to draw your line. Can't understand why people keep flaking on you, but there will always be time wasters. Good luck x" Thanks. The pics of Mr have his face showing, so we have them available privately. We are gonna stop trying at all and see what crops up xx | |||
"Thanks. The pics of Mr have his face showing, so we have them available privately. We are gonna stop trying at all and see what crops up xx"Maybe worth thinking about cropping his face or blurring it (this can be done easily with windows paint) so you can have some more of him public? The lack of his pics might put people off, so they never get as far as seeing your friend only pics? It's only a suggestion & ofcourse it is your profile & you should have it the way you feel more comfortable. We've certainly had a lot more 'luck' and interest since we added more varied pics to ours. Not actively looking for meets for a little while seems a good idea to me - sometimes it can become stressful & you can feel frustrated to the point you lose sight of why you were originally looking - to have some fun!! Enjoy guys Xxx | |||
