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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok my husband ex gf came over the house the other day, we've fantasies a lot about him having sex with her and sending me pics to tease me, thing is when she was there I got so jealous and told him I didn't want it again even though I was wet thinking about it, he's arranged for her to come over next week, he knows he can have her again and I really want him to, thing is will it be sex all will he fall for her again x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok my husband ex gf came over the house the other day, we've fantasies a lot about him having sex with her and sending me pics to tease me, thing is when she was there I got so jealous and told him I didn't want it again even though I was wet thinking about it, he's arranged for her to come over next week, he knows he can have her again and I really want him to, thing is will it be sex all will he fall for her again x"
is an hours sexual pleasure really worth the days/months/years of insecurity/agonising afterwards? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok my husband ex gf came over the house the other day, we've fantasies a lot about him having sex with her and sending me pics to tease me, thing is when she was there I got so jealous and told him I didn't want it again even though I was wet thinking about it, he's arranged for her to come over next week, he knows he can have her again and I really want him to, thing is will it be sex all will he fall for her again x"
Sounds like a very bad idea to me! I know I wouldn't like that one little bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just say "hunni glad to meet you I'm the upgrade" "
well, seeings as you have no idea how the last relationship ended, so its a hell of a thing to jump to th conclusion it was the woman that did wrong.
on the subject, however, you told him you didnt want her round again, so he took it into account and organised her to come next week so he can smash her back doors in for you?
well, i have no more words.
he sounds like a right catch.
maybe it would be a lucky escape if he were to go back to her.
then maybe you could get yourself a fella that listens to your feelings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think this is one of those questions where you already know the answer yourself. I'm pretty sure you just need to be vindicated in how you feel about this situation. I hope the general consensus in responses has done that for you.
My rule of thumb is... Any doubts and don't do it! |
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"Ok my husband ex gf came over the house the other day, we've fantasies a lot about him having sex with her and sending me pics to tease me, thing is when she was there I got so jealous and told him I didn't want it again even though I was wet thinking about it, he's arranged for her to come over next week, he knows he can have her again and I really want him to, thing is will it be sex all will he fall for her again x"
Some things can be extremely hot in fantasy land but completely wrong in real life.
Personally I think he is being selfish if you have told him you didn't want him to do it again but he is anyway.
I know I wouldn't feel comfortable thinking of my OH with his ex like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok my husband ex gf came over the house the other day, we've fantasies a lot about him having sex with her and sending me pics to tease me, thing is when she was there I got so jealous and told him I didn't want it again even though I was wet thinking about it, he's arranged for her to come over next week, he knows he can have her again and I really want him to, thing is will it be sex all will he fall for her again x"
Your heading for disaster if you let it happen again, are you trying to keep your husband happy by allowing him to fuck his ex? Ok it makes you wet.. But it also fills you with jealousy which could easily turn into regrets and insecurity.
My opinion would be just to leave it as a fantasy |
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By *corcherMan
over a year ago
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It's been said before. If you're not secure in your relationship to do this & you have doubts, don't do it. It's all about everyone having fun & you don't sound like you are.
You need to talk this through with your other half so you both know how you feel before you do anything. If he's half the man he should be, he'll listen to your worries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt do it ask him how he would feel if you wanted your ex to join in and if he would ok watching your ex making love to you not just sex proper love making as thats what is going on there she may want his love and he may give it to her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I bull, have been in this situation before, me and my ex split up I got with another women. And we had a three some with my ex gf. First time we did it was great, I'd happened a second time and my gf walked out of the hotel room in the morning because I was cwtched into my ex, I moved in my sleep, three weeks later we break up. It might be good and horny fun at the time but it can cause problems later down the road  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"be like opening a can of worms me thinks...."
Me too.. it could possibly destroy everything.. your already struggling with jealousy.. and to be honest it's playing with fire... Where there is previous emotional commitment I would stay well clear.
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now this is why you should firmly leave your hubby at home oblivious and tinkering with the car! Then you get him to yourself and everything else you want!
Shoot folks shoot |
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
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"Ok my husband ex gf came over the house the other day, we've fantasies a lot about him having sex with her and sending me pics to tease me, thing is when she was there I got so jealous and told him I didn't want it again even though I was wet thinking about it, he's arranged for her to come over next week, he knows he can have her again and I really want him to, thing is will it be sex all will he fall for her again x"
keep exes in the past |
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Question I have is why would she want to go there with him of she is the ex and he is with you now?
In a moment of sheer lunacy I had sex some years ago with my ex hubby , just thinking about that now makes my toes curl with revulsion.
Fantasies are called fantasies for a reason! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok my husband ex gf came over the house the other day, we've fantasies a lot about him having sex with her and sending me pics to tease me, thing is when she was there I got so jealous and told him I didn't want it again even though I was wet thinking about it, he's arranged for her to come over next week, he knows he can have her again and I really want him to, thing is will it be sex all will he fall for her again x"
I see bit of contradiction here unless i misreading it. You say you get wet and then u got jealous which is understandable and told o h you dont want it again yet yiu say she coming over next week and he can have her again. If you said to o h no more then why you allowing her over and allowing him to have her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Danger!!! This would kill me..I just couldn't let my mr do that. Whats in the past stays in the past. . As someone said some fantasys should be left at that |
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Can not even see why you are talking, let alone considering something that is clearly going to end very badly.
