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Not getting much look on here!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm not getting really much look on here with women,majority just seem to be ignorant and ignore my message. Can anyone help,where am I going wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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open your eyes.
always helps whilst looking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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9 weeks is a short time here.
Took me over 4 months to get my first meet. Patience is a virtue here.
Use the chat rooms and stgart to get to know people in your area. if you can get to some socials, i hear they are good for breaking the ice.
good luck out there sir.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not getting really much look on here with women,majority just seem to be ignorant and ignore my message. Can anyone help,where am I going wrong?"
I concur, noone reads or responds, Im not just a horny young lad haha
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They're not being ignorant, they don't have to reply to you.
Your pics are a bit, well...creepy really. And your description basically says you like sex. Who doesn't? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your pics don't help ever most woman ant in to full on beards soRry to say like  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ah cheers for help,will go on chat rooms more and maybe your right getting to no people a bit more,nice one! |
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Here's a bit from the site FAQ...
There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was thinking that about pics my self  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They're not being ignorant, they don't have to reply to you.
Your pics are a bit, well...creepy really. And your description basically says you like sex. Who doesn't?"
I hate sex....thank god i am here really, lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try selling yourself. Get rid of the crap on your face. Be nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now that isn't a nice response either. Some will like beards.
What I do not like is being called an ignorant by someone who really should consult his dictionary. I will ignore him, but that's a totally different kettle of prawns. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try selling yourself. Get rid of the crap on your face. Be nice "
some like beards, thankfully, cuz i wont shave mine off for anyone, as V likes it.
that the problem with asking for advice.
everyones will be based on personal preference.
lose the bit about being told what to do.
have found people on here dont really like to teach others how to have sex, rather just tweak what they already do to suit their own requirements |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes,dont message anyone wait for them to message you then theres no disappointment and your giving ignorant ones your time they might not deserve  |
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You've had some good advice so far. I have to agree with the comment on your photos ... in one you're lurking naked in a corner and the other looks like you're leering.
As for the face fur, some like it, some don't. I personally think yours makes you look older - and not in a good way. I'm not saying you should shave it off (that's your choice) but maybe trim it and make it more 'current'?
Your profile text definitely needs re-vamping. To sum up, your profile isn't 'marketing' you well at all.
Have a look at some other single guy profiles and see if there are any that look really appealing (great pics, engaging text etc) - and then perhaps apply the same approach to your own profile but remembering to keep it unique to 'you'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not getting really much look on here with women,majority just seem to be ignorant and ignore my message. Can anyone help,where am I going wrong?"
Your profile is less than 3 lines long and your pictures are far from the best on here. With that little effort how did you really expect to get on? |
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I concur with the above comments.
Why are you in a corner? It looks a bit odd. |
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I concur with the above comments.
Why are you in a corner? It looks a bit odd. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know how you haven't for women falling at your feet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not getting really much look on here with women,majority just seem to be ignorant and ignore my message. Can anyone help,where am I going wrong?
I concur, noone reads or responds, Im not just a horny young lad haha
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The problem you have is that it probably comes across that you are a horny lad that just wants a shag. And a lot of the women on here are looking for quality sex not just any sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not getting really much look on here with women,majority just seem to be ignorant and ignore my message. Can anyone help,where am I going wrong?"
possibly a bit more thought into your words and pic, oh, and spelling check would be a good idea, there are some classy birds on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to go and see the lurking in the corner pic...  |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
You get out if this site what you put in....and unfortunately, looking at your profile, you haven't put much in!
Oh, and spell checking is a good idea, took me a while to work out what you meant when you say you want to meet 'eomen'!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It looks like you've been caught somewhere you shouldn't be and you're trying to hide... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to go and see the lurking in the corner pic... "
Be careful, I'm scared now and am going to have to sleep with the lights on tonight  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You get out if this site what you put in....and unfortunately, looking at your profile, you haven't put much in!
Oh, and spell checking is a good idea, took me a while to work out what you meant when you say you want to meet 'eomen'!!! "
the bloke that sometimes does this morning with his wife ruth?
who wouldnt want to meet him? lol |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
Lol....im assuming he means 'women' but your version is funnier! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nahh me meither but I thought fuck it just get on with it. |
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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago
Leeds. |
Those photo's are seriously creepy virging on sinister. The one of you in the corner looks like the home owner has arrived home and caught you up to no good.
Try some better pics. They make you look much older than you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I concur with the above comments.
Why are you in a corner? It looks a bit odd. "
Looks like you are going to jump out and flash whoever is in the garden.
Take some better pics for sure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not referring to the women on site as ignorant might be a good starting point!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the same one here but you just got to wait |
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"I concur with the above comments.
Why are you in a corner? It looks a bit odd.
Looks like you are going to jump out and flash whoever is in the garden.
Take some better pics for sure!"
Hmmm it does look like your involved in a game of naked hide and seek! Also I would always re read what I have written in my profile and check for any spelling mistakes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not referring to the women on site as ignorant might be a good starting point! "
well said |
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Know what? I keep reading these 'What am I doing wrong threads' and see the standard "takes time some people take months to get a meet" responses along with profile advise, recommendations to go to socials and whatnots and I just think to myself I must be one hell of a lucky short arsed black fella
Five meets in the first month (only three verified, one of which has since left) but since I started using the forums I can't be arsed anymore with new meets. Lucky and weird I guess...... |
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Although I think your use of "look" was just an ill conceived use of semantics, Luck should have very little to do with a man's success
effort ,attitude, understanding empathy, patience self awareness and a sense of humour most of which a person is in full control of have a much greater bearing on your position than "look" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fake it till you make it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I concur with the above comments.
Why are you in a corner? It looks a bit odd.
Looks like you are going to jump out and flash whoever is in the garden.
Take some better pics for sure!
Hmmm it does look like your involved in a game of naked hide and seek! Also I would always re read what I have written in my profile and check for any spelling mistakes. "
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Lose the beard ..ladies as a general rule do not like.
look at some of the popular male posters and take note of their fotos and profiles. Dont imagine people have to answer your messages. If we read profiles and nothing appeals we will not reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not getting really much look on here with women,majority just seem to be ignorant and ignore my message. Can anyone help,where am I going wrong?"
Oh its not you, its us women on here!!!
I mean we should be grateful that guys are interested in us, we should be fucking every guy who sends us a message, after all its a sex site isnt it?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forget sending emails - get into chat rooms and forums - and get out to clubs and socials |
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"I'm not getting really much look on here with women,majority just seem to be ignorant and ignore my message. Can anyone help,where am I going wrong?
Oh its not you, its us women on here!!!
I mean we should be grateful that guys are interested in us, we should be fucking every guy who sends us a message, after all its a sex site isnt it??"
You have exactly the right attitude, should be more of you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not getting really much look on here with women,majority just seem to be ignorant and ignore my message. Can anyone help,where am I going wrong?
Oh its not you, its us women on here!!!
I mean we should be grateful that guys are interested in us, we should be fucking every guy who sends us a message, after all its a sex site isnt it??
You have exactly the right attitude, should be more of you "
Why thankyou  |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
Think we can leave it there |
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