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Not with me you wouldn't need to finish with a hand job 
It's all down to technique, as the lady says.
Had guys say they have never have cum off one (BJ) ....... but they couldn't say that after our session 
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over a year ago
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"Not with me you wouldn't need to finish with a hand job
It's all down to technique, as the lady says.
Had guys say they have never have cum off one (BJ) ....... but they couldn't say that after our session
Jojo "
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over a year ago
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"I've never cum from a blowjob, I enjoy them but have never cum from them, usually finish with a handjob, is this common?
I hear a challenge "
I need a lesson ha ha |
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over a year ago
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"I've never cum from a blowjob, I enjoy them but have never cum from them, usually finish with a handjob, is this common? "
im the same, i have reduced sensitivity in the head due to nerve damage i had as a toddler, i can never quite get there. |
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"I've never cum from a blowjob, I enjoy them but have never cum from them, usually finish with a handjob, is this common? "
It isn't uncommon. I've never cum from one either. There was a thread not too long ago, and quite a few guys that posted in there were in the same boat.
If you enjoy them, then not much to worry about. Could be worse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife has a very warm, smooth and sensuous blow job technique which never fails to get me off.
Her regular lover however loves her to suck his cock but will never cum from her efforts, he's just wired that way and she understands it perfectly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to love the notion that some think they are so good at them no one could possibly resist  "
I will openly admit that sometimes it just doesn't work. But as others say - as long as the moment is enjoyed, then all is well. There are other ways to reach a climax. |
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Sometimes, i think people get too fixated over the cumming from a blowjob bit. In some cases, it can get a bit like the female equivalent of those men that think they have to make every woman they meet squirt and/or gush. And we all know not every woman does.
Same with guys. But hey, if you fancy a case of lockjaw and drymouth, knock yourself out with a guy who can't cum from a bj. Some challenge that would be.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never cum from a blowjob, I enjoy them but have never cum from them, usually finish with a handjob, is this common?
im the same, i have reduced sensitivity in the head due to nerve damage i had as a toddler, i can never quite get there."
The head of your penis is irrelevant, its having your prostate massaged that will make you cum |
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over a year ago
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i have never either, and it ant be the technique as everyone else does with V.
funny how the women that have posted you would with them havent been shot down in flames like the blokes that post they can make any woman squirt. |
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"My wife has a very warm, smooth and sensuous blow job technique which never fails to get me off.
Her regular lover however loves her to suck his cock but will never cum from her efforts, he's just wired that way and she understands it perfectly "
Your wife obviously understands that people are different and sex isn't about achieving a target but about mutual pleasure, sounds like a knowledgeable woman  |
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"My wife has a very warm, smooth and sensuous blow job technique which never fails to get me off.
Her regular lover however loves her to suck his cock but will never cum from her efforts, he's just wired that way and she understands it perfectly
Your wife obviously understands that people are different and sex isn't about achieving a target but about mutual pleasure, sounds like a knowledgeable woman "
Couldn't agree more |
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"i have never either, and it ant be the technique as everyone else does with V.
funny how the women that have posted you would with them havent been shot down in flames like the blokes that post they can make any woman squirt. "
Same old story |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My guy tells me it's the whole package...how it looks when he's watching, how wet, sloppy, animated the lady is, does she look as though she's enjoying it..and of course if he's really attracted to her.... |
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"i have never either, and it ant be the technique as everyone else does with V.
funny how the women that have posted you would with them havent been shot down in flames like the blokes that post they can make any woman squirt. "
Yeah but can't be arsed,im not going to piss on their perfect bj parade,its the same in a tight pussy thread,loads will come in saying they're so tight they could break fingers and cocks off......ok then |
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"i have never either, and it ant be the technique as everyone else does with V.
funny how the women that have posted you would with them havent been shot down in flames like the blokes that post they can make any woman squirt.
Yeah but can't be arsed,im not going to piss on their perfect bj parade,its the same in a tight pussy thread,loads will come in saying they're so tight they could break fingers and cocks off......ok then "
That would be one hell of a pussy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have never either, and it ant be the technique as everyone else does with V.
funny how the women that have posted you would with them havent been shot down in flames like the blokes that post they can make any woman squirt.
Yeah but can't be arsed,im not going to piss on their perfect bj parade,its the same in a tight pussy thread,loads will come in saying they're so tight they could break fingers and cocks off......ok then
That would be one hell of a pussy "
Super snatch! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we have all hurt someone during receiving a blow job, maybe even suffocated someone, so I suppose its fear, fear of your huge thick cock actually killing someone...... |
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
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"My wife has a very warm, smooth and sensuous blow job technique which never fails to get me off.
Her regular lover however loves her to suck his cock but will never cum from her efforts, he's just wired that way and she understands it perfectly
Your wife obviously understands that people are different and sex isn't about achieving a target but about mutual pleasure, sounds like a knowledgeable woman
Couldn't agree more "
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"i have never either, and it ant be the technique as everyone else does with V.
funny how the women that have posted you would with them havent been shot down in flames like the blokes that post they can make any woman squirt.
Yeah but can't be arsed,im not going to piss on their perfect bj parade,its the same in a tight pussy thread,loads will come in saying they're so tight they could break fingers and cocks off......ok then
That would be one hell of a pussy
Super snatch! "
I have a theme song in my head now and everything |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
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Wah wah and everything ....
Now just need to see black shadow walking down bridge street with a long black coat, no doubt that crusty dreadlock guitarist sitting next to HSBC bashing out chords by his side. |
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"Wah wah and everything ....
Now just need to see black shadow walking down bridge street with a long black coat, no doubt that crusty dreadlock guitarist sitting next to HSBC bashing out chords by his side."
Don't tempt me, hehe  |
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By *nly-AliceWoman
over a year ago
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"My guy tells me it's the whole package...how it looks when he's watching, how wet, sloppy, animated the lady is, does she look as though she's enjoying it..and of course if he's really attracted to her...."
Agree, it's all of the above. But even then not every guy can cum this way. It's just like not all women can orgasm through penetration alone no matter how much they enjoy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My hubby has NEVER cum through a bj, with me or anybody in the past. It doesn't bother him at all. Conversely, I would LOVE him to do so as its the one thing we haven't been able to achieve together. Well, I'll have to just keep trying! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive got a 99.7 % success rate ! Lol xI can generally make guys cum who have never cum before ! The look of wonder and amazement is priceless xx "
That sounds wonderful! You should bring out an educational video. You're sitting on a goldmine.  |
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Have to say I've never thought about my personal bj success stats, but then I guess that might be because I don't give a shit about that. I prefer to be involved in having a fun relaxed intimate time, not a technique session. |
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"Ive got a 99.7 % success rate ! Lol xI can generally make guys cum who have never cum before ! The look of wonder and amazement is priceless xx
That sounds wonderful! You should bring out an educational video. You're sitting on a goldmine. "
I just snorted my drink everywhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Does it matter though?
Some do, some don't - I personally find it a turn off when it becomes a battle of "who can make who cum this way/that way/first" etc..
It's the journey, not the destination for me! (how you got there doesn't matter much either, as long as it was enjoyable for all!) |
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"He'll no does it matter!! I don't come from having my neck kissed or my balls played with but hell it feels soooo nice!! "
I wonder how long before someone claims its only because they haven't done it to you |
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"Sometimes, i think people get too fixated over the cumming from a blowjob bit. In some cases, it can get a bit like the female equivalent of those men that think they have to make every woman they meet squirt and/or gush. And we all know not every woman does.
Same with guys. But hey, if you fancy a case of lockjaw and drymouth, knock yourself out with a guy who can't cum from a bj. Some challenge that would be...."
Very true. I'll not be accepting the challenge. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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Isn't a BJ just part of the banquet sex has to offer?
Unfortunately I am not one of those women who can make any man orgasm with my mouth.
I used to feel bad and inadequate that I couldn't. Now I realise that not all men can or indeed want to. Makes for much more relaxed sex and then I can concentrate on other things he may prefer.
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I can't say I have either but I don't think I'm bad at them?! I think of sex is relaxed and we stop worrying about the ultimate bj or making a girl squirt we could just relax and have a fabulous time!
I would rather just relax in a mans company and enjoy my evening |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"I can't say I have either but I don't think I'm bad at them?! I think of sex is relaxed and we stop worrying about the ultimate bj or making a girl squirt we could just relax and have a fabulous time!
I would rather just relax in a mans company and enjoy my evening "
Exactly |
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"I can't say I have either but I don't think I'm bad at them?! I think of sex is relaxed and we stop worrying about the ultimate bj or making a girl squirt we could just relax and have a fabulous time!
I would rather just relax in a mans company and enjoy my evening "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well, you enjoy your achievements, dear, and concentrate on your quest for those elusive few percentages that keep you from the perfect score.
Us mere mortals will just relax and have a wonderful time with our holistic view on sex and intimacy. |
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"Ive got a 99.7 % success rate ! Lol xI can generally make guys cum who have never cum before ! The look of wonder and amazement is priceless xx
That sounds wonderful! You should bring out an educational video. You're sitting on a goldmine.
Funny enough thats what most of my veri's say to me too !!"
Whatever helps you sleep at night i guess. |
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"Well, you enjoy your achievements, dear, and concentrate on your quest for those elusive few percentages that keep you from the perfect score.
Us mere mortals will just relax and have a wonderful time with our holistic view on sex and intimacy. "
I made the percentage up !! Jeez |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That doesn't put it in a better light, does it? In a thread where people very honestly own up to not achieving the mythical, such a post puts hackles up. |
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