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over a year ago
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When they're throwing up in plant pots and pissing into the fireplace and then ordering kebabs to be delivered its fair to say they may have had enough to drink |
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over a year ago
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I the male never drink and mrs gilly will have a few sometimes on long nights say at chams by the end of the night she can be bladdered, me personally people who are too d*unk are a no no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own. But personally, as I am a control freak, I do like to stay in charge of my faculties 
It should also be pointed out that you should never drink alcohol whilst swinging on the pole, it's only ever going to end in tears and a big fat bruise!!  |
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Well I love a few drinks on a meet but its nowt to do with nerves
I always warn them before they get here tho cos they can either join me or not
After working hard all week I love to relax with a couple of bacardis when we have someone here
They do have the choice to cum or not
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I the male never drink and mrs gilly will have a few sometimes on long nights say at chams by the end of the night she can be bladdered, me personally people who are too d*unk are a no no "
While being nicely tipsy makes for a relaxed and fun time,there is nothing more unattractive than an obnoxious overbearing d*unk that wants your attention in a club,they're scary people because you never know which way they're going to turn,one minute they love you the next they want to fight the world,they're best avoided at all costs too unpredicatable and playing with people like that is dangerous .......not saying thats what mrs gilly is like that at all but your post has made me think about the state some people get into and they're wanting to have sex with strangers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we were at a party once and the one female part of a couple got steaming.
made it very uncomfortable to everyone else.
H doesnt drink anyway, V has a couple of glasses of whatever she fancies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I very rarely drink any alcohol at all, particularly when swinging. If I wouldnt do something sober then I dont want to get into a state where I might do it. X |
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Jayne sometimes has a few drinks, but she knows when to reign it in and will often drink soft drinks in between the alcoholic ones.
I am usually driving, so I don't drink at all then, but if there's a chance for me to drink, I prefer to take it slow and steady, and don't drink a lot.
Nothing worse than seeing domestics or other bad behaviour fueled by booze, or finding a nice couple to play with only for one, or both, to get so d*unk that they either can't play, or you feel that they are too d*unk to play with.
Nothing wrong with having a drink, just don't hammer it lol!  |
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I don't drink at all, either before meets or during them.
I am normally driving anyway and I don't need dutch courage.
I dislike playing with pissed people; I want to feel they are playing because they want to and not because they are pissed !!! |
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"I don't drink at all, either before meets or during them.
I am normally driving anyway and I don't need dutch courage.
I dislike playing with pissed people; I want to feel they are playing because they want to and not because they are pissed !!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not to keen on drink on meets to be honest like the other persOn to know what is going on and also some people drink does strange things to them once meet a great lady really got to know her got on well had many a fun nite with her then one nite she had a few too many and ended up attacking me with a bottle that was one nite i will never forget but she never did drink any time we meet after that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I very rarely drink any alcohol at all, particularly when swinging. If I wouldnt do something sober then I dont want to get into a state where I might do it. X"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know this might sound unbelievable but I can actually drink alcohol and somehow still be in control of what I do! Shockingly I can drink alcohol and mamage to have great sex, not vomit, fall over, or make a total idiot of myself! What can I say but I guess its just a skill I have. miss xx  |
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Everything in moderation.
If you know you have a tendency to go overboard, then maybe......don't.
I've never drank, so no idea how much alcohol constitutes "dutch courage" but there is a big chasm between calming nerves and making an absolute fool out of yourself.
I'd expect most adults to hopefully learn by now, how to stay on the right side of that divide. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a good question .
Too much Dutch courage for Mrs J and I become more wary , looking after and out for her .
I tend not to drink as I want to be on my best performance . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We drink when we go to clubs. If there are people that we want to play with then we're usually too busy to have more than a couple. If its one of those nights where nothing is going to happen we tend to hang out in the social area and have a few more! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to a know a couple, they would go to a club, she would let him have a few drinks and get a bit tiddly, then he talks and talks, she goes off and has a great time... |
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"I used to a know a couple, they would go to a club, she would let him have a few drinks and get a bit tiddly, then he talks and talks, she goes off and has a great time..."
Interesting way to do it, haha |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"We all know that some people get nervous before a meet but how much alchol is acceptable when your not drinking at all?? "
Don't think that you can put a set limit on how much is too much. Some people can handle their drink better than others.
Personally we will only have a couple of drinks on a meet and that's our limit.
We won't play with those that we consider to be d*unk or tipsy. |
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We very rarely drink anyway but have no objection to a couple of drinks....especially at a club for example.
We wouldn't want to play with someone who's d*unk though! there could be issues regarding 'consent' then.
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I don't know if other single guys will be honest enough to agree, but meeting a couple for the first time is feckin scarey;
My first time I felt asthough I was standing in the dock waiting for 10 years, so when couples come here and its our first meet, i do have a couple beforehand to steady the nerves and drink is available, but touch wood Ive never known anyone get plastered though one couple (my fav's) always stay overnight and yes we do have quite a few between bouts of playing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I the male never drink and mrs gilly will have a few sometimes on long nights say at chams by the end of the night she can be bladdered, me personally people who are too d*unk are a no no
While being nicely tipsy makes for a relaxed and fun time,there is nothing more unattractive than an obnoxious overbearing d*unk that wants your attention in a club,they're scary people because you never know which way they're going to turn,one minute they love you the next they want to fight the world,they're best avoided at all costs too unpredicatable and playing with people like that is dangerous .......not saying thats what mrs gilly is like that at all but your post has made me think about the state some people get into and they're wanting to have sex with strangers? "
It's just it can be a long night sometimes we are there 7 hours and it's just a build up of drinking through the evening to be honest she can hold her liquir on the occasions I think she has had enough I tell her I'm tired and we go back to the hotel but it's never at the stage where she is staggering around waving her finger at people, it's like what has already been said a little in moderation is fine I don't like d*unks to be honest and don't drink at all and personally think dint think it goes with swinging people need to make informed choices |
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"I very rarely drink any alcohol at all, particularly when swinging. If I wouldnt do something sober then I dont want to get into a state where I might do it. X"
I am teetotal, and decided not to meet a guy who said he would prefer me to have a few drinks to 'relax' and 'be more uninhibited'. I don't need a drink to relax and have a good time, and it worried me that he was wanting to get me in an inebriated state....I like to be fully in control of myself and have no regrets the next day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I drink too much (haven't on a meet ever), I lose my inhibitions, have done something I wouldn't normally do. So drink and me aren't a good mix really.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I drink too much (haven't on a meet ever), I lose my inhibitions, have done something I wouldn't normally do. So drink and me aren't a good mix really. "
Same with Mrs J , which is why I become more wary and end up keeping an eye on her .
I am responsible for her after all , in the club, and I would expect the same if it was me . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I very rarely drink any alcohol at all, particularly when swinging. If I wouldnt do something sober then I dont want to get into a state where I might do it. X
I am teetotal, and decided not to meet a guy who said he would prefer me to have a few drinks to 'relax' and 'be more uninhibited'. I don't need a drink to relax and have a good time, and it worried me that he was wanting to get me in an inebriated state....I like to be fully in control of myself and have no regrets the next day"
Same here and have been laughed at by a guy who couldn't understand why I didn't use alcohol to relax  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I drink too much (haven't on a meet ever), I lose my inhibitions, have done something I wouldn't normally do. So drink and me aren't a good mix really.
Same with Mrs J , which is why I become more wary and end up keeping an eye on her .
I am responsible for her after all , in the club, and I would expect the same if it was me ."
I've never been to a club, this was just me out at the pub with my fem friend and some unexpected attention from the opposite sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally, I NEVER drink and play - the two don't mix in my humble opinion (for what it's worth...)
As for anyone I might play with, I tend to be a 'people watcher' - which is NOT a perv before you all start accusing me! - and, certainly at a party or in a club, make a mental note of how the 'state' of anyone I'm interested in is ... er,... 'progressing'..? If I think someone has gone beyond the line where they are FULLY in control of what they are doing, then it's a no-go with me.
Two reasons for this: first, if you NEED a drink to Swing, you shouldn't be doing it. Second, if someone needs a drink to play with me, then I don't want to play with them. I may be a Swinger, but I have some pride left.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never have d*unk sex, even vanilla. Past experiences have told me I'm just not good at it! I have fell off the bed , tripped over things naked etc. Its not a pretty sight.
So for swinging I don't usually drink unless at a club or one or two during or after play
Lynn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met our fav swinging friends on holiday last week, stayed with them for a week.
On night one we went for dinner and dancing with LOTS of beers and wine flowing.
Back in their appt afterwards with more drinks being consumed however the sex was about as horny as we have ever experienced in our 14 years of playing and culminated in me sleeping with her and him sleeping with my other half.
None of us have ever done that before, it was not really discussed and just happened. All 4 of us are adults and could of said no at any point but happily let things develop.
Waking up to another women in the early hours was sexy as hell and my other half loved her experience. In fact it was all the four of us could talk about the following day.
Sober may well be good but d*unk is certainly not always bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some holier than thou types about!
We like a drink, not going to deny it. Some of the best nights we have had are when everyone is a bit merry."
Absofeckinlutely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I never drink and meet as I am often driving and don't need it to relax or get in the mood so to speak.
I had two bad meets regards to drinking, one couple the lady was so ill she was sick and the other (also a couple) were staggering and slurring words.
I refused a meet with me and D a couple months back because they requested I get them a nice big bottle of vodka so they could get smashed and have a chat while deciding if they wanted to play |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally, I NEVER drink and play - the two don't mix in my humble opinion (for what it's worth...)
As for anyone I might play with, I tend to be a 'people watcher' - which is NOT a perv before you all start accusing me! - and, certainly at a party or in a club, make a mental note of how the 'state' of anyone I'm interested in is ... er,... 'progressing'..? If I think someone has gone beyond the line where they are FULLY in control of what they are doing, then it's a no-go with me.
Two reasons for this: first, if you NEED a drink to Swing, you shouldn't be doing it. Second, if someone needs a drink to play with me, then I don't want to play with them. I may be a Swinger, but I have some pride left.....
ted."
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By (user no longer on site)
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There seems to a few folk hung on the difference between NEED and LIKE.
Apart from when being they are the designated driver we can't think of anyone we have ever played with who hasn't enjoyed a drink as part of the preamble |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There seems to a few folk hung on the difference between NEED and LIKE.
Apart from when being they are the designated driver we can't think of anyone we have ever played with who hasn't enjoyed a drink as part of the preamble "
Indeed. We drink without falling over or puking into the nearest plant pot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Indeed. We drink without falling over or puking into the nearest plant pot."
Drinking, remaining in total control of ones faculties, enjoying the sexual fun to it fullest..........is that possible  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have learnt the hard way and alot of drinking with swinging does not make a good team. I tend to drive to meets and hotels now so i can swing without any alcohol at all.
But I love the way that a little can help relax your inhibitions and push your boundaries a little further than what you would normally do !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally, I NEVER drink and play - the two don't mix in my humble opinion (for what it's worth...)
As for anyone I might play with, I tend to be a 'people watcher' - which is NOT a perv before you all start accusing me! - and, certainly at a party or in a club, make a mental note of how the 'state' of anyone I'm interested in is ... er,... 'progressing'..? If I think someone has gone beyond the line where they are FULLY in control of what they are doing, then it's a no-go with me.
Two reasons for this: first, if you NEED a drink to Swing, you shouldn't be doing it. Second, if someone needs a drink to play with me, then I don't want to play with them. I may be a Swinger, but I have some pride left.....
ted."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally, I NEVER drink and play - the two don't mix in my humble opinion (for what it's worth...)
As for anyone I might play with, I tend to be a 'people watcher' - which is NOT a perv before you all start accusing me! - and, certainly at a party or in a club, make a mental note of how the 'state' of anyone I'm interested in is ... er,... 'progressing'..? If I think someone has gone beyond the line where they are FULLY in control of what they are doing, then it's a no-go with me.
Two reasons for this: first, if you NEED a drink to Swing, you shouldn't be doing it. Second, if someone needs a drink to play with me, then I don't want to play with them. I may be a Swinger, but I have some pride left.....
ted.
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Maybe a little relaxation (not alot) would do some the power of good. |
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"Personally, I NEVER drink and play - the two don't mix in my humble opinion (for what it's worth...)
As for anyone I might play with, I tend to be a 'people watcher' - which is NOT a perv before you all start accusing me! - and, certainly at a party or in a club, make a mental note of how the 'state' of anyone I'm interested in is ... er,... 'progressing'..? If I think someone has gone beyond the line where they are FULLY in control of what they are doing, then it's a no-go with me.
Two reasons for this: first, if you NEED a drink to Swing, you shouldn't be doing it. Second, if someone needs a drink to play with me, then I don't want to play with them. I may be a Swinger, but I have some pride left.....
ted."
You don't mention anything about those that actually LIKE to have a few drinks while they play and have fun. Like me, I like a few glasses of wine during the evening and to be totally honest some of my best nights were when we had MORE than a few.
By no means do I always drink but I do prefer a few.
Would a Lady that sets herself a 3 glass limit thorough the whole evening be enough to maintain your "pride"?!
Hats off to the sober types too |
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"Personally, I NEVER drink and play - the two don't mix in my humble opinion (for what it's worth...)
As for anyone I might play with, I tend to be a 'people watcher' - which is NOT a perv before you all start accusing me! - and, certainly at a party or in a club, make a mental note of how the 'state' of anyone I'm interested in is ... er,... 'progressing'..? If I think someone has gone beyond the line where they are FULLY in control of what they are doing, then it's a no-go with me.
Two reasons for this: first, if you NEED a drink to Swing, you shouldn't be doing it. Second, if someone needs a drink to play with me, then I don't want to play with them. I may be a Swinger, but I have some pride left.....
ted.
You don't mention anything about those that actually LIKE to have a few drinks while they play and have fun. Like me, I like a few glasses of wine during the evening and to be totally honest some of my best nights were when we had MORE than a few.
By no means do I always drink but I do prefer a few.
Would a Lady that sets herself a 3 glass limit thorough the whole evening be enough to maintain your "pride"?!
Hats off to the sober types too "
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"Personally, I NEVER drink and play - the two don't mix in my humble opinion (for what it's worth...)
As for anyone I might play with, I tend to be a 'people watcher' - which is NOT a perv before you all start accusing me! - and, certainly at a party or in a club, make a mental note of how the 'state' of anyone I'm interested in is ... er,... 'progressing'..? If I think someone has gone beyond the line where they are FULLY in control of what they are doing, then it's a no-go with me.
Two reasons for this: first, if you NEED a drink to Swing, you shouldn't be doing it. Second, if someone needs a drink to play with me, then I don't want to play with them. I may be a Swinger, but I have some pride left.....
ted.
You don't mention anything about those that actually LIKE to have a few drinks while they play and have fun. Like me, I like a few glasses of wine during the evening and to be totally honest some of my best nights were when we had MORE than a few.
By no means do I always drink but I do prefer a few.
Would a Lady that sets herself a 3 glass limit thorough the whole evening be enough to maintain your "pride"?!
Hats off to the sober types too "
Totally agree, there is a big difference between having a few drinks because you enjoy it and having a few drinks because you need it...especially where swinging is concerned!
Now who is mixing the espresso martinis? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally, I NEVER drink and play - the two don't mix in my humble opinion (for what it's worth...)
As for anyone I might play with, I tend to be a 'people watcher' - which is NOT a perv before you all start accusing me! - and, certainly at a party or in a club, make a mental note of how the 'state' of anyone I'm interested in is ... er,... 'progressing'..? If I think someone has gone beyond the line where they are FULLY in control of what they are doing, then it's a no-go with me.
Two reasons for this: first, if you NEED a drink to Swing, you shouldn't be doing it. Second, if someone needs a drink to play with me, then I don't want to play with them. I may be a Swinger, but I have some pride left.....
ted.
You don't mention anything about those that actually LIKE to have a few drinks while they play and have fun. Like me, I like a few glasses of wine during the evening and to be totally honest some of my best nights were when we had MORE than a few.
By no means do I always drink but I do prefer a few.
Would a Lady that sets herself a 3 glass limit thorough the whole evening be enough to maintain your "pride"?!
Hats off to the sober types too
Totally agree, there is a big difference between having a few drinks because you enjoy it and having a few drinks because you need it...especially where swinging is concerned!
Now who is mixing the espresso martinis?"
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