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"Um have a wank, darling. " lol | |||
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"On a more serious note this is the ultimate in Pandoras Boxes as trust me, and I know from bitter sweet experience once you go down this road you may not like what you find. The actuality is more than often much much different to the perception "As are a vast number of fantasies..... | |||
"On a more serious note this is the ultimate in Pandoras Boxes as trust me, and I know from bitter sweet experience once you go down this road you may not like what you find. The actuality is more than often much much different to the perception "True. A long time ago hubbie let me start seeing men. It might not bring you closer, x  | |||
"On a more serious note this is the ultimate in Pandoras Boxes as trust me, and I know from bitter sweet experience once you go down this road you may not like what you find. The actuality is more than often much much different to the perception
True.
A long time ago hubbie let me start seeing men. It might not bring you closer, x "Wise words it seems. Not that I want to benefit from anyone's misfortune but I have Googled " wife share regret ect " but very little comes up, just praise of it!   | |||
"On a more serious note this is the ultimate in Pandoras Boxes as trust me, and I know from bitter sweet experience once you go down this road you may not like what you find. The actuality is more than often much much different to the perception
True.
A long time ago hubbie let me start seeing men. It might not bring you closer, x
Wise words it seems. Not that I want to benefit from anyone's misfortune but I have Googled " wife share regret ect " but very little comes up, just praise of it! "Probably because more people will share stories of something like that going well rather than it going badly! | |||
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"On a more serious note this is the ultimate in Pandoras Boxes as trust me, and I know from bitter sweet experience once you go down this road you may not like what you find. The actuality is more than often much much different to the perception
True.
A long time ago hubbie let me start seeing men. It might not bring you closer, x "What changed do you feel...for you? Did the emotional attachment you felt towards him weaken? | |||
"On a more serious note this is the ultimate in Pandoras Boxes as trust me, and I know from bitter sweet experience once you go down this road you may not like what you find. The actuality is more than often much much different to the perception
True.
A long time ago hubbie let me start seeing men. It might not bring you closer, x "I had the same thing not always ood | |||
"On a more serious note this is the ultimate in Pandoras Boxes as trust me, and I know from bitter sweet experience once you go down this road you may not like what you find. The actuality is more than often much much different to the perception
True.
A long time ago hubbie let me start seeing men. It might not bring you closer, x
I had the same thing not always ood"Hmmm...careful what I fantasise about! | |||
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"If your relationship is rock-solid, then sharing and acting out fantasies can be great fun, and extremely horny lol! We talked for years about different fantasies, both during sex and at other times, and eventually realized that we wanted to try them out. For us it's something we share, we both enjoy seeing the other having fun, and being involved. "Seems like it's magical when it works, close to disastrous when it doesn't. Hmmmm | |||
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"On a more serious note this is the ultimate in Pandoras Boxes as trust me, and I know from bitter sweet experience once you go down this road you may not like what you find. The actuality is more than often much much different to the perception
True.
A long time ago hubbie let me start seeing men. It might not bring you closer, x
What changed do you feel...for you? Did the emotional attachment you felt towards him weaken? "Honestly, the other way about I think  | |||
"On a more serious note this is the ultimate in Pandoras Boxes as trust me, and I know from bitter sweet experience once you go down this road you may not like what you find. The actuality is more than often much much different to the perception
True.
A long time ago hubbie let me start seeing men. It might not bring you closer, x
What changed do you feel...for you? Did the emotional attachment you felt towards him weaken?
Honestly,
the other way about I think "Oh, I hadn't considered that. It makes me a little sad. Are you happy...? That's a loaded question and you need not answer, particularly on a public forum. Big hug for you, nonetheless x | |||
"If your relationship is rock-solid, then sharing and acting out fantasies can be great fun, and extremely horny lol! We talked for years about different fantasies, both during sex and at other times, and eventually realized that we wanted to try them out. For us it's something we share, we both enjoy seeing the other having fun, and being involved.
Seems like it's magical when it works, close to disastrous when it doesn't. Hmmmm "Magical... yes, thats the word for it. But seriously, communication is the key. Talk, talk, and then, talk some more. Only play with this lifestyle if you are both sure, and make sure you are BOTH getting what you want out of it. Some couples play solo, some have one partner who doesnt play, some are cuck cpls etc, but they all play inside boundaries that THEY set.... both of them. If one partner has a greater influence over setting the "rules" then the other will get resentful or jealous. Seeing some of the threads about this in here makes me realise how lucky we are that we both love doing this together.  | |||
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"If your relationship is rock-solid, then sharing and acting out fantasies can be great fun, and extremely horny lol! We talked for years about different fantasies, both during sex and at other times, and eventually realized that we wanted to try them out. For us it's something we share, we both enjoy seeing the other having fun, and being involved.
Seems like it's magical when it works, close to disastrous when it doesn't. Hmmmm
Magical... yes, thats the word for it.
But seriously, communication is the key. Talk, talk, and then, talk some more.
Only play with this lifestyle if you are both sure, and make sure you are BOTH getting what you want out of it.
Some couples play solo, some have one partner who doesnt play, some are cuck cpls etc, but they all play inside boundaries that THEY set.... both of them.
If one partner has a greater influence over setting the "rules" then the other will get resentful or jealous.
Seeing some of the threads about this in here makes me realise how lucky we are that we both love doing this together. "I think a better explanation of my earlier post might flesh out my suggestion of potential troubled waters ahead. We have been doing the single guy thing for a couple of years now and do it in several formats. We occasionally attend Greedy Girl nights, the Horny Porny ones are, in our opinion outstanding. There is nothing more exciting than seeing your wife being chatted to then eventually fucked, no apologies for the term as it is what it is, by as many men as SHE cares to. We also occasionally meet single guys off here. We always meet for a drink at a neutral venue near his place and if the chemistry is right then we always play on first date. Back to his place where he will woo my wife before they eventually fucking her to both their satisfaction. Again incredibly horny to watch. We also have a regular special friend, someone we first me two years ago who comes to us once a week when we are at home. They both keep in constant touch by txt or email and she absolutely adores the attention he lavishes upon here. Their lovemaking, notice the change in description, is a thing of intense passion and a joy to watch however, and here's where the bitter sweet thing comes into play, the level of intimacy they share occasionally causes me some angst. She would stop tomorrow as she values our love more highly than anything in the world however I tell her not to as this is without doubt the most fulfilling time she has had in the 14 years we have been playing. Hindsight is a marvellous thing but the only advice I would offer is set strict boundaries at the outset. Decide if you are going to be comfy with your wife being fucked in a variation of the 'Screw my Wife' porn movies but then ask yourself how you may feel if she really bonds with another regular playmate | |||
"Is this another couple where the female half has no idea that her husband has them both on a swinging site?" | |||
"Is this another couple where the female half has no idea that her husband has them both on a swinging site?" If it were don't you think our profile would be " looking for big cocks to help use wife" rather than looking for genuine bi females?? | |||
"If your relationship is rock-solid, then sharing and acting out fantasies can be great fun, and extremely horny lol! We talked for years about different fantasies, both during sex and at other times, and eventually realized that we wanted to try them out. For us it's something we share, we both enjoy seeing the other having fun, and being involved.
Seems like it's magical when it works, close to disastrous when it doesn't. Hmmmm
Magical... yes, thats the word for it.
But seriously, communication is the key. Talk, talk, and then, talk some more.
Only play with this lifestyle if you are both sure, and make sure you are BOTH getting what you want out of it.
Some couples play solo, some have one partner who doesnt play, some are cuck cpls etc, but they all play inside boundaries that THEY set.... both of them.
If one partner has a greater influence over setting the "rules" then the other will get resentful or jealous.
Seeing some of the threads about this in here makes me realise how lucky we are that we both love doing this together.
I think a better explanation of my earlier post might flesh out my suggestion of potential troubled waters ahead.
We have been doing the single guy thing for a couple of years now and do it in several formats.
We occasionally attend Greedy Girl nights, the Horny Porny ones are, in our opinion outstanding. There is nothing more exciting than seeing your wife being chatted to then eventually fucked, no apologies for the term as it is what it is, by as many men as SHE cares to.
We also occasionally meet single guys off here. We always meet for a drink at a neutral venue near his place and if the chemistry is right then we always play on first date. Back to his place where he will woo my wife before they eventually fucking her to both their satisfaction. Again incredibly horny to watch.
We also have a regular special friend, someone we first me two years ago who comes to us once a week when we are at home. They both keep in constant touch by txt or email and she absolutely adores the attention he lavishes upon here. Their lovemaking, notice the change in description, is a thing of intense passion and a joy to watch however, and here's where the bitter sweet thing comes into play, the level of intimacy they share occasionally causes me some angst.
She would stop tomorrow as she values our love more highly than anything in the world however I tell her not to as this is without doubt the most fulfilling time she has had in the 14 years we have been playing.
Hindsight is a marvellous thing but the only advice I would offer is set strict boundaries at the outset.
Decide if you are going to be comfy with your wife being fucked in a variation of the 'Screw my Wife' porn movies but then ask yourself how you may feel if she really bonds with another regular playmate
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"Um have a wank, darling. " Agree totally!! | |||
"Um have a wank, darling. Agree totally!! "Really??? Surely that will only add fuel to the fire lol.  | |||
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"It was a fantasy of mine until claire came around to try it now she loves it it has helped our sex life loadz and I often have my mates around for a few beers and claire makes it such a fun night "Wow do you share her with your friends? | |||
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"Get a new wife??" Poor response.  | |||
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"Get a new wife?? Poor response. "I agree. How perfetic people can be. | |||
"Now all though my wife likes the idea she has no intention of making it reality. " That line says it all! It is a quite dangerous situation you are in as it appears your wife likes the fantasy, but you want the reality. Personally I would try the fantasy without the blindfold, that would empower your wife in the fantasy, and may make her talk more openly about it. | |||
"On a more serious note this is the ultimate in Pandoras Boxes as trust me, and I know from bitter sweet experience once you go down this road you may not like what you find. The actuality is more than often much much different to the perception "Couldn't agree more. Best to leave it be quite often the reality isn't quite the dream | |||
"Now all though my wife likes the idea she has no intention of making it reality. That line says it all! It is a quite dangerous situation you are in as it appears your wife likes the fantasy, but you want the reality. Personally I would try the fantasy without the blindfold, that would empower your wife in the fantasy, and may make her talk more openly about it." I say that she has no intention but that's not quiet right. I believe that my wife won't indulge in this as she is concerned where it will end. She does enjoy talking about it whilst making out and enjoys selected videos so it's not actually that she don't want to entertain it but more fear. As for the blindfold I get what your saying but we do enjoy the darker side of play and she loves the sensory deprivation . There has been some good feed back and I am aware of the dangers which is why it will probably stay as a fantasy....for the ime being lol. | |||
"Now all though my wife likes the idea she has no intention of making it reality. That line says it all! It is a quite dangerous situation you are in as it appears your wife likes the fantasy, but you want the reality. Personally I would try the fantasy without the blindfold, that would empower your wife in the fantasy, and may make her talk more openly about it. I say that she has no intention but that's not quiet right. I believe that my wife won't indulge in this as she is concerned where it will end. She does enjoy talking about it whilst making out and enjoys selected videos so it's not actually that she don't want to entertain it but more fear. As for the blindfold I get what your saying but we do enjoy the darker side of play and she loves the sensory deprivation . There has been some good feed back and I am aware of the dangers which is why it will probably stay as a fantasy....for the ime being lol." | |||
"Um have a wank, darling. Agree totally!!
Really??? Surely that will only add fuel to the fire lol. "We seen a guy who would out the fire out!! | |||
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"Actually, reading down this post there are a number of people warning against acting out fantasies! Errr.... How did you get started in swinging then? "so you have had EVERY fantasy you have ever had acted out? some things are better left in the mind. other things can be acted out and dealt with | |||
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"This is something I'd love to do with my wife. We have talked about it and she finds it a turn on but we would need to find someone who we both trust. "good luck to her finding someone to trust | |||
"Actually, reading down this post there are a number of people warning against acting out fantasies! Errr.... How did you get started in swinging then?
so you have had EVERY fantasy you have ever had acted out?
some things are better left in the mind.
other things can be acted out and dealt with"Perhaps you can tell me where I even implied that I had? I was saying that there are those warning that acting out fantasies can be dangerous, but here they are acting out fantasies every time they play! But IMHO, if a fantasy breaks a relationship, perhaps the relationship wasn't that strong anyway. If both agree and then one doesn't like it, it should be chalked up to experience and not done again! There is always the chance that a partner will find someone they really connect with, but it is how that is handled that can be make or break. I have someone who I really connect with and my wife knows that. We deal with it by understanding that the third party is just that and she IS a fantasy! My wife has also found guys that she is really keen on, same again, it's playtime! But then we are and have always been a strong couple.. Sheesh! There's always one! | |||
"Actually, reading down this post there are a number of people warning against acting out fantasies! Errr.... How did you get started in swinging then?
so you have had EVERY fantasy you have ever had acted out?
some things are better left in the mind.
other things can be acted out and dealt with
Perhaps you can tell me where I even implied that I had?
I was saying that there are those warning that acting out fantasies can be dangerous, but here they are acting out fantasies every time they play! But IMHO, if a fantasy breaks a relationship, perhaps the relationship wasn't that strong anyway. If both agree and then one doesn't like it, it should be chalked up to experience and not done again!
There is always the chance that a partner will find someone they really connect with, but it is how that is handled that can be make or break. I have someone who I really connect with and my wife knows that. We deal with it by understanding that the third party is just that and she IS a fantasy! My wife has also found guys that she is really keen on, same again, it's playtime! But then we are and have always been a strong couple..
Sheesh! There's always one! "there is always one what? there are people warning about taking things too far. people on here dont always push the boundaries every time they meet someone. they usually do what they are happy doing, and have done time and again. so, i ask again, have you fantasies that you havent, or wouldnt act out? if so, then how is that any different to the advice people have been giving OP. there is always another one | |||
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"There is nothing wrong with acting out a fantasy, but as a couple you have to be sure BOTH want it to move from bedroom talk to reality, the OP stated this was not the case on this particular fantasy in their relationship. I think most couples have met other couples where one partner is reluctant but trying to please their partner whilst the other believes them to be willing but nervous, hence the advice to be cautious " So these feelings don't look like they are going to go away. Although my wife enjoys the idea she won't give me the green light but on the other hand if I were to set it up she I know that she wouldn't decline. I have found a very suitable male so now its decision time!! I think the problem is that by entering this there is some chance that it could cause problems ( as with any first meet ) and also where does it end. Maybe castration may help my/our situation lol. | |||
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" I think most couples have met other couples where one partner is reluctant but trying to please their partner whilst the other believes them to be willing but nervous, hence the advice to be cautious " This is exactly what my brain has been telling me. This is very good advice. | |||
" I think most couples have met other couples where one partner is reluctant but trying to please their partner whilst the other believes them to be willing but nervous, hence the advice to be cautious This is exactly what my brain has been telling me. This is very good advice. "Well I have decided it's probably best to leave the site for now before I/we enter into something we may regret. Have fun all | |||
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