FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Support and Advice > forbidden love:-(
forbidden love:-(
Jump to: Newest in thread
I had a best friend that was happy for me when I met my bf..but for some reason the spark that has grown between me and my best friend is crazy I have these feelings so strong but cant because it so hard and I'm so scared that if I jump and thing dont work I'll be left with nothing at all???
Does anyone have any kind advise please |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It's a battle between your head and your heart. These are the lyrics to a song called 'Time will show the wiser' by Fairport Convention. Apt....but not much help. Good luck with it all.
"My mind keeps on telling me that this is no good
And my heart is aching, that tells me I should
But only time will show the wiser
I've fallen in love with a girl that's not mine
If I take her it will hurt him, a very best friend of mine
But I know that I need someone, to hold, to love
And my mind says I shouldn't but my heart says I should
And I don't know which to go by, my mind or my heart
And this is so confusing, it's tearing me apart
Time, it will show the wiser
Well, I wish someone would help me, this decision is mine
And my morals and emotions are hard to combine
And there is no easy way out to limit the time
That it takes till she finds out for the love that I hide
And I don't know which to go by, my mind or my heart
And this is so confusing, it's tearing me apart
Time, it will show the wiser, time, it will show the wiser" |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
This the same boyfriend that you thought was seeing his ex again a few weeks back.
Hmm call me cynical but your life is like an eastenders episode 
Good luck whatever you do |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Have you talked to your best friend? Do they feel the same way?
If not, you need to talk and clear the air at least. Then you know where you stand. I'm not saying it will make the decision easier but it will let you know what is going on in your best friends head.
Good luck.
LadyIce x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
go for it, your last bf was cheating with an ex.
if you have feelings for your best friend, tell them and see what they feel. No need to move if they dont feel the same
good luck |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I had a best friend that was happy for me when I met my bf..but for some reason the spark that has grown between me and my best friend is crazy I have these feelings so strong but cant because it so hard and I'm so scared that if I jump and thing dont work I'll be left with nothing at all???
Does anyone have any kind advise please "
Kindly see Mr Kyle!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I had a best friend that was happy for me when I met my bf..but for some reason the spark that has grown between me and my best friend is crazy I have these feelings so strong but cant because it so hard and I'm so scared that if I jump and thing dont work I'll be left with nothing at all???
Does anyone have any kind advise please
Kindly see Mr Kyle! "
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"eerrmm i think you'll find the title of this particular part is... advice and support....."
I hate to be pedantic , but it's swinging support and advice  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"eerrmm i think you'll find the title of this particular part is... advice and support.....
I hate to be pedantic , but it's swinging support and advice "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"eerrmm i think you'll find the title of this particular part is... advice and support.....
I hate to be pedantic , but it's swinging support and advice
"
You beat me to it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"eerrmm i think you'll find the title of this particular part is... advice and support.....
I hate to be pedantic , but it's swinging support and advice
You beat me to it "
Lol.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
and surrounding areas |
Go with ur heart and go for it , thats what i done and its the best decission i ever made, as regards the distance if ye both want it to work it will work caus ye will make it work , we no all about this.mr crazy here. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By * n zCouple
over a year ago
leamington spa |
"because he lives far away"
Distance won't make any difference if its meant to be, I've been in an LDR for over 2 years with 112 miles between us and we see each other every other week. But think carefully as it can be hard at times.
A |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I had a best friend that was happy for me when I met my bf..but for some reason the spark that has grown between me and my best friend is crazy I have these feelings so strong but cant because it so hard and I'm so scared that if I jump and thing dont work I'll be left with nothing at all???
Does anyone have any kind advise please "
So couple weeks ago accuse bf of cheating because his ex texted, now you want to cheat.
Sounds like another fantasy thread to me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"eerrmm i think you'll find the title of this particular part is... advice and support.....
I hate to be pedantic , but it's swinging support and advice
You beat me to it
Lol. "
Ignore these members tottie... You use the forum how you wish.
You are in a pickle emotionally lately though. My suggestion is that you have a break from anything that is causing roller coaster episodes and get to know you. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I really dont see why people post there private lives on here for all to read. Its a swinging site not agony aunt page."
Especially when they post in the wrong section. Talk about Armchair Theatre! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I really dont see why people post there private lives on here for all to read. Its a swinging site not agony aunt page.
Especially when they post in the wrong section. Talk about Armchair Theatre! "
Exactly. I dont want to read about peopled private lives. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I really dont see why people post there private lives on here for all to read. Its a swinging site not agony aunt page.
Especially when they post in the wrong section. Talk about Armchair Theatre!
Exactly. I dont want to read about peopled private lives."
So don't. Just pass the thread by! There's loads posted on these forums that bore the pants off me but I don't see the point of moaning about it. OP has started a thread within forum rules which everyone is entitled to do. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I really dont see why people post there private lives on here for all to read. Its a swinging site not agony aunt page.
Especially when they post in the wrong section. Talk about Armchair Theatre!
Exactly. I dont want to read about peopled private lives."
I don't know of it's true or not I just don't feel this is the appropriate site to air this |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I really dont see why people post there private lives on here for all to read. Its a swinging site not agony aunt page."
Totally agree plus am not convinced this is genuine but could well be wrong. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"My Veri is a friend so not suspicious at all..
both profiles are written the same way
get photo verified or verified hy cam"
Remarkably similar writing style, small letters instead of big ones, missing spaces, lots of .......just one paragraph. Both look as though they might possibly have been written by the same person.
Maybe....maybe not but who ever wants to meet one or the other might find this post and make their own mind up.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Oh dear oh dear
I can see why members question your validity:
Four weeks ago you moan about messages sent to you. Other members bring in the fact you're looking for good looking guys and like gifts bought for you, and that you're attached.
Two weeks ago you moan about your boyfriend getting text from ex. Members question your duplicity and you state you're only on here to meet girls.
Now you want fling with best friend?
I see two distinct messages you're sending out:
Either you're a fake or you're a drama queen. Either way forumites will give you a wide berth in the real world.
If you're not a fake then (a) get photo verified, (b) get a real meet verification, (c) lose the drama.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
