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over a year ago
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although i am sure it will be abused.
At the moment i cannot travel easily, no car and not a lot of spare cash for socials and public transport.
Of course i understand that it will be hard to get meets arranged, but surely people here are not that shallow.
Would you meet me at mine, or am i just wasting my time, and please sensible answers please. |
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"although i am sure it will be abused.
At the moment i cannot travel easily, no car and not a lot of spare cash for socials and public transport.
Of course i understand that it will be hard to get meets arranged, but surely people here are not that shallow.
Would you meet me at mine, or am i just wasting my time, and please sensible answers please."
Not sure why you accuse people of being shallow? 
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"that sofa is dead, lol.
got a black fake leather on now, and a tiny flat, old place was so much bigger.
4 people is a crowd in here."
That's good news surely! Have a social someplace then next time invite them back. |
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ok maybe shallow was wrong word, will give you that.
Its just a lot of people say must accommodate, which i can do, but the meets very rarely happen.
i can understand the safety factor, and could meet at a local pub first and i would never presume fun is on the cards, even if they where in my flat. and i defo do not have the body to force myself on anyone.
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"that sofa is dead, lol.
got a black fake leather on now, and a tiny flat, old place was so much bigger.
4 people is a crowd in here.
That's good news surely! Have a social someplace then next time invite them back. "
cannot afford socials, am really financially challenged at the moment, my own fault, but paying for it at the moment. |
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"ok maybe shallow was wrong word, will give you that.
Its just a lot of people say must accommodate, which i can do, but the meets very rarely happen.
i can understand the safety factor, and could meet at a local pub first and i would never presume fun is on the cards, even if they where in my flat. and i defo do not have the body to force myself on anyone.
But "
So you can accommodate and are happy to meet in a pub (socially) with no expectations. Cant see any problems there.
Ever considered that the problem simply may be interest/attraction?
You could be loaded, living in a big house and able to travel anywhere with no issues - but that still offers no guarantees of meets! |
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