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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just had a social today and another guy we are meant to be meeting later in the week mailed him to ask about us.
that wouldn't really bother us much but its the fact he used our real names etc that's upset us as this is not very discreet.
Does this happen often??   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did he mail the other guy because he saw a verification?
I don't like behaviour like that but I know some people will check up on people by asking others about you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Using real names isn't the way to go. But if I met someone and a guy messaged me asking about it then that wouldnt bother me. Obviously I wouldn't go into details, just something like "Yes she looks like her pictures, had a laugh" etc etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Which is exactly why i choose not to show my named verifications. My summary at least shows that i meet and not a time waster, which is the whole point of them anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend of mine did the same after he was a bit dubious about a couple of years ago
Turns out the couple was really only a male so sometimes it pays to be cautious |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Which is exactly why i choose not to show my named verifications. My summary at least shows that i meet and not a time waster, which is the whole point of them anyway."
maybe the way to do it now....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A friend of mine did the same after he was a bit dubious about a couple of years ago
Turns out the couple was really only a male so sometimes it pays to be cautious"
as I said not bothered he contacted him as such but the fact he mentioned our names etc
it does pay to be cautious sometimes |
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