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friends ?

By *ayb1970 OP Man over a year ago

Somerset

Hi all no doubt been asked many times what do all u fabsters think on the friend invite thing because I have a friend list but do u think any of them apart from a few ever bother to mail me etc its just like speaking to someone and never getting a response its so frustrating.

Jay

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

If they're not chatting with you mate, they're not a friend, so bin them.

Most people only send an invite so they can _iew your private pics, and will invariably be men pretending to be a woman or a couple.

All the best

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

The friends thing bewilders me, too much importance is put on it.

But hey,

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I could have hundreds on my list. I have 7 at the moment. Nearly all I have met. One I'm hoping to meet. They ignore my messages they are gone.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Hi all no doubt been asked many times what do all u fabsters think on the friend invite thing because I have a friend list but do u think any of them apart from a few ever bother to mail me etc its just like speaking to someone and never getting a response its so frustrating.

Jay

We delete "friends" if they don't answer a message after about a fortnight, everyone has holidays, gets ill, has other things in their life so we reckon two weeks is fair and we always take not answering a message to mean that they no longer wish to be in contact.

Ultimately though its yoru friends list and you must manage it as you see fit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We only add to friends with whom we have met.

If those on our friends list ignore our message, no biggie - if they ignore us the next time we meet them out somewhere - then we wont be impressed!

If you choose to have randoms you don't know and have never met on your friends list, then what do you expect?

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By *exiSlutBabeWoman over a year ago

Stoke

I haven't added anyone to my friends list, I don't see the point of it, I know who my friends are, if I want to keep people in quick contact mode I add them to my hotlist.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only people on our friend list are those we have met in person. X

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By *ayb1970 OP Man over a year ago

Somerset

Thanks for advice I thought you add as a friend to keep in touch and arrange future meets but don't seem to be the case

Jay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for advice I thought you add as a friend to keep in touch and arrange future meets but don't seem to be the case

Jay

People that we want to meet and message but have not yet met are added to our hotlist. Use the site how you want to that's just how we use it as we found its easier to Separate potential meets from actual meets.

MissD

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

got too many friends on my list and some I know I will never meet, some never speak lol

so I reckon a big clearout is needed

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