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By *s103 OP Man
over a year ago
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So I have met a girl out of here and I have now told her I use this site, she doesn't like it. I am kinda torn between both cos met some fun people here and I really enjoy it, but obviously like her too. What would you do?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm reading that that you want to carry on meeting, and if that's the case then If the girl was that special I doubt you'd even be asking this question.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have met a girl out of here and I have now told her I use this site, she doesn't like it. I am kinda torn between both cos met some fun people here and I really enjoy it, but obviously like her too. What would you do? "
get a new girl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you like her then take a step back from this and see what happens.
If things work out between you then you can always revisit the idea later on. You never know she might be open to playing as a couple once she feels secure with you! |
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
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"So I have met a girl out of here and I have now told her I use this site, she doesn't like it. I am kinda torn between both cos met some fun people here and I really enjoy it, but obviously like her too. What would you do? "
I met someone on a different site .. he left but I couldn't and it destroyed us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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take a time out. hang out with her if you feel you need fab to complete your life in a few months tell her about your needs and see how you go
what ever you choose be true to your self.. good luck |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"So I have met a girl out of here and I have now told her I use this site, she doesn't like it. I am kinda torn between both cos met some fun people here and I really enjoy it, but obviously like her too. What would you do? "
Put up with this now and you'll be pussy whipped till you dump her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have met a girl out of here and I have now told her I use this site, she doesn't like it. I am kinda torn between both cos met some fun people here and I really enjoy it, but obviously like her too. What would you do? "
what would i do, stay but don't tell her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know you or this girl... but her not being happy about you being on FAB does not make her a dictator, nor does you taking a break make you pussy whipped.
As everyone keeps saying, swingers are in the minority. So the majority of single girls out there will see you sleeping with other girls whilst being with them as cheating. Things wouldn't develop as she would probably feel insecure and threatened all the time as you don't have an existing relationship.
Her not being okay with it doesn't make her unworthy of your time. She just has a different _iewpoint.
If you can't live without Fabs and can only see yourself in a relationship with someone who is in the lifestyle then yes, you should probably stop seeing her.
But if you like her then make the decision to take a break and give things a chance.
Don't stay on here behind her back! |
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"I don't know you or this girl... but her not being happy about you being on FAB does not make her a dictator, nor does you taking a break make you pussy whipped.
As everyone keeps saying, swingers are in the minority. So the majority of single girls out there will see you sleeping with other girls whilst being with them as cheating. Things wouldn't develop as she would probably feel insecure and threatened all the time as you don't have an existing relationship.
Her not being okay with it doesn't make her unworthy of your time. She just has a different _iewpoint.
If you can't live without Fabs and can only see yourself in a relationship with someone who is in the lifestyle then yes, you should probably stop seeing her.
But if you like her then make the decision to take a break and give things a chance.
Don't stay on here behind her back!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only you can know the real answer to this. As you are the only person that knows your true needs and desires.
Best to just take a break for a while then see how you feel.
Also be careful about thinking you can bring her round to this again with out knowing the lady in question and her reaction to all this when you brought it up its impossible to even guess if she would. While your on a break if you take one have a good think about if your willing to completely give up this lifestyle for her if not it will probably lead to some very negative feelings between you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm reading that that you want to carry on meeting, and if that's the case then If the girl was that special I doubt you'd even be asking this question.
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this.
if you like her so much you wouldnt even be asking the question.
is no strings sex with others REALLY worth risking a potential relationship for? |
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