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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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myself (female) and the other half have been discussing fisting. now this is something that I enjoy, but I know its not everyone's cup of tea. I now have the idea of fisting another woman, but unsure if any women would up for it, and how to approach the subject with another woman.
I don't think a 'would you mind if I stuck my fist in you' approach is correct....
would appreciate any feedback on this please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually find it a weirder taboo than the slaves n masters stuff!!!!!...I've done it with plenty of partners...and never was there a thought that it was in any way abusive...
lets vote fisting as an appropriate act for those that like it, in the same way dogging and gangbangs are viewed..and surely they have more connotations about something abusive or illegal |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sounds scary and painful. Wouldn't you need small fists? I know some of us ladies have had babies but still sounds painful. Ok time to take the wuss comments  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds scary and painful. Wouldn't you need small fists? I know some of us ladies have had babies but still sounds painful. Ok time to take the wuss comments "
try it one time, with someone who knows what they are doing at least..last thing u want is someone who doesnt have the understanding or manual dexterity needed to make it painless...until it gets to the positive sexual painfulness
*I can only speak for those I've fisted |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To op, I would love to try it on a woman too and like you I'm struggling to find a way to bring it up.. mostly found women that seem to let me touch to keep the men happy.. with a few exceptions...
I personally love being fisted by Lee.. and as I'm very dominant with women I would love to do this sometime
Cali |
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This might seem strange, but my es wife would only ask to be fisted when she was pregnant, and about a month or so away from birth, she said it helped with child birth. A little off subject I know, but was wondering if any other women though the same. I have however fisted a few woman for their pleasure aswel, which I must say seemed to heighten their orgasm. |
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"Haha my fb wants to fist my bum lol hmm I think that would hurt lol 
Let him or her you won't regret it! lol its an her only had a vibe up there. "
That's fine if your up for it. I take it you have had a vibe up her bum aswel. So maybe you should start off with a few fingers and gradually increase, of course the same would apply to you doing it to your FB  |
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I really wanted to fist a woman for some time, wanted to know what it felt like, as I'm a fan of being fisted myself on occasion.
When it actually happened it was quite amazing, a different feeling to what I imagined, but very, wow! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds scary and painful. Wouldn't you need small fists? I know some of us ladies have had babies but still sounds painful. Ok time to take the wuss comments
try it one time, with someone who knows what they are doing at least..last thing u want is someone who doesnt have the understanding or manual dexterity needed to make it painless...until it gets to the positive sexual painfulness
*I can only speak for those I've fisted "
I'd need to be very comfortable with whoever might do that if it was to happen and also be in a regular thing with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha my fb wants to fist my bum lol hmm I think that would hurt lol
Let him or her you won't regret it! lol its an her only had a vibe up there.
That's fine if your up for it. I take it you have had a vibe up her bum aswel. So maybe you should start off with a few fingers and gradually increase, of course the same would apply to you doing it to your FB "
no her bum is out of bounds lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha my fb wants to fist my bum lol hmm I think that would hurt lol
Let him or her you won't regret it! lol its an her only had a vibe up there.
That's fine if your up for it. I take it you have had a vibe up her bum aswel. So maybe you should start off with a few fingers and gradually increase, of course the same would apply to you doing it to your FB "
no her bum is out of bounds lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've attempted fisting with a few guys but have never yet managed to take a full fist...although one guy is getting closer each time. I have thought maybe I'd have more success with a woman (due to smaller hands) but so far haven't met any women that are into it. Will keep trying though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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So how's it done then.. Am assuming lube (or be very wet) fingers first and then make a fist inside? Wouldn't have thought you could just go for it fist first lol... Yeeeoowza!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So how's it done then.. Am assuming lube (or be very wet) fingers first and then make a fist inside? Wouldn't have thought you could just go for it fist first lol... Yeeeoowza! "
yes how is it done? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive never been fisted by a woman, would like to try though. I have been fisted a couple of times and really enjoyed it. Though I need lots of lube, take it slowly and once in, I like a rolling motion rather than pumping in and out. Combine that with clit play and wow.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really wanted to fist a woman for some time, wanted to know what it felt like, as I'm a fan of being fisted myself on occasion.
When it actually happened it was quite amazing, a different feeling to what I imagined, but very, wow!"
Oh we must do coffee and discuss this lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so the question is: can we make fab see fisting as a non 'brutal' or 'exploitative' sexual act?????
its one of the least taboo interests I can think of on the list |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"provided i'm relaxed and someone isn't brutal it doesn't hurt, but it is intense.
No big hands though please  "
trying to work out how big my hands really are |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I adore being fisted although I don't tend to let any men but my other half do it to me. But women seem to be more tentative with these things so I let them! I fisted a woman for the first time last week and it was an awesome experience!
Just bring it up in conversation and see how they react! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I adore being fisted although I don't tend to let any men but my other half do it to me. But women seem to be more tentative with these things so I let them! I fisted a woman for the first time last week and it was an awesome experience!
Just bring it up in conversation and see how they react! "
thanks for the advice x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I really wanted to fist a woman for some time, wanted to know what it felt like, as I'm a fan of being fisted myself on occasion.
When it actually happened it was quite amazing, a different feeling to what I imagined, but very, wow!
Oh we must do coffee and discuss this lol x"
count me in too, would love to discuss it with you xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ive never been fisted by a woman, would like to try though. I have been fisted a couple of times and really enjoyed it. Though I need lots of lube, take it slowly and once in, I like a rolling motion rather than pumping in and out. Combine that with clit play and wow. "
it's an amazing feeling once it's in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've attempted fisting with a few guys but have never yet managed to take a full fist...although one guy is getting closer each time. I have thought maybe I'd have more success with a woman (due to smaller hands) but so far haven't met any women that are into it. Will keep trying though!"
if you need a hand, let me know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To op, I would love to try it on a woman too and like you I'm struggling to find a way to bring it up.. mostly found women that seem to let me touch to keep the men happy.. with a few exceptions...
I personally love being fisted by Lee.. and as I'm very dominant with women I would love to do this sometime
maybe we can chat about it sometime x
Cali"
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nope, happened to mrs N once. Was alright at the time but felt very uncomfortable after and to be perfectly honest a little upset about it and definitely never wants it to happen again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out of all the many activities discussed on here I think perhaps fisting is something that I feel more cautious about than anything. It's just the thought of 'what if something goes wrong' that worries me.
I guess that I'm just one of life's worriers. Please someone convince me that fisting is not dangerous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really wanted to fist a woman for some time, wanted to know what it felt like, as I'm a fan of being fisted myself on occasion.
When it actually happened it was quite amazing, a different feeling to what I imagined, but very, wow!
Oh we must do coffee and discuss this lol x
count me in too, would love to discuss it with you xx"
Fab coffee morning could be fun..lol.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For anyone new to fisting, I recommend an inflatable dildo, then you can take it at your own pace.
The key is lube, gentility and patience: the skin stretches at ITS own pace.
Like another, I prefer the rolling around motion. Prior to that, the feel as the thumb eventually gets inserted and the rest of the hand slips in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For anyone new to fisting, I recommend an inflatable dildo, then you can take it at your own pace.
The key is lube, gentility and patience: the skin stretches at ITS own pace.
Like another, I prefer the rolling around motion. Prior to that, the feel as the thumb eventually gets inserted and the rest of the hand slips in."
I'll tell my fb that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For anyone new to fisting, I recommend an inflatable dildo, then you can take it at your own pace.
The key is lube, gentility and patience: the skin stretches at ITS own pace.
Like another, I prefer the rolling around motion. Prior to that, the feel as the thumb eventually gets inserted and the rest of the hand slips in."
Mmmmm love that feeling, gets me horny just reading about it. |
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"For anyone new to fisting, I recommend an inflatable dildo, then you can take it at your own pace.
The key is lube, gentility and patience: "
I have also found that lots and lots of stimulation elsewhere, especially the clit, helps. Not pushing as each orgasm hits and then slowly moving forward during the plateau after, maybe adding more lube whilst your not pushing as well. In its own time it will happen and once in please remember that even small movements feel incredibly intense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds scary and painful. Wouldn't you need small fists? I know some of us ladies have had babies but still sounds painful. Ok time to take the wuss comments
try it one time, with someone who knows what they are doing at least..last thing u want is someone who doesnt have the understanding or manual dexterity needed to make it painless...until it gets to the positive sexual painfulness
*I can only speak for those I've fisted "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love being fisted! Only my man gets to do it- I wouldn't want any other man to- but a woman would be more than welcome!!! The second time T fisted me he was laid down and I was beside him sucking his cock at the same time. After we had both cum he carefully pulled his hand out and his wedding ring was gone! Clearly my face was a picture as he rolled around laughing and pulled the ring out from under the pillow!!! But it didn't out me off and I want him to do it every time we get frisky- he has this knack of making me not only squirt, but gush everywhere!! Intense and amazing!!! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have been fisted by men and women...obviously I prefer women as they have smaller hands but it's something that really turns me on...a lot of ppl are quite squeamish about it though so it's not for everyone |
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"So how's it done then.. Am assuming lube (or be very wet) fingers first and then make a fist inside? Wouldn't have thought you could just go for it fist first lol... Yeeeoowza! "
Have tried to pm you but am unable to as I have no pics .... such a shame !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have fisted men and women.lotscenjoy it .sometines it's what makes a woman squirt or cum.its best to start off with a well lubed finger or two and gradually build it up till the whole hand is in then as they relax push it further in .you can tell if your doing it right by how easy or hard it is to get it in.for anL fisting anal fisting lube is essential,ohhhh and no long nails they tear inside and no punch fisting not unles they request it.some actually do like punch fisting .poppyxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I will give this a miss, though, I don't think it is possible for every woman, this one especially "
I agree! These ladies make it sound great!...but I tried...really I did. Maybe cause it was a guy..big hands..but didn't make it.. definitely put me off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You should be asking before each meet you arrange what the person is into.we all into different things on here .not everyone likes fisting but lotsof women do.i would approach the subject before the meet as its natural to be inquisitive then as you want to be able to please your meet.poppyxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love to be fisted... Some men are more confident than others as they think they might hurt you.... Done right it gives me an amazing orgasm and makes me gush. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fucking hell!
I (fem) sometimes struggle to receive 3 fingers let alone a fistful!!! Have been relaxed enough once to take 4 fingers but only for a few seconds.
Thing is, I really want to try DVP but not sure I'll manage it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me (bob) it takes a lot of concentration to consciously relax then a constant pressure not thrusting rolling or anything.... Just so when I let it in... It goes and if not happening tell the fister how to |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
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Here's an obvious thought. So many of the ladies here fancy taking part, why not contact one another and DO it?
I see many keen to have a go, surely its a simple matter to make arrangements? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Here's an obvious thought. So many of the ladies here fancy taking part, why not contact one another and DO it?
I see many keen to have a go, surely its a simple matter to make arrangements?"
was thinking that myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"finger at a time, slowly spreading wider. In my experience it's really not as brutal as it sounds! Actually very erotic x"
I totally agree, I love FB fisting me & it's not brutal at all, they don't have to be rough with it. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really wanted to fist a woman for some time, wanted to know what it felt like, as I'm a fan of being fisted myself on occasion.
When it actually happened it was quite amazing, a different feeling to what I imagined, but very, wow!
Oh we must do coffee and discuss this lol x
count me in too, would love to discuss it with you xx
Fab coffee morning could be fun..lol.. "
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I am a fan of anal fisting. It has taken a while to get there and needs time and lots of lube but that feeling as you get to the point of no return and the hand slips in is the most intense feeling, incredible! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love to be fisted... Some men are more confident than others as they think they might hurt you.... Done right it gives me an amazing orgasm and makes me gush. "
slabbers at the thought heheheheheheeeee x x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love being fisted by woman and men and taught many how to do it to me,,some woman find the thought scary to have it done to them,people Watch porn and some of it is brutal and with that in there head i dont blame them,Communications is the key and how u like it
For me i have to be Well turned on,lube placed on hand and pussy,communicate,start with fingers and use more as go just push gentle x I only like up to wrist,no twisting,gentle movement in and out,can speed up as get the person excited, depending if they like it gentle to rougher
I have amazing orgasms having this done but admit i would be scared to have it done anally lol |
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I've only ever met a couple of ladies who enjoy fisting, but boy, did they enjoy it!
In my limited experience the secret is take it slow and use plenty of lube. Oh, and I've not got big hands (make of that what you will ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've only ever met a couple of ladies who enjoy fisting, but boy, did they enjoy it!
In my limited experience the secret is take it slow and use plenty of lube. Oh, and I've not got big hands (make of that what you will )"
mmmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am a fan of anal fisting. It has taken a while to get there and needs time and lots of lube but that feeling as you get to the point of no return and the hand slips in is the most intense feeling, incredible!"
I'll get there one day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am a fan of anal fisting. It has taken a while to get there and needs time and lots of lube but that feeling as you get to the point of no return and the hand slips in is the most intense feeling, incredible!"
I'll get there one day |
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