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over a year ago
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should worded myself more precisely. never met anyone with the intention of "doing it" before so nerves are the biggest part for us both. he, has met couples on here before so knows the ropes etc. |
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"probably been asked a zillion times. but as a couple we are going to meet our first single male for a coffe and see if we all click. HELP!  "
Arrange a signal beforehand so you both have a 'get out' option, agree how far you will let it go and just have a good chat with the guy.. Oh, and find somewhere quiet to meet where you don't have half the place straining to listen in on your conversation lol |
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only advice I could give is know your rules before you start and enjoy it the nerves the meet and the doing it just remember you are the one that is always incharge and hopefully it will turn out to be a great night for you both xxxx |
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over a year ago
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thanks. phew. yes, he is nervous, or at least says so. it is a coffee, not alcohol in a café in a neutral place. we both have our limits set and we both have spent about two months getting to this point, although I opened this account a while back, we never came here for various reasons, but I have yet to find a better place than fabswingers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its good to feel safe with who you are meeting
If you feel that you are safe the rest will be a walk in the park
So they say
But you will always have butterflies |
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