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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just organised ourselves a regular fuck buddy with a guy we have previously met and got along with fantastically. Can anybody see problems with having the same guy? We are in a good relationship and meets are rare just thought this saved time looking.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we are thinking of trying the same. the best information I can give is a book we have read called Opening up by Tristan Taormino. if you want I can upload it to mega dot com and provide you a key url for it. a lot of it does not apply to buddies, but nevertheless it is overall very informative. let us know and I will provide an email address to correspond by |
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I met a woman on here and happily we both wanted to meet again and again, so we do - we're fb and meet when we can, in-between times, we meet other people seperately. As time goes on we are developing our sexual relationship and becoming more adventurous. Not that we weren't to start off anyway as I'm very agreeable and have a vivid imagination  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to find a regular fuck buddy. Someone local that can accommodate during the day. So if I'm at work and feeling horny I can text saying fuck me in my lunch hour ! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I suppose I could be described as an FB to the male half of a couple on here but could I class him the same? I doubt it, though I suppose in my head I do, I suppose it all depends on other peoples ideas and perceptions, but to have a regular friend? Does it have benefits? Damn right it does!   |
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"I met a woman on here and happily we both wanted to meet again and again, so we do - we're fb and meet when we can, in-between times, we meet other people seperately. As time goes on we are developing our sexual relationship and becoming more adventurous. Not that we weren't to start off anyway as I'm very agreeable and have a vivid imagination "
I have the same with someone on here. One of the very first guys I met when I first joined three years ago and it just gets better every time. We have also tried other things too, which have been amazing, but we still really enjoy our 1-1 time together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe I have totally the wrong idea about being here but a fb (or 2) is exactly what I am here for. Found a couple of delicious guys who I know would class themselves as such to me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just organised ourselves a regular fuck buddy with a guy we have previously met and got along with fantastically. Can anybody see problems with having the same guy? We are in a good relationship and meets are rare just thought this saved time looking. "
Yes, if she falls in love or even develops deep and meaningful feelings for him, and if he is regular she will, you may end up feeling threatened/isolated.
Watching your wife being fucked by another man is one thing watching your wife making passionate love to a man she has developed a strong bond with is a totally differant thing.
Been there, still there and still wearing the Tshirt. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"we are thinking of trying the same. the best information I can give is a book we have read called Opening up by Tristan Taormino. if you want I can upload it to mega dot com and provide you a key url for it. a lot of it does not apply to buddies, but nevertheless it is overall very informative. let us know and I will provide an email address to correspond by"
Much appreciated the advice but wouldn't know where to start with a mega dot com?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my wife is definitely looking at you with a nice smile and you are the first woman on fab I have given a second look to. so you look nice is what I am trying to say. if we were not out of your age range and were closer, among other things I most definitely would love to have met you, even it was for a coffee and chat only |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got two fuck buds for two completely diff types of play, see both them weekly (separately) and have loads fun, still meet others though.
As long as folks know is fuck bud friendship and not mix it with romance emotions all should be well.
For those looking, keep looking you'll find one sooner or later |
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we want a female fb we can meet as a couple on a regular basis seems so much better as we would all get a good idea of what each other likes and hopefully it would get better and better as time went on oh and wouldn't say know to another couple we could consider fbs hehe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've a wonderful FB I've known for 4 years now
The best way to describe our relationship is good friends who have great sex together. Having known each other for so long we are willing to experiment sexually and trust each other - this makes for some very interesting times |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Just organised ourselves a regular fuck buddy with a guy we have previously met and got along with fantastically. Can anybody see problems with having the same guy? We are in a good relationship and meets are rare just thought this saved time looking. "
no problems at all so long as you are both on the same page. You both get a good fuck and can develop tastes along the way (if hes a quick learner) |
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I joined this site in the hope of finding someone local but its proving to be impossible! I cant believe there is not one woman or couple around here that are not interested... I'd understand it if I had two heads or was an ignorant git... I think its age, at 52 I think I am seen as past it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just organised ourselves a regular fuck buddy with a guy we have previously met and got along with fantastically. Can anybody see problems with having the same guy? We are in a good relationship and meets are rare just thought this saved time looking. "
we make our own problems, concentrate on the solutions  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi this advice is to the married couples, guy's never but ever take the same guy and why? Because everyone was feelings and that soon or later comes up, if you really love ur wife/husband then change your fuck buddies and remember is just sex ... different people different opinions this is just my one happy swing  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I joined this site in the hope of finding someone local but its proving to be impossible! I cant believe there is not one woman or couple around here that are not interested... I'd understand it if I had two heads or was an ignorant git... I think its age, at 52 I think I am seen as past it! "
This is partly the reason we chose to have a regular FB, a lot (and nothing personal) people assume that everyone on here are here purely for random sex. We know its a swinging site and people are entitled to their own persceptions but we are on here to meet like minded people who enjoy the social aspect, the sex being incidental if everyone gels, and are just more liberal in their idea of a good night. In fact it can be quite annoying when people assume one message will get them laid. Everyone is entitled to their own idea of what this site will provide for them but they shouldn't assume everyone else feels the same, a little more respect from certain people when chatting might get them more of a social life. Don't assume, ask, it costs nothing and might just pay off! |
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nothing wrong with it at all . i used to do it in my previous life see same guys a few times as its easier once you get to know them saves the first time nerves and all that . in fact 2 i met b4 are in touch with me now 1 i have not seen and 1 that i have seen ,as i know them i can trust them a bit more than strangers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes, if she falls in love or even develops deep and meaningful feelings for him, and if he is regular she will, you may end up feeling threatened/isolated.
Watching your wife being fucked by another man is one thing watching your wife making passionate love to a man she has developed a strong bond with is a totally differant thing.
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Good question. Depends on knowing what you honestly want, and if you have a partner, what both of you want, and also the wishes of the prospective f.b (phew, seems complicated already!) The good side of having a f.b has already been stated quite well here (comfort, lack of hassle in always finding someone new, etc), but the 'downsides' can be a pain, mainly when emotions develop 'by stealth'. |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
"I would love to find a regular fuck buddy. Someone local that can accommodate during the day. So if I'm at work and feeling horny I can text saying fuck me in my lunch hour ! "
But your profile says you don't want to meet - chat only. |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
"Im looking for a fuck buddy on here.
They seem hard to find "
I agree, they're extremely hard to find. 
On the other hand, I'm surprised someone as stunningly good looking as you would have any trouble at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to find a regular fuck buddy. Someone local that can accommodate during the day. So if I'm at work and feeling horny I can text saying fuck me in my lunch hour ! "
Perfection |
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"I would love to find a regular fuck buddy. Someone local that can accommodate during the day. So if I'm at work and feeling horny I can text saying fuck me in my lunch hour ! "
You need to change your profile then as its says your not meeting anyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ahh I'd love to find a regular FB to keep meeting again and again to be adventurous with! Sadly no one in my area seems keen and all you ladies wanting the same are miles away x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just organised ourselves a regular fuck buddy with a guy we have previously met and got along with fantastically. Can anybody see problems with having the same guy? We are in a good relationship and meets are rare just thought this saved time looking. "
If your wife can keep it purely sexual it's a perfect situation. I have male buddies I've been seeing for years. I have no feelings for them and never will have. Keep it as just sex and have a great time. Women can have sex without love, even passionate sex. Passionate sex with 2 men and she's a lucky woman I say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with previous posters that a regular is hard to find. I have found I get on really well with guys before a meet. the sex was great and then find out they was only wanting a one off. there is just no one local that is looking for the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just organised ourselves a regular fuck buddy with a guy we have previously met and got along with fantastically. Can anybody see problems with having the same guy? We are in a good relationship and meets are rare just thought this saved time looking. "
couldn't agree more, if you have found one your happy with and its all working well for the three of you then go for it and stick with him, as you say it saves a lot of time and messing around looking for others.
we found ours, only problem is he is in the south of france lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have 2 friends with benefits.
One have been seeing for over 2.5 years the other 6 months.
Enjoy the trust and friendship that has been built up.
I do meet from here but only occasionally when both my regular guys are unavailable.
Although both are good friends it is purely a physically relationship not emotional
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"Just organised ourselves a regular fuck buddy with a guy we have previously met and got along with fantastically. Can anybody see problems with having the same guy? We are in a good relationship and meets are rare just thought this saved time looking.
couldn't agree more, if you have found one your happy with and its all working well for the three of you then go for it and stick with him, as you say it saves a lot of time and messing around looking for others.
we found ours, only problem is he is in the south of france lol."
no I'm not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a regular fb who was my first meet on the site ..... we have a couples profile these days too, the sex gets better and better BUT we are good pals these days too .. 3 yrs down the line neither of us is complaining!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a regular fuck buddy a curvy very sexy lady who was also bi she introduced me to swinging and her friend who was athletic in build used to join us regularly for a threesome great sex I kiss it as they both got married lol   gutted lol never to return to those good old days lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on how good the playing is and if there's regular changes to spice it up too as a regular buddy can get same old very quickly if things don't change up in the arrangement ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" In fact it can be quite annoying when people assume one message will get them laid. Everyone is entitled to their own idea of what this site will provide for them but they shouldn't assume everyone else feels the same, a little more respect from certain people when chatting might get them more of a social life. Don't assume, ask, it costs nothing and might just pay off!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met both couples and singles on a regular basis and can only conclude (in my case at least) that it all ends in grief!! maybe it's me but the other party always got far too possessive for my liking and so I had to end it...but thankfully we are all still friends  |
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