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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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same old story we see time n time again here!
guy cant get any meets...
any advice folks? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Read the same old threads asking advice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Improve your profile, put up a pic etc.
Otherwise try to be more relaxed and socialise more. Meets might be the reason you're here but the lack of them shouldn't take over your life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Read the same old threads asking advice "
this!
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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yea .... thought postin my thread so folk could see profile |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
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You might make it a better read after putting it though a spell checker and then adding some punctuation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think what you're messaging others with. Text speak? Bad English in general. Though small things an attention to detail works wonders on here |
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Probably would be more inviting for starters if your cock wasn't your profile pic. |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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ok
but it aint gonna be a face pic for discretion reasons wot u suggest? |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
London |
"ok
but it aint gonna be a face pic for discretion reasons wot u suggest?"
Look at some of the new male pics with a PG option in the new pics search. |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"You might make it a better read after putting it though a spell checker and then adding some punctuation."
is it that bad? |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
London |
Write in a text editor and then cut and paste it into the profile text.
More options for spell check, grammar etc |
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Straight yet verified by two men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably would be more inviting for starters if your cock wasn't your profile pic."
Oh jeez I thought it was his nose lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loose the cock profile pic.....
Read your profile and then think....would I message this person?
Look at the other threads asking for advice and follow that.
Look at the regular forum make forum members and compare your profile & pics to there's...,
Basically your profile is poor, no effort has been taken in it and its the same as 98% of the other profiles on here. |
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Also can't accom can only play daytime screens can only play when the wife is at work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bum cheeks or a nice chest pic cock pics always. Put me off x |
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3 blurry pics of your penis and little else.
the "only meet daytimes" is a red flag
Straight yet looking to meet men is another "flag".
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"3 blurry pics of your penis and little else.
the "only meet daytimes" is a red flag
Straight yet looking to meet men is another "flag".
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at work all night! wish it were nt so . but it is |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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pics ill have to work on i guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"pics ill have to work on i guess"
It's not just the pics you need to work on....the whole profile needs work |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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You won't please everyone so if you say you can't accomodate I wouldn'tchange it for the people who think you are married because of it...those people can just avoid your profile.
I have not looked at your profile , but I am sure from the many threads asking for advice you could figure it out from those.
Good luck. |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
London |
Good deed for the day.
Cut and paste this into your profile.
What I am looking for is fun, fun and more fun!
NSA one off meetings (or more if we click!)
Unfortunately I work nights and as such I prefer daytimes meets, especially in the morning.
I know this isn't going to appeal to everybody but this is when I feel relaxed and horny.
I am verified but not all of them are on my profile at the moment.
I have tried a few things on my "sexual bucket list", however if you have any fantasies that you wish to try, please ask.
My face pics are available in my private album.
Thanks for reading. |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
London |
and rotate your face pic on the profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You asked for this dude women here will pull you to pieces  |
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"Probably would be more inviting for starters if your cock wasn't your profile pic."
All you have are cock pics. That being said you don't have to put face pics either how bout some body pics. Also you can only meet in the morning that says to me that there is a time limit. I myself would not go on a meet where I had to hurry up and get it done. If I am hot for someone I need quite a few hours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"same old story we see time n time again here!
guy cant get any meets...
any advice folks?"
Pictures of your cock and neck strain from looking at your face pic get no votes from us |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
good advice so far... also lose the whiney status of "seriously thinking of deleting" it will put people off. Why would anyone bother chatting if you're not going to stick around?
And lose the cock pics - one would be enough if you must have one in public view. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lazy profile implies lazy on a meet to me. A poster above kindly re drafted your profile text for you so it read much better and you didn't copy and paste it like they suggested  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so your profile pic is sideways, and you have a few pics of a umm, shall we say average size cock, no i just can understand why their not banging down ur door. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"same old story we see time n time again here!
guy cant get any meets...
any advice folks?"
Your loosing the will to live because you can't get a shag? LOL Oh my  |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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i was being stupid... of course im not losing the will to live ! jeeez |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
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You didn't use our rewrite for a cut and paste? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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how many clubs have you been to ? |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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cant cut n paste on my mobile... will tweak at work tonight when im not busy/got a pen |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"how many clubs have you been to ?"
never been to any clubs... are they worth a visit in the daytime? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put some clothed picks up. A mans fashion sense says a lot about them. A suit pick or just one in jeans with top off is always a tease IMO. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Don't forget, the man doesn't have to take peoples advice if he doesn't want to. |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"Put some clothed picks up. A mans fashion sense says a lot about them. A suit pick or just one in jeans with top off is always a tease IMO."
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"same old story we see time n time again here!
guy cant get any meets...
any advice folks?"
Call me old fashioned but, when I was 35 it wasn't that hard to go out and meet folk.
My advice, have a less virtual approach |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"so your profile pic is sideways, and you have a few pics of a umm, shall we say average size cock, no i just can understand why their not banging down ur door. "
"shall we say average sized cock"
seriously? ..... i ve just looked at your profile .. hardly a huge weapon on "him"
6.5 inches is average enough thanks |
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"Don't forget, the man doesn't have to take peoples advice if he doesn't want to. "
Fair point. As long as there isn't a repeat thread from him in a few weeks with the same complaint i guess. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"same old story we see time n time again here!
guy cant get any meets...
any advice folks?
Call me old fashioned but, when I was 35 it wasn't that hard to go out and meet folk.
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For group sex?
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Sorry, but all I will contribute this time round is, read you profile, and if you were female, would it inspire you to message? Coz right now? It's doesn't.
I even had on my status to deter people last week.....
Looking for fun? Well no shit Sherlock....
As I think that is what we are all looking for! Aren't we?   |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"same old story we see time n time again here!
guy cant get any meets...
any advice folks?
Call me old fashioned but, when I was 35 it wasn't that hard to go out and meet folk.
aye just pop down ya local!
For group sex?
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sorry, but all I will contribute this time round is, read you profile, and if you were female, would it inspire you to message? Coz right now? It's doesn't.
I even had on my status to deter people last week.....
Looking for fun? Well no shit Sherlock....
its a fair point
As I think that is what we are all looking for! Aren't we? "
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"same old story we see time n time again here!
guy cant get any meets...
any advice folks?
Call me old fashioned but, when I was 35 it wasn't that hard to go out and meet folk.
aye just pop down ya local!
For group sex?
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Try the socials or clubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why oh why do folk continue these threads when there is advice on here. Saves folk having to write the same old replies. |
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"Why oh why do folk continue these threads when there is advice on here. Saves folk having to write the same old replies."
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"Why oh why do folk continue these threads when there is advice on here. Saves folk having to write the same old replies."
It means taking time to search and read |
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"Probably would be more inviting for starters if your cock wasn't your profile pic."
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If cock wasn't the ONLY pic :-
some are lucky.. so go look at the lucky guys profiles see what they have that you dont and rectify that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"same old story we see time n time again here!
guy cant get any meets...
any advice folks?"
Your problem maybe that you work nights & looking for daytime meets & 1 off's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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seriously? ..... i ve just looked at your profile .. hardly a huge weapon on "him"
6.5 inches is average enough thanks"
This was a bit unnecessary.imho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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seriously? ..... i ve just looked at your profile .. hardly a huge weapon on "him"
6.5 inches is average enough thanks
This was a bit unnecessary.imho "
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"cant cut n paste on my mobile... will tweak at work tonight when im not busy/got a pen"
One last thing from me....chainging your profile is one thing, but the most important adjustment many need to make is to their attitude.
Having a great profile doesn't mean that women will start falling over themselves to meet you. Feeling entitled on a site like this is a sure fire way to ensure your bad luck/ track record continues.
I could go on, but you get the idea. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"same old story we see time n time again here!
guy cant get any meets...
any advice folks?
Call me old fashioned but, when I was 35 it wasn't that hard to go out and meet folk.
aye just pop down ya local!
For group sex?
Try the socials or clubs"
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You told the man to go out and pull, I thought you meant just a normal night out...you mean to clubs and socials for swingers? |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"same old story we see time n time again here!
guy cant get any meets...
any advice folks?"
i find fancy a fuck message with a cock pic drives em wild and gets the juices flowing it never fails   |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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seriously? ..... i ve just looked at your profile .. hardly a huge weapon on "him"
6.5 inches is average enough thanks
This was a bit unnecessary.imho "
so its ok to insult me for no reason |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"cant cut n paste on my mobile... will tweak at work tonight when im not busy/got a pen
One last thing from me....chainging your profile is one thing, but the most important adjustment many need to make is to their attitude.
Having a great profile doesn't mean
that women will start falling over themselves to meet you. Feeling
entitled on a site like this is a sure fire way to ensure your bad luck/ track
record continues.
did nt think it would
I could go on, but you get the idea. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You might make it a better read after putting it though a spell checker and then adding some punctuation."
I guess you didn't notice the "though" instead of "through"... Guess spell checkers don't find these... |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
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Profile text yes, but seriously forum posts! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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seriously? ..... i ve just looked at your profile .. hardly a huge weapon on "him"
6.5 inches is average enough thanks
This was a bit unnecessary.imho
so its ok to insult me for no reason"
I can't see where they insulted you. You asked for advice and you'll inevitably hear things you don't want to. It's up to you whether you take it on board or not. Good luck. |
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