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is it just me...?
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we never meet off here just cant be arsed with all the timewasters, and effort going in to planning a meet as we work very strange hours, however we find this site great for keep in touch with couples we have met in swing clubs, or couples who are reccomended to us |
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over a year ago
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"We meet people off here but only couples now because of single guy's wasting our time.  "
have to disagree with you there, i have found that couples are the biggest waste of time on here.it is not easy for a single guy on here though as most couples are either looking for other couples or single bi women. |
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over a year ago
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"We meet people off here but only couples now because of single guy's wasting our time.
have to disagree with you there, i have found that couples are the biggest waste of time on here.it is not easy for a single guy on here though as most couples are either looking for other couples or single bi women."
could you please tell me who you are looking to meet on here couples and woman!!! same as the couples lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet people off here but only couples now because of single guy's wasting our time.
have to disagree with you there, i have found that couples are the biggest waste of time on here.it is not easy for a single guy on here though as most couples are either looking for other couples or single bi women."
As kingofleon pointed out.....
You are seeking the same, as are so many here, now there are less couples and far less single females here than single males, unfortunately this puts those looking for single males in the position of being able to be choosy, so unfortunately the single males have to put in that little extra effort.
We meet single males, but I bet we haven't met 1% of those that have messaged us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We meet single guys but do like to know them a bit and have met them at drop of the hat.(That is if got on with them well and seen them on cam)
We had one that had left the site and came back. He looked us up and asked if we were still interested in meeting. An hour later he was at door. Lucky we had orgainsed babysitter for the night. Another time a guy was looking for a meet today and we like him so put out the word that we were availalbe. He came down to us in four types of weather and didn't leave till 1 in the morning as we knew vinalla friends and hubby had gone to same school as him. Funny it made the night go with a laugh. So it does pay to chat and when your boat comes turn up for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We meet and used to meet single guys too but got let down by two of them.
You know what they say "Once bitten,twice shy".
So after the second time we blocked single guys,life's too short to be messed about!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a fantastic and wonderful meet on Friday evening............. looking forward to more too "
I planned for two guys to meet at mine friday, both genuine profiles, both stated they hate time wasters both never turned up and didnt even contact me to say they couldnt make it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are lots of meets going on from off here all the time but I don't think this site is just about arranging meets. It offers the opportunity to get to know really interesting and diverse people with a common shared interest, gives people information about sex and loads of other subjects and lets people chat and have cybersex.. To me its far more than just for arranging meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We had a fantastic and wonderful meet on Friday evening............. looking forward to more too
I planned for two guys to meet at mine friday, both genuine profiles, both stated they hate time wasters both never turned up and didnt even contact me to say they couldnt make it "
Did you give them your address ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we meet when we arrange it, its just getting someone else into the same things to turn up, its turning into SH now here.
par example, sat we had a hotel in wakey, nobody mailed, sunday, at home, tonnes of mails - can you meet today?
toooooooo many timewasters.
we went out with mates instead of sat, and pics are in PG, wot a night lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we meet when we arrange it, its just getting someone else into the same things to turn up, its turning into SH now here.
par example, sat we had a hotel in wakey, nobody mailed, sunday, at home, tonnes of mails - can you meet today?
toooooooo many timewasters.
we went out with mates instead of sat, and pics are in PG, wot a night lol"
can you explain sh please is it something to do with poo n pain thx in advance |
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"we meet when we arrange it, its just getting someone else into the same things to turn up, its turning into SH now here.
par example, sat we had a hotel in wakey, nobody mailed, sunday, at home, tonnes of mails - can you meet today?
toooooooo many timewasters.
we went out with mates instead of sat, and pics are in PG, wot a night lolcan you explain sh please is it something to do with poo n pain thx in advance"
think it stands for Swinging Heaven |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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"think it stands for Swinging Heaven"
and it also has something to do with poo and pee.
At least in my experience it does - all I get on there are messages from bi guys who want to widdle on me.
Do I look like a Conservative MP or something? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We meet too, we have met quite a few lovely people on here, and still hope that we meet more . were confident we shall meet more. it would be nice if people at least replied briefly to messages though, we do reply to all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well ive actualy asked quite a few to meet me this week.... but got no joy so far, maybe im too fussy... dont think i ask for a hellve a lot lol!! Oh well early days yet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I meet! Dont really see the point of being on here otherwise. Lucky enough to find people do meet when they say they will, its just some meets take longer to arrange than others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its kinda tricky sometimes , cos not may people want to meet genuine single guys looking for some fun. Timewasters.....there are more here now than ever. Picture collectors and even the cam whores have arrived..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No its not just you, although we do think you're expecting too much from the site, this is a swinging community, we’d hazard a guess that even the most genuine of people on here now have a good circle of friends they meet, so very rarely look for or meet new people, and when they do they’ll probably visit their regular swinging club or attend socials where they can meet people face to face.
The ones that tend to complain otherwise, are normally the ones who won’t put the same effort in, they expect to sit at there pc with no other effort other than sending messages. Sorry but lets be honest here, if your looking to meet, would you meet the person you met at a social function two weeks earlier that you fancied and got on well with, or would you take the chance with a nice message you recieved from someone.
Read these type of threads often and it seems a lot of people think that to be a genuine swinger you MUST meet people who message you online, shame they don’t see it as a likeminded community and way to help you to meet people rather than an expect to meet people community.
This used to be fun, honest…………
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We meet couples from here..... And have met up with some great couples; also had the no show’s it does get to you at times.
but when you've met with that one friendly couple and it all clicks it does make it worth the effort
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