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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Despite taking my time in foreplay I still ripped more than half of the girls I meet..is really embarrassing..what can be the solution

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get better at foreplay?

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By *livia_KWoman over a year ago

South London

More lube?

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By *sprey6Man over a year ago

Here!

A bit of a look at me thread I think

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By *corpiomanMan over a year ago

harrogate

You ripped off more then half the girls you met? shame on you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

my advice don't let u put it off it wont always happen, embarrassingly ive ripped 2 of the lads ive been with started to have sex before and im still going

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Despite taking my time in foreplay I still ripped more than half of the girls I meet..is really embarrassing..what can be the solution

really?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ripped? What do you mean?

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By *livia_KWoman over a year ago

South London

"Ripped? What do you mean?"

Well I wondered too until I looked at his pics

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By *llie RoseWoman over a year ago

By the seaside

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By *oubleDsCouple over a year ago

Manchester

"You ripped off more then half the girls you met? shame on you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is your name Jack?

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By *denlouWoman over a year ago

bideford

I just had a peek...blimey !!!!

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By *ubberdollieWoman over a year ago

Stoke

I dont follow either? Ripped what?

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By *renchbambi xWoman over a year ago

Need to know basis

Whats the point of a long cock if have of it stands outside in the dry and cold?

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple over a year ago

Fareham

Sounds like you need to work on your foreplay techniques and use sufficient lube. Most women can accommodate more, girth-wise, than I've seen on your profile... impressive though it is.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Oh my but also oh mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sounds like you need to work on your foreplay techniques and use sufficient lube. Most women can accommodate more, girth-wise, than I've seen on your profile... impressive though it is."

Seeing as the female parts are designed to deliver a baby I'm sure if you work on your technique they'll manage to accommodate you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Am I missing something? Ripped?

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By *urvesAllOverWoman over a year ago

Manchester

That's a mountain I'd love to tackle!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Despite taking my time in foreplay I still ripped more than half of the girls I meet..is really embarrassing..what can be the solution

maybe the problem is the fact you are meeting girls? try women, and preferably ones that have had children!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Despite taking my time in foreplay I still ripped more than half of the girls I meet..is really embarrassing..what can be the solution

maybe the problem is the fact you are meeting girls? try women, and preferably ones that have had children!

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By *aveandkate35Couple over a year ago

telford

I want to reply really....No, I just can't ill get a forum ban...

;-)

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By *r Mahogany70Man over a year ago

Leicester

Seeing as the female parts are designed to deliver a baby I'm sure if you work on your technique they'll manage to accommodate you!

Are you suggesting the women have an epidural first?

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By *renchbambi xWoman over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Despite taking my time in foreplay I still ripped more than half of the girls I meet..is really embarrassing..what can be the solution

maybe the problem is the fact you are meeting girls? try women, and preferably ones that have had children!

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By *lackshadow7Man over a year ago

Toronto

"Despite taking my time in foreplay I still ripped more than half of the girls I meet..is really embarrassing..what can be the solution

Lube mate. Lots of it. Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with the woman, not girls comment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Despite taking my time in foreplay I still ripped more than half of the girls I meet..is really embarrassing..what can be the solution

really? "
yeah really

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By *ubberdollieWoman over a year ago

Stoke

Have to say tho posting a thread like this means your profile gets alot hits! I looked but i wouldn't touch a knob that size , i dont want to be sat on a rubber ring for wks after !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honestly... This post is a huge one for my point on most guys with over the average cocks can't fuck.. I've had bigger, much bigger, yet no tears...

If your ripping a woman your not doing it right.. not by a long shot.. this is the world's worst look at me thread.

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By *ohohoWoman over a year ago

Up North

Lube and take your time.

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By *hecat007Woman over a year ago

Round the corner

Surgery !!! Get it chopped!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Either you're deflowering virgins or busting the ladies with post birth stitches. Anyone else would be fine; seems exaggerated to me...

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By *aughtyinguMan over a year ago

swindon

wouldn't the lass be in pain before it actually ripped?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Honestly... This post is a huge one for my point on most guys with over the average cocks can't fuck.. I've had bigger, much bigger, yet no tears...

If your ripping a woman your not doing it right.. not by a long shot.. this is the world's worst look at me thread. "

^ This

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple over a year ago

Fareham

"Despite taking my time in foreplay I still ripped more than half of the girls I meet..is really embarrassing..what can be the solution

really? yeah really"

Bragging about having a piss poor technique really isn't going to have women flooding your inbox begging for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why doesn't he try ramming a 9" unlubed dildo up his arse, and he might learn where he is going wrong in his "technique" (for want of a better word).

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

"Despite taking my time in foreplay I still ripped more than half of the girls I meet..is really embarrassing..what can be the solution

So you have ripped 1/2 a woman? As you have only had I've meet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

cut ur nails

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When u free??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Either you're deflowering virgins or busting the ladies with post birth stitches. Anyone else would be fine; seems exaggerated to me...

I think this. There is a gentleman I've spoken to at chameleons but not played with myself.. but watched him.. now he is only guy I've ever met that made me go omg when I saw it.. and without bragging, I've seen a few... However all the women he played with managed his rather large cock...

Reason... He took his time... And he certainly wasn't gentle once he got going.

So lesson learned is think about how you try to say look at my big cock, because all this has ended up doing is saying look, i'm a big cock.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If your ripping a woman your not doing it right.. not by a long shot.. this is the world's worst look at me thread. "

couldn't have said it better!

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By *eareenaCouple over a year ago

Rockford

Ouch! Pass buddy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What you mean by ripped!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What you mean by ripped!"

Split the hymen

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Some people are sick thinking I was trying to make people look at my profile...i have a life more than meeting every fucking day..i have sex whenever I need 1..was only saying what I ve been going through and your opinion is not needed so why are you offended with my post..get a life and stop getting jealous because you ain't my size or haven't had my size...its silly for someone thinking I'm was trying to beg to fuck some girls..HATERS!

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By *ucy and CarlCouple over a year ago

Broadstairs

Leave this site and lifestyle and take up fishing or something

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ripped?

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Either you're deflowering virgins or busting the ladies with post birth stitches. Anyone else would be fine; seems exaggerated to me...

Reason... He took his time... And he certainly wasn't gentle once he got going.

So lesson learned is think about how you try to say look at my big cock, because all this has ended up doing is saying look, i'm a big cock. "

lets face it, women are designed to stretch down there for childbirth - and can accommodate quite a lot. all this post screams is you don't care about your partners, its just about you shoving your cock somewhere thats not ready for it - because if it was ready, it wouldn't rip!

technique, get the woman to relax, and lube if it feels like its hurting.

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Some people are sick thinking I was trying to make people look at my profile...i have a life more than meeting every fucking day..i have sex whenever I need 1..was only saying what I ve been going through and your opinion is not needed so why are you offended with my post..get a life and stop getting jealous because you ain't my size or haven't had my size...its silly for someone thinking I'm was trying to beg to fuck some girls..HATERS!

thats a nice way to respond to the ladies who have tried to offer advice on here.

profile suicide anyone?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If this is true that you have 'ripped' women (and the thought of it is making me wince') then I suspect it's because you are just ramming in and banging away. Why you think broadcasting this is a good idea I shall never know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh honey trust me I've got bigger toys.. and have had bigger on numerous occasions... This added post shows even more lack of understanding..

And you asked. So we advised.. not our fault you didn't like the replies.

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By *livia_KWoman over a year ago

South London

The fact that you said "stop getting jealous because you ain't my size or haven't had my size" tells me that all you have is a big cock and you think that's all you do need. That in itself tells me that you are, erm, just a cock.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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mate come on you deserve the flak bragging about inflicting pain ...learn some humility and you will have more success ..and i as you can see i dont suffer from penis envy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Leave this site and lifestyle and take up fishing or something"

dunno..might rip the fish

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are asking for a solution.

My suggestion is give up swinging and get some help on sexual technique to prevent this happening. You cannot and should not be causing injury to women when you have sex.

No people are not jealous, I would imagine most are rather glad that they are able to enjoy sex by giving pleasure to a woman and not hurting her.

Seriously grow up!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well every one whatever deserves to be treated with respect and care. Especially the ladies

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

You realise your pussy wasn't asking for advice, wasn't asking for tips buy rather staying fact. If you don't like the responses, maybe don't part a thread that is blatantly a 'I've got a huge cock, come and fuck me as I'm mahooosive'.

The problem you face, as is seen by your don't hate reply is, it outs you as: insensitive, not bothered, selfish but most of all technically lacking.

I say this as.

1. You can fist a pussy

2. You can double fist a pussy

3. You can dp/dv a pussy

4. You cab insert extremely sizable dildos into pussys

5. and most importantly a woman can pad something that is much more sizable than your cock out of her (birth) and not rip!

Hating ain't gonna get you a fuck anytime soon, just because a come fuck me thread backfired you know! PMFSL !!!!

Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

mate come on you deserve the flak bragging about inflicting pain ...learn some humility and you will have more success ..and i as you can see i dont suffer from penis envy "
not bragging about this I repeat..thought this a forum where you could seek advice but it's sad when people think otherwise

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You are asking for a solution.

My suggestion is give up swinging and get some help on sexual technique to prevent this happening. You cannot and should not be causing injury to women when you have sex.

No people are not jealous, I would imagine most are rather glad that they are able to enjoy sex by giving pleasure to a woman and not hurting her.

Seriously grow up!"

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By *lackshadow7Man over a year ago

Toronto

Well this backfired spectacularly

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By *livia_KWoman over a year ago

South London

"Well this backfired spectacularly"

Oh but don't you love the threads that backfire sometimes?

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

" I repeat..thought this a forum where you could seek advice but it's sad when people think otherwise "

You have been given shedloads of advice... open up your eyes and read it. Its there in black and white.

Bragging/talking about inflicting pain on a partner is wrong! Sex is supposed to be pleasurable.

yeah, big dick, so what - take the tips and learn to use it well.

And not one hint of envy - I'm a mum, and have comfortably had skilled lovers who are bigger.

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By *lackshadow7Man over a year ago

Toronto

"Well this backfired spectacularly

Oh but don't you love the threads that backfire sometimes?

They are funny to watch unfold every so often. Guess the OP learnt his lesson.

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

"Well this backfired spectacularly

Oh but don't you love the threads that backfire sometimes?

I love predictive text giving me a battering myself hmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well this backfired spectacularly"
did you say backfired? I'm really having fun! lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

" I repeat..thought this a forum where you could seek advice but it's sad when people think otherwise

You have been given shedloads of advice... open up your eyes and read it. Its there in black and white.

Bragging/talking about inflicting pain on a partner is wrong! Sex is supposed to be pleasurable.

yeah, big dick, so what - take the tips and learn to use it well.

And not one hint of envy - I'm a mum, and have comfortably had skilled lovers who are bigger."

Ditto. In fact generally I have found them more skilled as they have had to be.

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

"Well this backfired spectacularlydid you say backfired? I'm really having fun! lol"

Goes to show how easily pleased you are again mate pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Let's see if the replies can reach 500

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well this backfired spectacularly

Oh but don't you love the threads that backfire sometimes?

They are funny to watch unfold every so often. Guess the OP learnt his lesson."

Judging from his responses I don't think he wants to learn...it's threads like this that put women off trying larger cocks.. luckily not ever guy with a slightly above average cock is going to hurt.

With sex if it ever hurts in a bad way your doing it wrong...

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By *ucy and CarlCouple over a year ago

Broadstairs

"Let's see if the replies can reach 500

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ha ha clearly that's what this is about. If your on this site just to get 500 replies I'm quite happy to help out there if thats what floats your boat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's see if the replies can reach 500

I'll put money on it not doing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Let's see if the replies can reach 500

ha ha clearly that's what this is about. If your on this site just to get 500 replies I'm quite happy to help out there if thats what floats your boat"
how would you feel if you make a thread with the highest responses..the advices the sane people has given is appreciated though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Let's see if the replies can reach 500

I'll put money on it not doing.

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haha really? :

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By *livia_KWoman over a year ago

South London

"Let's see if the replies can reach 500

ha ha clearly that's what this is about. If your on this site just to get 500 replies I'm quite happy to help out there if thats what floats your boathow would you feel if you make a thread with the highest responses..the advices the sane people has given is appreciated though

I hate to kill your dream buddy, but the most posts a thread can have is 175 and then it closes automatically.

You are obviously hung up on quantity rather than quality... of many things.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's see if the replies can reach 500

I'll put money on it not doing.

Has a thread ever made it to 200?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Leave this site and lifestyle and take up fishing or something"

He's got the rod for it !!!

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By *ucy and CarlCouple over a year ago

Broadstairs

"Let's see if the replies can reach 500

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obviously I'm on this site for a different reason to you. But if your on a swingers site just to see how many responses to a thread you can get then go for it. The genuine single guys on here must be seething reading all this

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Let's see if the replies can reach 500

I hate to kill your dream buddy, but the most posts a thread can have is 175 and then it closes automatically.

You are obviously hung up on quantity rather than quality... of many things."
quality is in the first set of replies I got.. but quantity is when sick people started adding theirs

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By *eryBigGirlWoman over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Let's see if the replies can reach 500

I hate to kill your dream buddy, but the most posts a thread can have is 175 and then it closes automatically.

You are obviously hung up on quantity rather than quality... of many things."

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Let's see if the replies can reach 500

I'll put money on it not doing.

Has a thread ever made it to 200?"

Threads are automatically closed at 175 posts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ripped? What do you mean?

Well I wondered too until I looked at his pics

Hahaha me too

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

"Let's see if the replies can reach 500

I hate to kill your dream buddy, but the most posts a thread can have is 175 and then it closes automatically.

You are obviously hung up on quantity rather than quality... of many things.quality is in the first set of replies I got.. but quantity is when sick people started adding theirs

Mmm cos bragging about ripping women regularly is really admirable.

Tumble

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Ripped? What do you mean?

Well I wondered too until I looked at his pics

Hahaha me too

I've had as big and never had a problem.

Reminds me of an old saying of my mum's; a poor workman blames his tools.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

is it still going.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple over a year ago

Fareham

... and the sad thing? All he was concerned about in the opening post was HIS embarrassment at having inflicted substantial physical damage to several females. Egocentric doesn't even come close!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Let's see if the replies can reach 500

I hate to kill your dream buddy, but the most posts a thread can have is 175 and then it closes automatically.

You are obviously hung up on quantity rather than quality... of many things.quality is in the first set of replies I got.. but quantity is when sick people started adding theirs

Mmm cos bragging about ripping women regularly is really admirable.

Tumble"
have you ever seen someone bragging and putting

? I wonder if some people ever reason

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Let's see if the replies can reach 500

I hate to kill your dream buddy, but the most posts a thread can have is 175 and then it closes automatically.

You are obviously hung up on quantity rather than quality... of many things.quality is in the first set of replies I got.. but quantity is when sick people started adding theirs

Mmm cos bragging about ripping women regularly is really admirable.

Tumblehave you ever seen someone bragging and putting

? I wonder if some people ever reason

What's 'bragging and putting'?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A woman rarely rips if she is suitably relaxed and lubricated...if it was just one woman, you wouldn't worry.

It can rarely happen if the guy slips or is being too rough... A slip happens from time to time but normally causes a graze or small cut... To rip is a much bigger thing and it is very difficult to rip a woman... So I think the op should look up some advice. And watch a little less porn perhaps.

Try looking at porn outtakes and you will realise they don't actually just get stuck in. Even two fingers can hurt if not lubricated enough..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A woman rarely rips if she is suitably relaxed and lubricated...if it was just one woman, you wouldn't worry.

Try looking at porn outtakes and you will realise they don't actually just get stuck in. Even two fingers can hurt if not lubricated enough..

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now someone is talking..well I guess the idea of a lub might work.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've taken far bigger, fists, and an inflatable but plug. Never did me any harm. But they were not attached to someone with so little sexual knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont follow either? Ripped what?"

yo pussay

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