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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi was looking for a bit of advice, when you are organising a meet do you think it falls on the woman to have the protection or the man to sort this out?
This may sound like a really naive question but I was just curious about everyone's thoughts? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi was looking for a bit of advice, when you are organising a meet do you think it falls on the woman to have the protection or the man to sort this out?
This may sound like a really naive question but I was just curious about everyone's thoughts?"
if I've got a meet, I take my own condoms but have found that the guy has his own. Take your own as what do you do if your meet doesn't have them and you don't  |
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Ideally, both parties should come prepared. However, as has been mentioned, some people develop condom/ femidom amnesia every so often. So at least if you are prepared, there's little to no excuse for unprotected play. |
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I've had so many men turn up without that I always take my own.
Friends laugh at the wide collection I have, which includes latex free, large, small, vegetarian suitable and glow in the dark.
I've only had one guy claim he was veggie so couldn't use condoms. Which I suppose would have been viable, if we hadn't scoffed down a steak sandwich in the pub where we met. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi was looking for a bit of advice, when you are organising a meet do you think it falls on the woman to have the protection or the man to sort this out?
This may sound like a really naive question but I was just curious about everyone's thoughts?"
I always have an axe available for protection just in case the couples are ...looneys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi was looking for a bit of advice, when you are organising a meet do you think it falls on the woman to have the protection or the man to sort this out?
This may sound like a really naive question but I was just curious about everyone's thoughts?
I always have an axe available for protection just in case the couples are ...looneys "
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By *avindaWoman
over a year ago
North Wales |
"Come to think of it, i probably should start carrying a latex and non latex one. I never actually realised how many people were allergic to latex until i got started on Fab."
Not allergic to latex but prefer them especially Skyns so always have mine with me.  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I looked at my skyns condoms, the other week, when I had arranged to meet....and bloody hell, they expire this month!
Just goes to show, I need to get out more, 
Or did my other meets just take their own? I've no idea, but I have 10 free to a good home if you can use them in the next few days  |
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"Come to think of it, i probably should start carrying a latex and non latex one. I never actually realised how many people were allergic to latex until i got started on Fab.
Not allergic to latex but prefer them especially Skyns so always have mine with me. "
I haven't used a non latex one in years. I normally buy Durex or Trojan ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive always got loads,id never leave the responsibility to anyone else,plus I have to use latex free and not everyone has those
Ive only ever had one guy turn up without them and that was when we very first started swinging ..... I made him walk to a garage and get some  |
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"I've had so many men turn up without that I always take my own.
Friends laugh at the wide collection I have, which includes latex free, large, small, vegetarian suitable and glow in the dark.
I've only had one guy claim he was veggie so couldn't use condoms. Which I suppose would have been viable, if we hadn't scoffed down a steak sandwich in the pub where we met. "
wow that's one I haven't heard before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi was looking for a bit of advice, when you are organising a meet do you think it falls on the woman to have the protection or the man to sort this out?
This may sound like a really naive question but I was just curious about everyone's thoughts?"
Personally never leave home without my trusty baseball bat, ya never know just what you might be letting yourself in for 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Come to think of it, i probably should start carrying a latex and non latex one. I never actually realised how many people were allergic to latex until i got started on Fab."
We always have some in our "man bag" as many forget but reading yours think we should add in latex free.. gr8 tip |
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Everyone should carry their own (we always do) but whenever we go clubbing men usually expect R to provide condoms from her 'shag bag.' Maybe some think if they don't carry them then women will bareback? |
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"Everyone should carry their own (we always do) but whenever we go clubbing men usually expect R to provide condoms from her 'shag bag.' Maybe some think if they don't carry them then women will bareback?"
Mugs.... No glove, no love
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It definitely should be the male's responsibility since there are different cocks out there. That is until a wonderful manufacture designs one that magically shrinks to a mini or grows to XXXX size.
I do carry a few though, just in case. If a man is not dressed for the act, the curtain comes down . |
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Both! If I'm meeting alone would never go without them, as others have said I won't tolerate 'oh I thought I had some but the box is empty...'
If we are playing together I'd definitely have some in my bag, he likes certain types that fit wider and therefore better.
I'd expect everyone to be carrying them, would make us less likely to play if I felt people didn't protect themselves and show respect.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had so many men turn up without that I always take my own.
Friends laugh at the wide collection I have, which includes latex free, large, small, vegetarian suitable and glow in the dark.
I've only had one guy claim he was veggie so couldn't use condoms. Which I suppose would have been viable, if we hadn't scoffed down a steak sandwich in the pub where we met. "
Ok I've gotta ask-what has being vegetarian got to do with not using condoms?? Are animal products used in their manufact? I've genuinely not come across this before. |
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"Come to think of it, i probably should start carrying a latex and non latex one. I never actually realised how many people were allergic to latex until i got started on Fab.
We always have some in our "man bag" as many forget but reading yours think we should add in latex free.. gr8 tip "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always have my own, but also expect a man to have his own too . I have been known to stop playing if it turns out he hasnt got any. Even though I have some, I see it that he doesnt give enough thought to his sexual health |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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who is responsible for your health and safety at work?
solely your company or both of you?
at best swinging is a transaction, of sorts, trading bodily activities rather than monetary gain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always take mine as I can only use latex free ones and cause they are more expensive men are reluctant to buy them, i've had a few meets where guys have turned up with normal condoms when i've told them I cant use them cause they was cheaper |
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By *iosMan
over a year ago
Stafford |
"Hi was looking for a bit of advice, when you are organising a meet do you think it falls on the woman to have the protection or the man to sort this out?
This may sound like a really naive question but I was just curious about everyone's thoughts?
Personally never leave home without my trusty baseball bat, ya never know just what you might be letting yourself in for
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Dont forget the pepper spray |
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