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over a year ago
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Although our first 3 some was superb. I struggled to rise to the occasion. Never had this problem before or since. Even got hard soon as the bloke left!!! Anyone else had this problem? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not personally - but I've been in situations when it's happened.
Some guys love the fantasy of another cock being present but not the reality. Some have performance anxiety. Some have confidence issues. Some suffer from cock envy. Some worry another guy being there makes them bi.
It's often nothing serious - just one of those things that goes after more experience when guys become more confident/comfortable in group play!
Good luck and enjoy! 3somes/moresomes are great fun!  |
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"Nerves etc, if guys tell you they have not suffered this at one time or another they are probably telling porkies, work through it."
Love the way you post this and 2 mins later a guy replies saying he's never suffered from it!
Seriously, build up your confidence one step at a time, and make sure you don't feel any pressure - it's called Performance Anxiety for that reason. |
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I don't get hard when others are playing with Nat but that is because my focus is on ensuring that she is safe and happy. If I am comfortable with who is there then I might, though often save it for another time.
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"Nerves etc, if guys tell you they have not suffered this at one time or another they are probably telling porkies, work through it.
Love the way you post this and 2 mins later a guy replies saying he's never suffered from ."
Replies offering advice and support!
And I suppose I could have lied and said "yeah it happens to everyone" - but it doesn't. Everyone's different and for those that do experience issues the best advice is as has been quoted - relax and try not to suffer any anxiety!  |
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"Nerves etc, if guys tell you they have not suffered this at one time or another they are probably telling porkies, work through it.
Love the way you post this and 2 mins later a guy replies saying he's never suffered from it!
Seriously, build up your confidence one step at a time, and make sure you don't feel any pressure - it's called Performance Anxiety for that reason."
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