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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so I know everyone hates these but could do with some advice (good and constructive only) on my profile. Pics,text,verifys. Everything. All tips welcome. Needs changing |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Sorry, I'm not very diplomatic or good at wording things, please don't take this as a horrible dig...
Also, bearing in mind, I am not your target audience...
I would lose the bathroom pic - its too far away to be of any use. The other ones of your cleavage are lovely. Personal taste for me - I'd lose the pussy shot - everyone is old enough to know what it looks like
Your bit about being told you're too hard on yourself makes you sound like hard work (sorry don't know how to put it) and that you are in constant need of reassurance and compliments.
Its quite negative.
Put a happy spin on things - tell about what you can offer, and use your curves to be an advantage, so talk about luscious curves, and beautiful boobs, rather than the insecurities.
You also have that you would meet couples but are straight - not much in it for mrs-meet that way, as most couples have bi or bi-curious ladies in my experience on here.
Theres also the bit that you won't meet anyone who asks for discretion, but you don't accom and don't explain why either. (not accom is one of the things that makes people think attached on here)
But, you are getting lots of meets, so its obviously ok.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry sweetie, but I agree with ladybee about the photos.....not that your pussy isn't pretty but somehow I dont think you need to advertise it.....let them find out for themselves! Less is more!
Confidence is sexy! If you dont feel confident, act like you are! It works!
Have fun!! X |
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"Sorry, I'm not very diplomatic or good at wording things, please don't take this as a horrible dig...
Also, bearing in mind, I am not your target audience...
I would lose the bathroom pic - its too far away to be of any use. The other ones of your cleavage are lovely. Personal taste for me - I'd lose the pussy shot - everyone is old enough to know what it looks like
Your bit about being told you're too hard on yourself makes you sound like hard work (sorry don't know how to put it) and that you are in constant need of reassurance and compliments.
Its quite negative.
Put a happy spin on things - tell about what you can offer, and use your curves to be an advantage, so talk about luscious curves, and beautiful boobs, rather than the insecurities.
You also have that you would meet couples but are straight - not much in it for mrs-meet that way, as most couples have bi or bi-curious ladies in my experience on here.
Theres also the bit that you won't meet anyone who asks for discretion, but you don't accom and don't explain why either. (not accom is one of the things that makes people think attached on here)
But, you are getting lots of meets, so its obviously ok.
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I agree with the above. One point on discretion. I am single and can accommodate but I am discreet. Why? Because of people's privacy - family, friends, work colleagues do not need to know about your sex life in what can be a public access area. So respecting privacy and so discretion is important. Of course married people will use the discretion blanket but this should not be a reason why we honest folk can't be discreet.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry, I'm not very diplomatic or good at wording things, please don't take this as a horrible dig...
Also, bearing in mind, I am not your target audience...
I would lose the bathroom pic - its too far away to be of any use. The other ones of your cleavage are lovely. Personal taste for me - I'd lose the pussy shot - everyone is old enough to know what it looks like
Your bit about being told you're too hard on yourself makes you sound like hard work (sorry don't know how to put it) and that you are in constant need of reassurance and compliments.
Its quite negative.
Put a happy spin on things - tell about what you can offer, and use your curves to be an advantage, so talk about luscious curves, and beautiful boobs, rather than the insecurities.
You also have that you would meet couples but are straight - not much in it for mrs-meet that way, as most couples have bi or bi-curious ladies in my experience on here.
Theres also the bit that you won't meet anyone who asks for discretion, but you don't accom and don't explain why either. (not accom is one of the things that makes people think attached on here)
But, you are getting lots of meets, so its obviously ok.
I agree with the above. One point on discretion. I am single and can accommodate but I am discreet. Why? Because of people's privacy - family, friends, work colleagues do not need to know about your sex life in what can be a public access area. So respecting privacy and so discretion is important. Of course married people will use the discretion blanket but this should not be a reason why we honest folk can't be discreet. "
There's difference between being discreet in that not advertising someones sex live as u say to family work etc which tbh everyone should be so dont need specify. but then there's discreet due to being attached which I don't get involved in. Also I live with parents so can't accom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe change wording to say wont meet men playing behind partners back.
I agree with poster above, discretion to me means not blabbing, not that someone's married. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok I've changed few bits. Any more opinions? Tbh people who need to specify they are discreet bout sex life ie wouldn't go on favebook and said oh u were great in that three way last night. Shouldn't be on fab. Of course u shud be discreet. But different being discreet because ur cheating |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"honestly can't see much change. Altho well done for explaining why you don't accom. "
Was only small bits to change eg why can't accom n that not into attached guys. Can't see any spelling errors and no text speak |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"honestly can't see much change. Altho well done for explaining why you don't accom.
Was only small bits to change eg why can't accom n that not into attached guys. Can't see any spelling errors and no text speak "
I can see quite a few! Eg U msg wearin |
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