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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im probably the last person to give advice but here goes...I needed to learn the same thing and in the end i got some counselling support from my GP. The counsellor just helped me put things in perspective and made me understand the importance of self respect and standing up for yourself but without being aggressive, there is a fine balance, but give it a go  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Goggle collars and cuffs femdom... Everything you need right there. Check out the resources. ( hint of your on a website for a new suit,it's the wrong one) x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you mean in general or with a specific partner?
being 'Dom' isn't about ordering someone to lick your boots - it is either a role you play on occasion or its just who you are - are you looking to become more assertive/confident in daily life and have that spill over into your sex life or are you wanting tips on how to dominate a partner sexually? |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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Restraint, imagination, unwavering, dedication, and humility I'd say. You could be a twat and be considered a Dom really, but if you enjoy what you do you'll realise there's appreciation needed also.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Know what you like, what you need and what your strengths are. There are a massive number of different dominant facets, find what you like, then find someone into what you like to do - from there it is about communicating - learning about what you can do well - do stuff well and naturally you become more confident in it, try new things push yourself and grow.
I came into it all knowing I liked being in control and seeing that control turn a woman on - being dominant isnt about being selfish
for me - it isn't making a partner do something I want them to do...its making a partner WANT to do it - its that distinction that makes all the difference |
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