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the next step?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We've been on here over a year but wouldnt call ourselves experienced by any stretch of the imagination, weve been to clubs but with the odd exeption we havent had much luck with private meets.

The hard thing with is seems to be going from chatting and getting to know the couple/s to actual playing.

How do other people do it?

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By *ickomxxxMan over a year ago

Cornwall

Pretty simple really--find a club that appeals to you then visit and enjoy the vibe and go with the flow---you will soon get into the swing of it--excuse the pun!

Have fun...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Weve been to a few clubs and always get on with other people but it can seem awkward unless they make the first move to actually play

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You could ask if they want to have a bit of fun....keep it casual and light hearted. No pressures or expectations to play, just sort of ask.

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple over a year ago

Spondon

We feel your pain OP. We don't go to clubs and as we have small children can only accommodate at night. It makes contact with cpls or fems much more difficult.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I normally start chatting and if it looks like there is a mutual attraction will normally just ask do you want to play, there are normally some subtle signs never had anyone say no yet not that we are supermodels just think we read the body language fairly well

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