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Mine used to be very intense and always a once only event as afterwards I couldn't even be touched. These days if it happens at all it's a disappointment...like waiting for fireworks and them just fizzling out at the moment they should be going BANG! |
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"Mine used to be very intense and always a once only event as afterwards I couldn't even be touched. These days if it happens at all it's a disappointment...like waiting for fireworks and them just fizzling out at the moment they should be going BANG!"
This happened to me when I was on certain medication  |
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By *avindaWoman
over a year ago
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"Not for me - mine have gotten better as I've got older! Or maybe it's the company I'm keeping these days 
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Mine too and l think for the same reasons. Or maybe l am just more confident in me and what l want.  |
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"maybe you havnt been meeting the right men."
If only it was that simple. I'm not talking about orgasms with other people, I'm talking about on my own, and nobody knows how to do it for me better than I do. |
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"yep deffo for me..thbo I am on alot of meds so just think its that! xx"
I do take Co-codamol for back pain and have wondered if that could be the problem, or even the spinal problems themselves.
I do suspect it might be hormonal though because I'm heading towards "that age" |
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"oh no im fine on my own, just with others and ive recently started hrt xx"
It's never been easy for anyone else to make me orgasm (except for a couple of special cases) but I never used to have trouble getting myself sorted out. |
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"yep deffo for me..thbo I am on alot of meds so just think its that! xx
I do take Co-codamol for back pain and have wondered if that could be the problem, or even the spinal problems themselves.
I do suspect it might be hormonal though because I'm heading towards "that age" "
Cocodamol is one of the ones that causes me problems |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"maybe you havnt been meeting the right men.
If only it was that simple. I'm not talking about orgasms with other people, I'm talking about on my own, and nobody knows how to do it for me better than I do."
Oh I'd get that checked out! Too much vibe can desensitize I heard.. Good luck. L-Arginine is supposed to increase blood flow to certain areas |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi, Obviously check your medication, but I assume you are regularly doing your kegal exercises/pelvic floors. I have a kegal8 and although they are expensive, I really find my orgasms have got better. (I'm in my mid forties!!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not for me - mine have gotten better as I've got older! Or maybe it's the company I'm keeping these days
Mine too and l think for the same reasons. Or maybe l am just more confident in me and what l want. "
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"Mmmmmm well I'm just about to come off Cerazette - maybe I should hold onto my hat!!"
Cerazette caused me a long list of problems, the vanishing sex drive and no orgasms was the tipping point lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was wondering if any other women here have experienced a decreased ability to orgasm as they have gotten older (I'm assuming that's the cause). And if so how they have dealt with it.
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going solo: sometimes I cum quickly, sometimes I get to "that edge" but don't go over (I've become desensitized), sometimes my orgasm is a pathetic oh, othertimes I need to hold onto my hat. What causes such variation? My menstrual cycle.
Perhaps take a mental note of when you play and the result |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After a painful martial arts injury I was on tramadol for a while, that made me go for hours.
Problem was, I couldnt finish what I was doing either!
Every blooody thing went numb. Never again. Never again. XD |
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By * n zCouple
over a year ago
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"I was wondering if any other women here have experienced a decreased ability to orgasm as they have gotten older (I'm assuming that's the cause). And if so how they have dealt with it.
going solo: sometimes I cum quickly, sometimes I get to "that edge" but don't go over (I've become desensitized), sometimes my orgasm is a pathetic oh, othertimes I need to hold onto my hat. What causes such variation? My menstrual cycle.
Perhaps take a mental note of when you play and the result "
I think this is A very good point
And I agree for me the time of the month makes a huge difference to my ability and qualify of my orgasms.
My best time is mid cycle, then I can also get horny just before my period where after it plumets until I finish.
On my own, I can usually get there in about 10 minutes  and yes, I feel as I've got older certainly the urge has lessened and I do worry a bit what will happen once the menopause hits......not the sort of discussion I want to have with my mother.............. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately any drug that acts as a block for stimulation of nerves which is essential what pain actually is....will also work on the pleasure centre of the brain too in some way. Some people are more susceptible to this than others just like pain medication effects people slightly differently
I was on a raft of medication for migraines after suffering a minor stroke and complained about the side effects.....doctors basically told me to choose between blinding pain every day or the side effects of the drugs
Luckily recovered now so all back in working order lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I`m well into my 50s and orgasms never been better, so not always an age or menopausal thing, I have`nt had a period for over 8 years and things have just got better !!!!"
I want to be you when I grow up |
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