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Should I meet this person
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just got chatting to a girl who wants to meet and has given me her address.
But she won't give me a contact number even when I have asked and she has no verifications on profile, although there are plenty of pics.
I'm in a bit of a pickle as I don't want to go and then get attacked or something as it was a trap.
Anyone with advice? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Avoid or if you know name google it see if any name linked to street |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would avoid until you can either see on cam to verify who they are and have a point of contact like phone so make sure everyone's safe and happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does sound a bit iffy. We do know a guy who turned up at a boarded up shop, there are some sad people out there |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
South London |
If in doubt, don't do it. If you ask me, there is something terribly wrong with someone (especially a single girl) if they are willing to give out their address to a complete stranger they have just met on the internet. |
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By *illon321Man
over a year ago
Lower sheering |
dont go no where near her fella,theres a lot better ladys on here that are for real  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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do check on pics, google search, or tin eye usually pulls out fake pics, but follow gut feeling is best advice.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup, highly suspicious to share home address and nothing else...
Think about what concrete information you actually have about this person to confirm they are who they say they are...
If its scant, then I'd advise to move on.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the address is something like "Sunnyvale rest home for the mentally bewildered"............then 'Danger Will Robinson' springs to mind!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Noway would I give anyone my home address over my number  |
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By *haggieMan
over a year ago
swansea |
Maybe we should all show up that would throw her lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the advice guys, I know the adress and it's not far from mine and its in a pretty normal area with plenty of houses around.
Her pics all show face aswell and have references to the town I'm in in the background aswell
So still a bit torn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just got chatting to a girl who wants to meet and has given me her address.
But she won't give me a contact number even when I have asked and she has no verifications on profile, although there are plenty of pics.
I'm in a bit of a pickle as I don't want to go and then get attacked or something as it was a trap.
Anyone with advice?"
Don't go.I always insist on a phone chat before a meet.Think of your own safetyThere are a lot of morons out there! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to agree with all of the above. If in doubt, leave it out.
Also 'a bit of a pickle' was a phrase created by William Shakespeare. True fact. |
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You say no veris, has she been on site long? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just got chatting to a girl who wants to meet and has given me her address.
But she won't give me a contact number even when I have asked and she has no verifications on profile, although there are plenty of pics.
I'm in a bit of a pickle as I don't want to go and then get attacked or something as it was a trap.
Anyone with advice?
Don't go.I always insist on a phone chat before a meet.Think of your own safetyThere are a lot of morons out there!"
I always insist on phone chat too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get a cardboard box, fill with old phone books and write the address on a label on top!
Then pretend to be a courier - and if upon ringing the doorbell it's answered by a 6ft 6 tattooed man mountain called Big Dave - just get him to sign a blank piece of paper for the 'parcel' - and run!!!
If the doors answered by her dressed in her skimpiest - game on!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Man up chap the door if its no her who answers simply say sorry wrong house , simple ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Arrange to meet for a drink in a local pub. If she's not up for that then forget it. She could be anyone. Not worth putting yourself in a potentially bad position.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Man up chap the door if its no her who answers simply say sorry wrong house , simple ??"
man up????- silly attitude honestly, safety for all concerned
now imagine , especially coming from scotland, 3 neddy fucks happen to be on fab..eager to take the piss or worse... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Again thanks for the advice really appreciate it.
Just checked the house on google maps and said is it the one with a red garage even though it is black and she mailed back agreeing it was red.
So I mailed her telling that I think it's a scam and would like some verification like a last name or phone number so this is definitely the last straw now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Move on and ship out, plenty more out there, wouldn't give him/her/ them? A second thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unless she has had the garage repainted...... |
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The fact that you are asking means you know the answer....
Stay well away, who knows what you may encounter when you get there.
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Stick the address in Google..then zoom into street view and see what it looks like--always get a feel about people from where they live... |
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By *stmateMan
over a year ago
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Always go with your gut feeling, a number won't confirm your suspicions. If u still want to meet her take a drive round the area but don't make it obvious and see who's loitering with intent. Personally I'd leave it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there's something very strange in a single woman giving out her home address but not her mobile number
As for confirming garage door colour with you, she gave you the address in the first place so easy enough for her to look it up on google too
I would stay well away and I think you already know that's what you should do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds dodgey. From female point of view if a guy gave me nothing but address I'd never go though be curious. But as a woman I'd only give my address if was guy known long time and met before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just got chatting to a girl who wants to meet and has given me her address.
But she won't give me a contact number even when I have asked and she has no verifications on profile, although there are plenty of pics.
I'm in a bit of a pickle as I don't want to go and then get attacked or something as it was a trap.
Anyone with advice?"
Sounds very dodgy to me.... do a Google Street View on it and see what the place looks like... then ask 'her' a question about what it looks like and see if she miraculously disappears...... Lol!
ted. |
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"Well I've sent another message threatening to report their profile just incase anyone else falls into the trap.
Still no reply from either message so should I report them?
If anyone wants to know their profile message mei dont think you should go that far! report yes but not a witch hunt, she could have reasons  "
mate just message the profile and be polite tell it that they have missed out on meeting a genuine guy and you wish them luck but you will be blocking their profile if you do not receive phone or cam confirmation within a set time period |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice guys, I know the adress and it's not far from mine and its in a pretty normal area with plenty of houses around.
Her pics all show face aswell and have references to the town I'm in in the background aswell
So still a bit torn"
Why not meet her somewhere local then give her your thoughts on just coming straight to hers if she's not happy avoid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still dodgy mate let someone u trust know where u going and to ring u. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice guys, I know the adress and it's not far from mine and its in a pretty normal area with plenty of houses around.
Her pics all show face aswell and have references to the town I'm in in the background aswell
So still a bit torn
Why not meet her somewhere local then give her your thoughts on just coming straight to hers if she's not happy avoid "
Do you think it's a woman? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would go with your gut feeling... The fact that you have had to ask whether or not you should meet speaks volumes!!
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yes gut feeling etc but i dont agree with inboxing people her profile name, just msg saying u feel uncomfortable then if no answer. block. simple |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all the advice, nice to know that there are some real genuine and nice people on here.
Said profile still hasn't messaged me so I am assuming I have rumbled them.
Decided to avoid the meet and to avoid them altogether by blocking them.
I think I've definitely made the right decision and I'm glad you guys helped me.
Thanks again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the advice, nice to know that there are some real genuine and nice people on here.
Said profile still hasn't messaged me so I am assuming I have rumbled them.
Decided to avoid the meet and to avoid them altogether by blocking them.
I think I've definitely made the right decision and I'm glad you guys helped me.
Thanks again"
Wise decision! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the advice, nice to know that there are some real genuine and nice people on here.
Said profile still hasn't messaged me so I am assuming I have rumbled them.
Decided to avoid the meet and to avoid them altogether by blocking them.
I think I've definitely made the right decision and I'm glad you guys helped me.
Thanks again"
hehhehe am now off to get the meet...she phoned me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just got chatting to a girl who wants to meet and has given me her address.
But she won't give me a contact number even when I have asked and she has no verifications on profile, although there are plenty of pics.
I'm in a bit of a pickle as I don't want to go and then get attacked or something as it was a trap.
Anyone with advice?"
She is not a single girl thought, they have a couple's profile??????  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If in doubt, don't do it. If you ask me, there is something terribly wrong with someone (especially a single girl) if they are willing to give out their address to a complete stranger they have just met on the internet."
what she said!!! |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
Ive removed posts and Im going to close this now |
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