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So Bella and I both work at the same place. I've recently been really flirty with another girl at work and I really want to ask her if she is Bi or would be up for a 3some. Has anyone ever been in this situation or could suggest the best way of asking her without her getting freaked out or it going round work that we asked? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Think you have a better chance of finding out if Bella were to ask her over a drink outside tbh as girls are generally more inclined to chat together. "
The thing is Bella likes me to find the girls and take it from there, she wouldn't feel comfortable approaching a girl we both knew and asking :/ |
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In which case you run a very big risk of it going wrong and it either getting round work or worse, her taking it very badly and reporting to HR.
Tread very carefully.... |
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"In which case you run a very big risk of it going wrong and it either getting round work or worse, her taking it very badly and reporting to HR.
Tread very carefully...."
This is the risk isn't it! |
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"So Bella and I both work at the same place. I've recently been really flirty with another girl at work and I really want to ask her if she is Bi or would be up for a 3some. Has anyone ever been in this situation or could suggest the best way of asking her without her getting freaked out or it going round work that we asked? "
If you work with this person, then you have GOT to look further ahead than just a 3some with her and Bella. Over time there have been plenty of threads on here about what can and has gone wrong when you mix swinging with the work environment.
Think very, very carefully....
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"So Bella and I both work at the same place. I've recently been really flirty with another girl at work and I really want to ask her if she is Bi or would be up for a 3some. Has anyone ever been in this situation or could suggest the best way of asking her without her getting freaked out or it going round work that we asked?
If you work with this person, then you have GOT to look further ahead than just a 3some with her and Bella. Over time there have been plenty of threads on here about what can and has gone wrong when you mix swinging with the work environment.
Think very, very carefully....
ted."
That's good advice Ted! I guess sometimes the bigger picture needs to take a role in the decision making process! It's jut hard when she's so hot and so flirty! :P x |
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"So Bella and I both work at the same place. I've recently been really flirty with another girl at work and I really want to ask her if she is Bi or would be up for a 3some. Has anyone ever been in this situation or could suggest the best way of asking her without her getting freaked out or it going round work that we asked?
If you work with this person, then you have GOT to look further ahead than just a 3some with her and Bella. Over time there have been plenty of threads on here about what can and has gone wrong when you mix swinging with the work environment.
Think very, very carefully....
ted.
That's good advice Ted! I guess sometimes the bigger picture needs to take a role in the decision making process! It's jut hard when she's so hot and so flirty! :P x"
When you're as old as me and have seen countless hot n' horny women pass by and it's not the right situation to 'make a suggestion', you just get punch drink to it... and then you go off to the staff bog and have a wank like everyone else...
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"So Bella and I both work at the same place. I've recently been really flirty with another girl at work and I really want to ask her if she is Bi or would be up for a 3some. Has anyone ever been in this situation or could suggest the best way of asking her without her getting freaked out or it going round work that we asked?
If you work with this person, then you have GOT to look further ahead than just a 3some with her and Bella. Over time there have been plenty of threads on here about what can and has gone wrong when you mix swinging with the work environment.
Think very, very carefully....
ted.
That's good advice Ted! I guess sometimes the bigger picture needs to take a role in the decision making process! It's jut hard when she's so hot and so flirty! :P x
When you're as old as me and have seen countless hot n' horny women pass by and it's not the right situation to 'make a suggestion', you just get punch drink to it... and then you go off to the staff bog and have a wank like everyone else...
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Hahaha classic  you're a mine of good advice! |
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Work colleague + no strings group sex = Industrial Tribunal!
It's not like you're asking a colleague out on a date, you're asking a colleague questions that will lead to a proposition involving a sexual act that a lot of people find disgusting. I think we're all guilty of expecting everyone to be as open minded as us. One read of the Daily Mail says otherwise!
Don't do it!
(but if you do, stick an account in the forums so we can all have a read. Pics would be good too!  ) |
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Seriously though, there was a thread on here about six months ago from the fem of a couple who had only told ONE member of staff in her office that her and her hubby swung.
It ruined just about everything for her, and all because she had the hots for the guy she told and 'trusted' him.... he even plastered it all over his Facebook account....
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"So Bella and I both work at the same place. I've recently been really flirty with another girl at work and I really want to ask her if she is Bi or would be up for a 3some. Has anyone ever been in this situation or could suggest the best way of asking her without her getting freaked out or it going round work that we asked? "
Personally it wouldn't cross my mind to shit where I eat. Why do something that could impact on both your jobs?
I'd look elsewhere personally, but the decision is yours. |
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keep it a fantasy... have hot sex with the missus talking about what you'd both like to do with her.
however don't take the risk, especially with both of you working there. Stick with making things messy in fantasy land |
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