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what am I doing wrong ???
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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would love some help every time I message a lady they reply thanking me for a lovely message and wanting to chat then I don't hear from them I never bombard anyone with messages I don't understand what I am doing wrong having trouble getting photo uploaded been trying for ages would appreciate anyones advice  |
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"would love some help every time I message a lady they reply thanking me for a lovely message and wanting to chat then I don't hear from them I never bombard anyone with messages I don't understand what I am doing wrong having trouble getting photo uploaded been trying for ages would appreciate anyones advice "
I don't know, what are you doing wrong? Only you will know what you send in your messages to others. Would you like to answer, continue talking to someone if they sent the same message to you? You need to put effort in on here, especially single men its not one way traffic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I read your post I assumed you'd been here a month tops. But you've been here 9. You managed to create a profile so I assume you know how to work a computer, why can't you then upload a pic??
That coupled with the fact your profile is 2 lines long is probably the answer. |
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Put some punctuation into your profile text, and add some details that will really sell you even more. Interests, what you're good at, maybe something about you physically etc.
And photos are really essential, preferably a variety. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No pictures isn't going to help you. Nor is the poorly written profile.
And anyone that has so little in the way of preferences just seems desperate to me. |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
Righto, one simple test to check your profile is to take a deep breath in.
Then read your profile out loud to yourself, as you have written it and see if you can get to the end without running out of breath! Bet you cannot!!
The main problem is your Profile is all one verrrrrryyyyyyy long sentence. There's no breaks in the text with punctuation, separate sentences and so on.
In all, this makes for a jumbled, long drawn out rambling text which will put people off.
Break it down into blocks of information which shows who you are and what you want.
You have to "sell" yourself, to make yourself stand out against the other guys.
Plus as other posters have said, get pics up on your Profile. Would you go to a meet recognising the others by their silhouette?
Good Luck! |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
essex chelmsford |
"Righto, one simple test to check your profile is to take a deep breath in.
Then read your profile out loud to yourself, as you have written it and see if you can get to the end without running out of breath! Bet you cannot!!
The main problem is your Profile is all one verrrrrryyyyyyy long sentence. There's no breaks in the text with punctuation, separate sentences and so on.
In all, this makes for a jumbled, long drawn out rambling text which will put people off.
Break it down into blocks of information which shows who you are and what you want.
You have to "sell" yourself, to make yourself stand out against the other guys.
Plus as other posters have said, get pics up on your Profile. Would you go to a meet recognising the others by their silhouette?
Good Luck!"
 well put as always |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me personally you have a line on your profile That is one of my pet hates "age size not important" gives the "any holes a goal" impression. I know you followed by saying personality counts but I personally believe an initial attraction comes from looks, then the personality helps to embed the attraction or turns you off completely |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
You get out of this site what you put in, and from looking at your profile you are not putting much in! One very long, garbled sentence that lacks basic capital letters and punctuation just gives people the impression that you can't be arsed. If the messages you send out are anything like that then I am not surprised you aren't having any luck. Take a look at your profile and make changes....oh and 9 months without any pics uploaded? Theres no excuse really! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You get out of this site what you put in, and from looking at your profile you are not putting much in! One very long, garbled sentence that lacks basic capital letters and punctuation just gives people the impression that you can't be arsed. If the messages you send out are anything like that then I am not surprised you aren't having any luck. Take a look at your profile and make changes....oh and 9 months without any pics uploaded? Theres no excuse really!"
Wow dont hold back lol xx
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"You get out of this site what you put in, and from looking at your profile you are not putting much in! One very long, garbled sentence that lacks basic capital letters and punctuation just gives people the impression that you can't be arsed. If the messages you send out are anything like that then I am not surprised you aren't having any luck. Take a look at your profile and make changes....oh and 9 months without any pics uploaded?
Theres no excuse really! Wow dont hold back lol xx"
Well, just a few home truths! Lol! I mean look at the difference between his profile and yours......and there is only one of you moaning about lack of success!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You get out of this site what you put in, and from looking at your profile you are not putting much in! One very long, garbled sentence that lacks basic capital letters and punctuation just gives people the impression that you can't be arsed. If the messages you send out are anything like that then I am not surprised you aren't having any luck. Take a look at your profile and make changes....oh and 9 months without any pics uploaded?
Theres no excuse really! Wow dont hold back lol xx
Well, just a few home truths! Lol! I mean look at the difference between his profile and yours......and there is only one of you moaning about lack of success! "
Thankyou . I aim to please lol xxx |
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