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Why Do People Not Meet Up Of This Site....???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we think there are so many couples on here that dont meet yes there are some that do but we nearly always go to infusions to meet couples saves wasting are time on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We cant understand why nobody is up for meeting anymore off this site.
There are too many timewasters and pix collectors on here now we think.
Where have all the real genuine people gone....????"
They are all meeting us!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there something wrong with are profile...???
Neither of us drive so we cant go to any clubs as they are all miles away from us."
If people are communicating with you in the first place it's unlikely to be a profile issue as by my mind that is the initial "window shopping" bit. So if you're profile is attracting people in the first place maybe something else isn't quite working?
Re the club issue, We've found it is a great way to meet people. You could get a train and hotel? I appreciate this can be very expensive, but if you don't do it often and save up for it, then it may be worth it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there something wrong with are profile...???
Neither of us drive so we cant go to any clubs as they are all miles away from us."
I live in Widnes and often pop down to Xtasia by train, there is a hotel almost next door. Quite a few clubs have hotels close by or even part of the club, so make a weekend/couple of days of it.
As for people meeting, I know loads of people that meet, so there are plenty on here that do meet! |
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We have a staffie bitch at home and wouldnt go away for more than a night.
Plenty people are lookin and checkin us out but not sending winks or messages.
We are sending messages they are getting read but not deleted so slighty confused. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm off to a big party at the weekend, there will be people there.
Ive had some great meets over the last few weeks/months
1on1 meets, parties,socials,clubs
so I cant see where ur coming from OP at all |
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"We have a staffie bitch at home and wouldnt go away for more than a night.
Plenty people are lookin and checkin us out but not sending winks or messages.
We are sending messages they are getting read but not deleted so slighty confused."
You won't appeal to everyone. Simple as that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have a staffie bitch at home and wouldnt go away for more than a night.
Plenty people are lookin and checkin us out but not sending winks or messages.
We are sending messages they are getting read but not deleted so slighty confused."
Plenty of people would meet u I'm sure. Just be patient. |
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You said it yourselves !
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There are too many timewasters and pix collectors on here now we think.
Where have all the real genuine people gone....????"
The genuine ones well were still here; trying to get to meet peps, but get wrong-uns or numpty's that CANT read & write or spell nearly everytime. |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe a better photo-tried to private message you but im not a site supporter, sorry!
Can't you message if your not a site supporter?"
You can filter out non site supporters from messaging you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We cant understand why nobody is up for meeting anymore off this site.
There are too many timewasters and pix collectors on here now we think.
Where have all the real genuine people gone....????"
Loads of people in the North West meet! Maybe join in with the Fab chatrooms, and come along to the organised socials and parties - it doesn't take more than 1 night away from your pet - and hopefully you will make lots of new friends (some of which may play on the night, or later)
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do meet but other things in my life also take up my time so I tend to plan ahead. "
^^^ This. I don't meet many or often but it works for me and I've been lucky enough to meet some lovely men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do meet but other things in my life also take up my time so I tend to plan ahead.
^^^ This. I don't meet many or often but it works for me and I've been lucky enough to meet some lovely men "
ditto |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"We cant understand why nobody is up for meeting anymore off this site.
There are too many timewasters and pix collectors on here now we think.
Where have all the real genuine people gone....????"
Your probably just horny and going through a dry spell |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fancy takes you for the moment ,, you think about it, it goes , work life gets in the way of all of it ........ if you really really want to, you will , but is life really that easy .... me thinx not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite honestly I think its possibly a case of looking at the common denominator. Try and be slightly more flexible than you are being. I don't meet couples anymore because I find they can be more pushy than single guys. I meet when I want to how I want to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always seems to go quiet at this time of year, although this year even more so it seems.
i'm having more fun than ever. So not sure about that"
Same here  |
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"Quite honestly I think its possibly a case of looking at the common denominator. Try and be slightly more flexible than you are being. I don't meet couples anymore because I find they can be more pushy than single guys. I meet when I want to how I want to."
What do you mean by more flexible.??
How do you mean more pushy..?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do meet but other things in my life also take up my time. "
Right now with work, family, friends, and club visits I have little time left to arrange meets through the site. TBH meeting through the site is a faff, and while I have met some great people through Fab over the years, I've had more fun and made more friends in the short time I've been a club member than I have on here in over four years!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite honestly I think its possibly a case of looking at the common denominator. Try and be slightly more flexible than you are being. I don't meet couples anymore because I find they can be more pushy than single guys. I meet when I want to how I want to.
What do you mean by more flexible.??
How do you mean more pushy..??"
Well you say you cant or wont leave your dog so wont travel, do you expect people just to come to you? Why wont you consider travelling the distance to a club or a social event? I personally wouldn't meet anyone at their house for a first meet.
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"Quite honestly I think its possibly a case of looking at the common denominator. Try and be slightly more flexible than you are being. I don't meet couples anymore because I find they can be more pushy than single guys. I meet when I want to how I want to.
What do you mean by more flexible.??
How do you mean more pushy..??
Well you say you cant or wont leave your dog so wont travel, do you expect people just to come to you? Why wont you consider travelling the distance to a club or a social event? I personally wouldn't meet anyone at their house for a first meet.
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We can travel local for social meets but neither of us drive. public transport.
Also club are miles away from us plus charge stupid amounts and we have been told most are full of single males only which we are not interested in.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i live in chester n some time go to advenutres in lust in stoke could pick u up on way through share travel to n from but as u not interested that would be all could be a laugh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know what you mean. A lot of time wasters and people who are not who they say they are. This site is for meeting and just purely having sex and a laugh. I have seen people who want to look for love?? On this site it's not match.com!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know what you mean. A lot of time wasters and people who are not who they say they are. This site is for meeting and just purely having sex and a laugh. I have seen people who want to look for love?? On this site it's not match.com!!!!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always seems to go quiet at this time of year, although this year even more so it seems.
i'm having more fun than ever. So not sure about that"
Oh dear - must just be the mingers that struggle then 
I'm very pleased for you - but from what I have seen it is much quieter at the mo. No doubt it will pick up later in the year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite honestly I think its possibly a case of looking at the common denominator. Try and be slightly more flexible than you are being. I don't meet couples anymore because I find they can be more pushy than single guys. I meet when I want to how I want to.
What do you mean by more flexible.??
How do you mean more pushy..??
Well you say you cant or wont leave your dog so wont travel, do you expect people just to come to you? Why wont you consider travelling the distance to a club or a social event? I personally wouldn't meet anyone at their house for a first meet.
We can travel local for social meets but neither of us drive. public transport.
Also club are miles away from us plus charge stupid amounts and we have been told most are full of single males only which we are not interested in.
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Most clubs do a couples only night/couples and single females night/ couples, single females and limeted single males night. You can attend one of those. Not all charge a fortune and often very cheap if you go to an organised social at one.
You could always look for another couple that are localish to you that go to clubs and drive, to see if they would give you a lift if you share petrol costs. You don't have to actually play with them, but just another way of getting out and about.
In other words, look at as many ways as possible to make swinging work.
I haven't got a car at the moment, but have still managed to get meets and go to clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite honestly I think its possibly a case of looking at the common denominator. Try and be slightly more flexible than you are being. I don't meet couples anymore because I find they can be more pushy than single guys. I meet when I want to how I want to.
What do you mean by more flexible.??
How do you mean more pushy..??
Well you say you cant or wont leave your dog so wont travel, do you expect people just to come to you? Why wont you consider travelling the distance to a club or a social event? I personally wouldn't meet anyone at their house for a first meet.
We can travel local for social meets but neither of us drive. public transport.
Also club are miles away from us plus charge stupid amounts and we have been told most are full of single males only which we are not interested in.
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Clubs are not full of single males and I hardly think £20 is a stupid amount!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We cant understand why nobody is up for meeting anymore off this site.
They are! Check the zillions of meet posts, status updates and the multitude of new verifications daily in your local updates. People meet all the time!!
There are too many timewasters and pix collectors on here now we think.
They've always been here, always will be - and are still as easy to identify, ignore and block as they've always been! Common sense will get you a long way when assessing who to contact or reply to.
Where have all the real genuine people gone....????"
The same places they've always been - on here - happily getting on with life and having fun!!  |
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