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over a year ago
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Don't prowl, be very polite at all times and only watch those that are playing openly and publically if you want to watch. If they are behind closed doors don't try and peer through a window.
I visit Kestrel quite often and I have always taken a friend with benefits with me. We attract small groups of single men and its unpleasant.
If they were a little less pushy then who knows, perhaps I would share.
Dave
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over a year ago
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I had the same question about 6 months ago. Don't be shy, introduce yourself and be yourself. Don't expect to get to play on your first night, just enjoy it for what it is and see what happens. Enjoy it! |
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over a year ago
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Be polite, don't take offence at refusal and above all if someone says "no" then dont ask again half hour later.
We were at our club on Friday and one guy asked 3 times in the space of a couple of hours.
One last thing, relax and enjoy.![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be social, like you would in any other social setting. Talk about the weather etc. Don't be so blatant about what your there for. It's very off putting and shows a lack of respect. X |
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