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Have another look at your profile, it could be a little bit clearer, you end one sentence with amd am certainly and I'm not sure what you mean. Other wise it is just a case of being patient for most single men I understand. It does appear that the men who make themselves known in a good way through the forums by joining in and being generally personable get more attention so you might consider joining in a few threads in a good way (moaning and being rude has the opposite effect  )
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By *elaxedfuntimes OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield (heely) feel free to msg me |
"Have another look at your profile, it could be a little bit clearer, you end one sentence with amd am certainly and I'm not sure what you mean. Other wise it is just a case of being patient for most single men I understand. It does appear that the men who make themselves known in a good way through the forums by joining in and being generally personable get more attention so you might consider joining in a few threads in a good way (moaning and being rude has the opposite effect )
Good luck!"
Thank you my profile ok love?  |
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over a year ago
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"Have another look at your profile, it could be a little bit clearer, you end one sentence with amd am certainly and I'm not sure what you mean. Other wise it is just a case of being patient for most single men I understand. It does appear that the men who make themselves known in a good way through the forums by joining in and being generally personable get more attention so you might consider joining in a few threads in a good way (moaning and being rude has the opposite effect )
Good luck!
Thank you my profile ok love? "
Im sure the male half of the couple likes being called love LOL |
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"Have another look at your profile, it could be a little bit clearer, you end one sentence with amd am certainly and I'm not sure what you mean. Other wise it is just a case of being patient for most single men I understand. It does appear that the men who make themselves known in a good way through the forums by joining in and being generally personable get more attention so you might consider joining in a few threads in a good way (moaning and being rude has the opposite effect )
Good luck!
Thank you my profile ok love? "
I've seen better and I've seen worse . The thing is that your profile is all someone has to go on in the first instance so you need to make it as good as possible, its no good me telling you what to put in it though because that would be advertising me and not you  |
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"Have another look at your profile, it could be a little bit clearer, you end one sentence with amd am certainly and I'm not sure what you mean. Other wise it is just a case of being patient for most single men I understand. It does appear that the men who make themselves known in a good way through the forums by joining in and being generally personable get more attention so you might consider joining in a few threads in a good way (moaning and being rude has the opposite effect )
Good luck!
Thank you my profile ok love?
Im sure the male half of the couple likes being called love LOL"
Oh yes I meant to say, how do you know I'm not the male half? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"The bareback verification will put loads off I am afraid. Nice pics though!
It will but its better to know that someone barebacks in our opinion."
My thoughts also, but it's a factor. |
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"The bareback verification will put loads off I am afraid. Nice pics though!
It will but its better to know that someone barebacks in our opinion."
Except now he's hidden it, no one will ever know! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"The bareback verification will put loads off I am afraid. Nice pics though!
It will but its better to know that someone barebacks in our opinion.
Except now he's hidden it, no one will ever know!"
.............. and thats is why I don't think anyone should ever give specifics..
now It is deception by omission.... which is a lot lot worse in my eyes!!! 
at least people knew where they stood... now that has been taken away from those making decisions!!!  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"The bareback verification will put loads off I am afraid. Nice pics though!
It will but its better to know that someone barebacks in our opinion.
Except now he's hidden it, no one will ever know!
.............. and thats is why I don't think anyone should ever give specifics..
now It is deception by omission.... which is a lot lot worse in my eyes!!!
at least people knew where they stood... now that has been taken away from those making decisions!!! "
To be fair, it was only one and, as we are all responsible for our own sexual health, it's unlikely that bare-backing will be forced upon some unsuspecting meet. However I told him what I thought his problem was, and he took the advice. I am sure there are many many other profiles out there who also hide indiscreet veris, and we'll never know. |
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By *elaxedfuntimes OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield (heely) feel free to msg me |
"The bareback verification will put loads off I am afraid. Nice pics though!
It will but its better to know that someone barebacks in our opinion.
Except now he's hidden it, no one will ever know!
.............. and thats is why I don't think anyone should ever give specifics..
now It is deception by omission.... which is a lot lot worse in my eyes!!!
at least people knew where they stood... now that has been taken away from those making decisions!!!
To be fair, it was only one and, as we are all responsible for our own sexual health, it's unlikely that bare-backing will be forced upon some unsuspecting meet. However I told him what I thought his problem was, and he took the advice. I am sure there are many many other profiles out there who also hide indiscreet veris, and we'll never know."
Thank you hunni xx |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"The bareback verification will put loads off I am afraid. Nice pics though!
It will but its better to know that someone barebacks in our opinion.
Except now he's hidden it, no one will ever know!
.............. and thats is why I don't think anyone should ever give specifics..
now It is deception by omission.... which is a lot lot worse in my eyes!!!
at least people knew where they stood... now that has been taken away from those making decisions!!!
To be fair, it was only one and, as we are all responsible for our own sexual health, it's unlikely that bare-backing will be forced upon some unsuspecting meet. However I told him what I thought his problem was, and he took the advice. I am sure there are many many other profiles out there who also hide indiscreet veris, and we'll never know."
and you know what... i would have said exactly the same things with regards to those profiles as well....
i think it is great that some people have "tells" and that is one of them...... and it also works in the sifting out process as to who gets meets with some people...
after all you were the one who said it would be a factor for some
he took the advice, and where that would have been keen information for some, he took it away because it make him look better...
to be honest... i'd rather take truthful!!! not enough can be said for honesty.... |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"The bareback verification will put loads off I am afraid. Nice pics though!
It will but its better to know that someone barebacks in our opinion.
Except now he's hidden it, no one will ever know!
.............. and thats is why I don't think anyone should ever give specifics..
now It is deception by omission.... which is a lot lot worse in my eyes!!!
at least people knew where they stood... now that has been taken away from those making decisions!!!
To be fair, it was only one and, as we are all responsible for our own sexual health, it's unlikely that bare-backing will be forced upon some unsuspecting meet. However I told him what I thought his problem was, and he took the advice. I am sure there are many many other profiles out there who also hide indiscreet veris, and we'll never know.
and you know what... i would have said exactly the same things with regards to those profiles as well....
i think it is great that some people have "tells" and that is one of them...... and it also works in the sifting out process as to who gets meets with some people...
after all you were the one who said it would be a factor for some
he took the advice, and where that would have been keen information for some, he took it away because it make him look better...
to be honest... i'd rather take truthful!!! not enough can be said for honesty...."
Well if I hadn't said it, someone else certainly would have, purely because it's so important to so many people. As I said though, one indiscretion does not a predator make. We're not all as clear-thinking as you unfortunately. |
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