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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To us swinging is about actually meeting and not camming. Wouldnt it be better to only allow meeting as the only form of verification that way we"d get rid of all the singles posing as couples.
Guys seem to verify females within a moment of them joining fabs in the hope they will get a shag surely admin should do something about this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would you let it bother you? If you see a profile that has a met by cam veri on it, move on to the next one! Some people get veri'ed by cam to prove they are who they say they are! And thats what they are entitled to do. |
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By *andcCouple
over a year ago
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Problem is people will come along and say that you're deciding what swinging is and they meet people but like to cam also!
We are with you on this one, camming/cyber sex and swinging are 2 different things to us too, but as the site owners run the site as they wish and people can verify people who cam all we ask is that there is different colours for meet and cam verifications, so if you have meet a green tick, if you have cammed an orange tick and both if you have been verified both ways.
By doing this you could look at a profile and thing cams only verifies and pass them by, this could also be a good option to remove people from search results to, so you could search for verified by meet and this would filter out all those with cam verifys ONLY.
The other reason we like this option is that there are many people who don't want to show their verifications as they see the wording and who they have met irrelevant to people looking at their profile and while we don't mind people doing this currently we have no way of distinguishing people who have meet or cam verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Guys seem to verify females within a moment of them joining fabs in the hope they will get a shag surely admin should do something about this
SAYS THE PROFILE WITHOUT ANY PICS YOU SEEM SHADY TO M. this site is free people can do as they please as long as they stay within the rules  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The new verification summary is excellent. It should be compulsory so you can see the truth behind the 'green tick'."
I like that you no longer have to actually show individual veris, yet get a summary. Gives a much clearer picture.
Well done administration, a great and useful addition.  |
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another site i was on that you had to pay to join has what is called feedback
so you put something about a person
after a meet you had 3 boxes to tick first
when i was a cpl always put feedback about
anyone .and met people with feedback
as it gave you an idea of what they are like and if they are genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The new verification summary is excellent. It should be compulsory so you can see the truth behind the 'green tick'."
I for one would not like this at all. I arrange any meets without the need to revert to what someone else has said about them. What I do or don't do is my business and nobody else's. I am very pleased that it is an opt in option and as so I will not use it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Problem is people will come along and say that you're deciding what swinging is and they meet people but like to cam also!
We are with you on this one, camming/cyber sex and swinging are 2 different things to us too, but as the site owners run the site as they wish and people can verify people who cam all we ask is that there is different colours for meet and cam verifications, so if you have meet a green tick, if you have cammed an orange tick and both if you have been verified both ways.
By doing this you could look at a profile and thing cams only verifies and pass them by, this could also be a good option to remove people from search results to, so you could search for verified by meet and this would filter out all those with cam verifys ONLY.
The other reason we like this option is that there are many people who don't want to show their verifications as they see the wording and who they have met irrelevant to people looking at their profile and while we don't mind people doing this currently we have no way of distinguishing people who have meet or cam verifications."
I fail to see the need for ticks as if you read the summery it tells you how many are meets and how many are cam. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... this could also be a good option to remove people from search results to, so you could search for verified by meet and this would filter out all those with cam verifys ONLY..."
The facility to search for those verified BY MEET (i.e. not just cam verified) is already there, under the Advanced Search option.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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".... Wouldnt it be better to only allow meeting as the only form of verification that way we"d get rid of all the singles posing as couples...."
I don't understand this. If you want to meet couples, then surely you can have MORE confidence that it's not a 'single posing as couple' if someone has a verification by cam! Maybe you like to do the 'phone call between the females' as well, which is fine. But you can just ignore their cam verification.
And the phone call between the females doesn't establish if they look like their profile pics. If a meet is arranged between people who have only seen photos, there is a risk that those photos were 10 years out of date.
If someone has asked a couple/female to put their cam on (to prove the existence of a female, and the current appearanc of both of them), but then decides not to meet them, leaving a cam verification is a simple courtesy. All it says is .... "seen them on cam, they're a couple, and they look like their current pics".
I really don't see any problems with cam verifications, for those who want to use/read them, and the rest of us can ignore them. |
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Can't follow the cam thing, if I'm feeling horny I want to fuck someone not my hand. I just joined up as a site supporter last night but silver not gold because the only thing that gold offered was extra cams. |
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I think its a valuable toe dipping function (camming) and has been pointed out you can use the much improved advanced search option to find people who are "meet verified only".
The website gives YOU all the tools to make sure those you search for and engage with are real and "meet" you just have to put a bit of effort in yourself.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The new verification summary is excellent. It should be compulsory so you can see the truth behind the 'green tick'.
I for one would not like this at all. I arrange any meets without the need to revert to what someone else has said about them. What I do or don't do is my business and nobody else's. I am very pleased that it is an opt in option and as so I will not use it. "
I don't show either veri's or the summary, and I won't. I use my common sense on finding people who I want to meet, not what someone else has said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The new verification summary is excellent. It should be compulsory so you can see the truth behind the 'green tick'.
I for one would not like this at all. I arrange any meets without the need to revert to what someone else has said about them. What I do or don't do is my business and nobody else's. I am very pleased that it is an opt in option and as so I will not use it.
I don't show either veri's or the summary, and I won't. I use my common sense on finding people who I want to meet, not what someone else has said."
The summary doesn't have anything that anyone has said. But it does show if you have met, how and when.
At the minute someone can be 'verified' by one webcam session five years ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wont be hiding my verifications, I will display the summary.
I like what people say in the veris, in whatever capacity it is.
I dont hide the verifies from males, as they are from social meets,party meets,gangbangs.. if someone actually reads the verifies from males, it should be clear it wasnt a sexual verify
anyway...never really had a problem with the original system throughout the many years |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The new verification summary is excellent. It should be compulsory so you can see the truth behind the 'green tick'.
I for one would not like this at all. I arrange any meets without the need to revert to what someone else has said about them. What I do or don't do is my business and nobody else's. I am very pleased that it is an opt in option and as so I will not use it.
I don't show either veri's or the summary, and I won't. I use my common sense on finding people who I want to meet, not what someone else has said.
The summary doesn't have anything that anyone has said. But it does show if you have met, how and when.
At the minute someone can be 'verified' by one webcam session five years ago."
Possibly or it could be that they met someone 2 minutes ago but don't feel the need to have it broadcast to anyone that looks at their profile......thank goodness for the opt out feature  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The new verification summary is excellent. It should be compulsory so you can see the truth behind the 'green tick'.
I for one would not like this at all. I arrange any meets without the need to revert to what someone else has said about them. What I do or don't do is my business and nobody else's. I am very pleased that it is an opt in option and as so I will not use it.
I don't show either veri's or the summary, and I won't. I use my common sense on finding people who I want to meet, not what someone else has said.
The summary doesn't have anything that anyone has said. But it does show if you have met, how and when.
At the minute someone can be 'verified' by one webcam session five years ago.
Possibly or it could be that they met someone 2 minutes ago but don't feel the need to have it broadcast to anyone that looks at their profile......thank goodness for the opt out feature "
How is it broadcast? It just tells people if it was in person or on webcam (world of difference), what gender and when.
How can that possibly be an issue?
We wouldn't meet anyone if we couldn't determine if they were genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Guys seem to verify females within a moment of them joining fabs in the hope they will get a shag surely admin should do something about this
SAYS THE PROFILE WITHOUT ANY PICS YOU SEEM SHADY TO M. this site is free people can do as they please as long as they stay within the rules "
but we have veries to show we are a real couple and have turned up at meets when arranged. Do pics on the profile do this? I think not.
Aas a single guy placing importance on pics just demonstates your a pic collecter wanting a quick yank at other peoples pics. We always provide pics to people we want to meet who are the important ones not the five finger shufflers like you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The new verification summary is excellent. It should be compulsory so you can see the truth behind the 'green tick'.
I for one would not like this at all. I arrange any meets without the need to revert to what someone else has said about them. What I do or don't do is my business and nobody else's. I am very pleased that it is an opt in option and as so I will not use it.
I don't show either veri's or the summary, and I won't. I use my common sense on finding people who I want to meet, not what someone else has said.
The summary doesn't have anything that anyone has said. But it does show if you have met, how and when.
At the minute someone can be 'verified' by one webcam session five years ago.
Possibly or it could be that they met someone 2 minutes ago but don't feel the need to have it broadcast to anyone that looks at their profile......thank goodness for the opt out feature
How is it broadcast? It just tells people if it was in person or on webcam (world of difference), what gender and when.
How can that possibly be an issue?
We wouldn't meet anyone if we couldn't determine if they were genuine."
Neither would anyone? having meet veris does'nt mean they'll turn up,just means they turned up for those ones on their profile
Im photo verified,meet verified thats all the info I need anyone to know,the rest they can work out for themself the same as I do,if its not enough then they can move on,im not in the least bit concerned about it,I don't like the count system,id be more than happy to have different coloured ticks to determine cam veris from meet veris,but in all honesty I don't really care at all as ill just keep my profile as it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The new verification summary is excellent. It should be compulsory so you can see the truth behind the 'green tick'.
I for one would not like this at all. I arrange any meets without the need to revert to what someone else has said about them. What I do or don't do is my business and nobody else's. I am very pleased that it is an opt in option and as so I will not use it.
I don't show either veri's or the summary, and I won't. I use my common sense on finding people who I want to meet, not what someone else has said.
The summary doesn't have anything that anyone has said. But it does show if you have met, how and when.
At the minute someone can be 'verified' by one webcam session five years ago.
Possibly or it could be that they met someone 2 minutes ago but don't feel the need to have it broadcast to anyone that looks at their profile......thank goodness for the opt out feature
How is it broadcast? It just tells people if it was in person or on webcam (world of difference), what gender and when.
How can that possibly be an issue?
We wouldn't meet anyone if we couldn't determine if they were genuine.
Neither would anyone? having meet veris does'nt mean they'll turn up,just means they turned up for those ones on their profile
Im photo verified,meet verified thats all the info I need anyone to know,the rest they can work out for themself the same as I do,if its not enough then they can move on,im not in the least bit concerned about it,I don't like the count system,id be more than happy to have different coloured ticks to determine cam veris from meet veris,but in all honesty I don't really care at all as ill just keep my profile as it is "
No it doesn't mean they will turn up....but it is the only guide on here that helps when seeking genuine people.
We wouldn't waste our time if someone had a verification from years ago or just from a webcam.
I can't help but feel those who won't disclose have something to hide. Just saying...and not directed at anyone in particular. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys seem to verify females within a moment of them joining fabs in the hope they will get a shag surely admin should do something about this
SAYS THE PROFILE WITHOUT ANY PICS YOU SEEM SHADY TO M. this site is free people can do as they please as long as they stay within the rules
but we have veries to show we are a real couple and have turned up at meets when arranged. Do pics on the profile do this? I think not.
Aas a single guy placing importance on pics just demonstates your a pic collecter wanting a quick yank at other peoples pics. We always provide pics to people we want to meet who are the important ones not the five finger shufflers like you!"
get a room u three lol- maybe best not to slag each other off,especially while reflecting on ur profiles(I do read lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The new verification summary is excellent. It should be compulsory so you can see the truth behind the 'green tick'.
I for one would not like this at all. I arrange any meets without the need to revert to what someone else has said about them. What I do or don't do is my business and nobody else's. I am very pleased that it is an opt in option and as so I will not use it.
I don't show either veri's or the summary, and I won't. I use my common sense on finding people who I want to meet, not what someone else has said.
The summary doesn't have anything that anyone has said. But it does show if you have met, how and when.
At the minute someone can be 'verified' by one webcam session five years ago.
Possibly or it could be that they met someone 2 minutes ago but don't feel the need to have it broadcast to anyone that looks at their profile......thank goodness for the opt out feature
How is it broadcast? It just tells people if it was in person or on webcam (world of difference), what gender and when.
How can that possibly be an issue?
We wouldn't meet anyone if we couldn't determine if they were genuine.
Neither would anyone? having meet veris does'nt mean they'll turn up,just means they turned up for those ones on their profile
Im photo verified,meet verified thats all the info I need anyone to know,the rest they can work out for themself the same as I do,if its not enough then they can move on,im not in the least bit concerned about it,I don't like the count system,id be more than happy to have different coloured ticks to determine cam veris from meet veris,but in all honesty I don't really care at all as ill just keep my profile as it is
No it doesn't mean they will turn up....but it is the only guide on here that helps when seeking genuine people.
We wouldn't waste our time if someone had a verification from years ago or just from a webcam.
I can't help but feel those who won't disclose have something to hide. Just saying...and not directed at anyone in particular."
I can't help feeling some people need their hands holding when trying to work out meets... Not directed at anyone in particular just my opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The new verification summary is excellent. It should be compulsory so you can see the truth behind the 'green tick'.
I for one would not like this at all. I arrange any meets without the need to revert to what someone else has said about them. What I do or don't do is my business and nobody else's. I am very pleased that it is an opt in option and as so I will not use it.
I don't show either veri's or the summary, and I won't. I use my common sense on finding people who I want to meet, not what someone else has said.
The summary doesn't have anything that anyone has said. But it does show if you have met, how and when.
At the minute someone can be 'verified' by one webcam session five years ago.
Possibly or it could be that they met someone 2 minutes ago but don't feel the need to have it broadcast to anyone that looks at their profile......thank goodness for the opt out feature
How is it broadcast? It just tells people if it was in person or on webcam (world of difference), what gender and when.
How can that possibly be an issue?
We wouldn't meet anyone if we couldn't determine if they were genuine.
Neither would anyone? having meet veris does'nt mean they'll turn up,just means they turned up for those ones on their profile
Im photo verified,meet verified thats all the info I need anyone to know,the rest they can work out for themself the same as I do,if its not enough then they can move on,im not in the least bit concerned about it,I don't like the count system,id be more than happy to have different coloured ticks to determine cam veris from meet veris,but in all honesty I don't really care at all as ill just keep my profile as it is
No it doesn't mean they will turn up....but it is the only guide on here that helps when seeking genuine people.
We wouldn't waste our time if someone had a verification from years ago or just from a webcam.
I can't help but feel those who won't disclose have something to hide. Just saying...and not directed at anyone in particular.
I can't help feeling some people need their hands holding when trying to work out meets... Not directed at anyone in particular just my opinion "
You don't meet anyone.
Do you need your hand holding? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The new verification summary is excellent. It should be compulsory so you can see the truth behind the 'green tick'.
I for one would not like this at all. I arrange any meets without the need to revert to what someone else has said about them. What I do or don't do is my business and nobody else's. I am very pleased that it is an opt in option and as so I will not use it.
I don't show either veri's or the summary, and I won't. I use my common sense on finding people who I want to meet, not what someone else has said.
The summary doesn't have anything that anyone has said. But it does show if you have met, how and when.
At the minute someone can be 'verified' by one webcam session five years ago.
Possibly or it could be that they met someone 2 minutes ago but don't feel the need to have it broadcast to anyone that looks at their profile......thank goodness for the opt out feature
How is it broadcast? It just tells people if it was in person or on webcam (world of difference), what gender and when.
How can that possibly be an issue?
We wouldn't meet anyone if we couldn't determine if they were genuine.
Neither would anyone? having meet veris does'nt mean they'll turn up,just means they turned up for those ones on their profile
Im photo verified,meet verified thats all the info I need anyone to know,the rest they can work out for themself the same as I do,if its not enough then they can move on,im not in the least bit concerned about it,I don't like the count system,id be more than happy to have different coloured ticks to determine cam veris from meet veris,but in all honesty I don't really care at all as ill just keep my profile as it is
No it doesn't mean they will turn up....but it is the only guide on here that helps when seeking genuine people.
We wouldn't waste our time if someone had a verification from years ago or just from a webcam.
I can't help but feel those who won't disclose have something to hide. Just saying...and not directed at anyone in particular.
I can't help feeling some people need their hands holding when trying to work out meets... Not directed at anyone in particular just my opinion
You don't meet anyone.
Do you need your hand holding?"
Nope I manage very well alone but thank you for the offer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Amazing how much some people can apparently judge based on no information at all.
Everyone knows this site is superficial."
Markedly more so than even before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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makes no odds anyways with those who are verified!
as untill someone turns up u never know if genuine or not.
last wkend i had 2 no shows...one of which had met before...and other one, exchanged numbers, chatted on phone and tex me to say leaving...never turned up! when i texed and messeged..nothing back at all..yet he been online since!
so verified or not anyone can let u down and talk crap about meeting etc. just have move on thats all..just a shame people do it though as when happens makes u wary meeting! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No it doesn't mean they will turn up....but it is the only guide on here that helps when seeking genuine people.
We wouldn't waste our time if someone had a verification from years ago or just from a webcam.
I can't help but feel those who won't disclose have something to hide. Just saying...and not directed at anyone in particular."
I have something to hide....
My veri's and veri summary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But what about the people who use the site for chat rooms or the new couple/single who is just getting a feel for it all so start in the chat room ?"
Ignore them, they're not real |
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"Problem is people will come along and say that you're deciding what swinging is and they meet people but like to cam also!
We are with you on this one, camming/cyber sex and swinging are 2 different things to us too, but as the site owners run the site as they wish and people can verify people who cam all we ask is that there is different colours for meet and cam verifications, so if you have meet a green tick, if you have cammed an orange tick and both if you have been verified both ways.
By doing this you could look at a profile and thing cams only verifies and pass them by, this could also be a good option to remove people from search results to, so you could search for verified by meet and this would filter out all those with cam verifys ONLY.
The other reason we like this option is that there are many people who don't want to show their verifications as they see the wording and who they have met irrelevant to people looking at their profile and while we don't mind people doing this currently we have no way of distinguishing people who have meet or cam verifications.
I fail to see the need for ticks as if you read the summery it tells you how many are meets and how many are cam. "
But you just said you wouldn't use the summary so for people looking at your profilethe ticks would be useful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Guys seem to verify females within a moment of them joining fabs in the hope they will get a shag surely admin should do something about this
OP still crying don't forget to report me again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do we need coloured ticks for cams or real life meets?
Surely you'd ask them if they want to meet. They say "no we only cam" or... "yes". Easy.  "
It really can't be that easy  |
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"Guys seem to verify females within a moment of them joining fabs in the hope they will get a shag surely admin should do something about this
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they do - if you have proof and report it.
admin themselves say validations are only a tool and cannot be used to guarantee anyone is genuine. |
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"Guys seem to verify females within a moment of them joining fabs in the hope they will get a shag surely admin should do something about this
they do - if you have proof and report it.
admin themselves say validations are only a tool and cannot be used to guarantee anyone is genuine."
Ohhh I don't know...we would have to be pretty clever to fake all our verifications and summary. Surely we must be genuine by now... |
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I like to cam if im going to meet someone - proof we are who we say we are and if they wont/cant upload site I cam on, because my cam doesnt work here, I swerve them. Nothing wrong with cam veris  |
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"Guys seem to verify females within a moment of them joining fabs in the hope they will get a shag surely admin should do something about this
they do - if you have proof and report it.
admin themselves say validations are only a tool and cannot be used to guarantee anyone is genuine.
Ohhh I don't know...we would have to be pretty clever to fake all our verifications and summary. Surely we must be genuine by now..."
Yep as genuine as me just I choose to go about showing I'm genuine in a different way to you. It's all about options |
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"I like to cam if im going to meet someone - proof we are who we say we are and if they wont/cant upload site I cam on, because my cam doesnt work here, I swerve them. Nothing wrong with cam veris "
Just being pedantic here..you are a single woman but you refer to yourself as 'we'? |
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"I like to cam if im going to meet someone - proof we are who we say we are and if they wont/cant upload site I cam on, because my cam doesnt work here, I swerve them. Nothing wrong with cam veris
Just being pedantic here..you are a single woman but you refer to yourself as 'we'? "
I'm reading it as we meaning Scorpio and the male she is talking to. |
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