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croasdressing. why seen as weird
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi. I have been on fab for a while. I am putting pics up friday as finally plucked up the courage. Also doing cam session with my fave vibrator and a huge didlo to suck on, ain't I a lucky girl.
My question is why are men wearing women's clothes weird When I see all the time women wearing men's top or clothes. I even know of a girl who wears men's boxers. What's peoples thoughts.
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I think it is because some see it as a purely sexual thing. Men dressed as women only do it to be seen as a slut etc. A lot of the TV profiles I have read have annealing these lines.
Women wearing trousers don't often do so to act like a man. They do it for practical reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its not my thing but i dont think its weird,each to their own 
Some people find it easier to juge than to understand but dont let them put you off , you go for it and good luck
Ps: women get away with more because they are so bloody sexy lol  |
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When I started dressing and going to clubs I thought it that people would think it wierd.But met other tgirls guys and woman and they treated me nice.Told a couple of friends(not in the scene) when I was d*unk.They seemed to be ok with it.I guess its each to their own x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think ur right people think its about being a slur and sexual thing. I find wines clothes more concord espically nice thongs. But nightes to sleep in are more confie. Also dresses in this wear are so much cooler |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally i dont thinks its weird at all.
However when women wear means clothes its usually just a hoodie or a trackie trousers etc.
When a man wears womens clothes its usually the dress up type of attire and not just a pair of womens jeans and a top which i dint think anyone would bat an eyelid at. |
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From a personal standpoint, i see it as a bit weird mainly because women's clothes haven't been adapted for men to wear quite like men's clothes have for women.
Obviously a reflection of society's push back against the patriarchy, but still. You look at a woman wearing a man's clothes and vice versa, and the former USUALLY looks way better than the latter. The one that makes me cringe is when guys put on female underwear.
Whatever floats your boat though. The above are just my personal opinions  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From a personal standpoint, i see it as a bit weird mainly because women's clothes haven't been adapted for men to wear quite like men's clothes have for women.
Obviously a reflection of society's push back against the patriarchy, but still. You look at a woman wearing a man's clothes and vice versa, and the former USUALLY looks way better than the latter. The one that makes me cringe is when guys put on female underwear.
Whatever floats your boat though. The above are just my personal opinions "
I have to agree, maybe this is a common male reaction, it would be interesting to see what women think |
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I don't find it weird each to their own. If you like dressing as a woman then crack on. What I don't like is tv,s calling them selves a lady or girl. You aren't your a guy dressed as one. But I suppose its part of the fantasy. Still don't like it tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it is because some see it as a purely sexual thing. Men dressed as women only do it to be seen as a slut etc. A lot of the TV profiles I have read have annealing these lines.
Women wearing trousers don't often do so to act like a man. They do it for practical reasons. "
I have yet to see a woman dress as a man for sexual reasons as the above mentions it's more for comfort or practicality. We don't find tv ts weird at all although some cd to us are a total turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I agree. I would love it if They made men's undies as pretty and different styles as women's. Also would love a dress cut for a man. I like calling myself Sophie as it males me feel like the compleate girl.
Just bought my first wig |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi. I have been on fab for a while. I am putting pics up friday as finally plucked up the courage. Also doing cam session with my fave vibrator and a huge didlo to suck on, ain't I a lucky girl.
My question is why are men wearing women's clothes weird When I see all the time women wearing men's top or clothes. I even know of a girl who wears men's boxers. What's peoples thoughts.
Sophiexxx"
Each to their own. There are now companies that specialise in making lingerie designed for men. Just do a search and you'll find it. |
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"A nice hard cock in a pair of frilly knickers is horny as fuck. "
Oh...God...yeah!!!
I like playmates to dress in lingerie: the butcher the man, the hotter I find it. I had a playmate who was a dancer and owned a dance school. He was tall, lean and lithe with long wavy chestnut coloured hair.
When he wore lingerie I found it a turn off as he looked gorgeous in it! The human mind is a funny thing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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May sound a bit daft here but loads of nice different undies for men just look at most sex shops online. As for dresses cut for men wouldn't they just look awful as a dress looks the way it does because of its cut. All women have different body shapes so would just be a case of finding the right style for your frame |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Could I ask. Would u turn a meet down because of it. "
Wouldn't turn down a meet as such just because it is one of their interests. Met one single guy that enjoys cross dressing with the right people.
But I wouldn't want to see a man dressed in womens clothes/underwear on a meet with us as I don't find it sexually appealing it's more of a turn off for me.
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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My question is why are men wearing women's clothes weird ..............
Sophiexxx"
Not actually weird but seen as weird by some who are uncomfortable with what's seen as sexual uncertainty. Men, in particular, don't like that.
As for cross-dressing. Does wearing heavy tights where the temperature stays well below zero for weeks on end count as cross-dressing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi. I have been on fab for a while. I am putting pics up friday as finally plucked up the courage. Also doing cam session with my fave vibrator and a huge didlo to suck on, ain't I a lucky girl.......
Sophiexxx"
Sophie, wear whatever you like, it's YOUR life! And if you want to call yourself a girl, that's fine by me!
Come to Fab Northern Chat for great banter .... Northern Chat has lots of sexy TV/TS girls, and you'll be made very welcome. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to have to say and most may point out im straught but i find it so much a turn on men in nice undies or fully dressed cd/tv im so tempted to meet 1 infact trying to sort it out now with a local |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More men and women should look at it. Women its a shopping friend who u will know will give u konest feedback as They fancey u unlike gay guys
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Please explain your logic here ?
In our view a guy who is trying to get in your knickers or a guy who has no sexual desire for you so no ulterior motive surely the later will be more honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry to have to say and most may point out im straught but i find it so much a turn on men in nice undies or fully dressed cd/tv im so tempted to meet 1 infact trying to sort it out now with a local "
Your not straight then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv not been with a man as yet but may be soon as after joining here have been tempted and willing to give it a go but how far it will go is what im looking forward to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As for cross-dressing. Does wearing heavy tights where the temperature stays well below zero for weeks on end count as cross-dressing?"
Depends if you shave you legs and erotically smooth out all the wrinkles while extending each leg and pointing your toes as you put them on...;-)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As weve said before, there is alot of males that like to dress as women but never women to men..I am going to experiment with this soon tho, and out pics on here..too see if im a convincing looking man?? (mrs glitter x)Wont be making a single guy profile tho!! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi. I have been on fab for a while. I am putting pics up friday as finally plucked up the courage. Also doing cam session with my fave vibrator and a huge didlo to suck on, ain't I a lucky girl.
My question is why are men wearing women's clothes weird When I see all the time women wearing men's top or clothes. I even know of a girl who wears men's boxers. What's peoples thoughts.
Sophiexxx"
I dont think its weird. As has been said each to their own. And you ladies have fabulous figures and can get away with it, so go for it and have fun |
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"More men and women should look at it. Women its a shopping friend who u will know will give u konest feedback as They fancey u unlike gay guys
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Surely if they fancy you they'll be biased where as a personal gok will give a real response lol |
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I think Evie hit the right button in the first place, most crossdressers and some transvestites I know, seem to be doing it entirely for sexual purposes rather than a lifestyle choice, and it's that aspect that some members of the fab and general community find hard to come to terms with.
Personally I don't find it any more strange than those who want to be tied up and flogged or urinated on, pick any one from a hundred different passions/fetishes and you'll always find those that love it and those that don't get it.
My advice is to stop fretting about what other people think, those that share your passions will seek you out, hugz n stuff, xxx |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
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My question is why are men wearing women's clothes weird ..............
Sophiexxx
Not actually weird but seen as weird by some who are uncomfortable with what's seen as sexual uncertainty. Men, in particular, don't like that.
As for cross-dressing. Does wearing heavy tights where the temperature stays well below zero for weeks on end count as cross-dressing?"
I thought that in Scotland wearing anything under your skirt, sorry kilt, was seen as cross dressing regardless of the temperature. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are asking why people think its weird as in strange or odd, that's because it is uncommon, there's your answer. If you are asking why more men don't do it, then my answer would be women's clothes look like too much effort and damn uncomfortable |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all. New point to disscuss. How do people if a crossdresser wearing female undwear under their male clothers.
Today I am wearing a cute satin flower thong
Sophiexxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally i find it strange a guy wearing womens clothes. And ad someone said previously if you do your still a guy not a girl until youve had the dongles removed. Find it neither sexy or attractive or a turn on.
But no more strange than guys in chatroom posing as couples wanking furiously while partner is out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all. New point to disscuss. How do people if a crossdresser wearing female undwear under their male clothers.
Today I am wearing a cute satin flower thong
Sophiexxxx"
Nobody knows but you! If it makes you feel good then you may be more outgoing and make someone's day, so two winners. |
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