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How did you get into the scene?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was married and we thought it would be fun to have a threesome to jazz things up a bit. Before we met anyone, we were invited to a party.
At the party, we met a couple and we had a lot in common and went back to theirs as the party wasn't her scene.
After some chat and wine, we retired to the bedroom and had a great 4some. I'm still friends with the couple we met, and though I'm no longer married I'm still well into 3somes and moresomes...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had an unhappy relationship end badly. Didn't want another but we all have needs. Got invited to a private party and found NSA fun was better than angst and being hurt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ex partner introduced me, my first experience was a club, I was so nervous on the way there I had to have half a bottle wine for Dutch courage lol needn't have worried, I had a wicked time and never looked back  |
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Was introduced to my bi side by a lifelong friend many years ago. that was a slow and gradual intro and I enjoyed it very much.
More recently my own situation changed and I now have no sexual activity at home at all for a number of reasons, mainly health related on her side. However we all have needs and the pressure does build up, so only thing to do was to start looking and found Fab.
New world but very difficult to find what you're looking for......perseverence is essential and it has paid off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used to be too shy to buy porn at the sweet shop  ..and then our friend Mr Google somehow directed me to swinging and then FAB...and I then thought wouldnt hurt to send a message or 3...rest is history  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Andy was on here before we got together. He'd always been honest about his sexual preferences and that he had a profile on this site amongst others. A few months on and a few fantasies shared, so we decided to join as a couple. We've had lots of fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Google...where would we be without internet? Sure I would be home bored or knitting instead of being on fab "
Internet...Where would we be without electricity |
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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago
peekin under duvet is it safe? |
used to enjoy escort magazine turned us on a lot with other real wives and stories,then bought the contact mags and decided to try and arrange a meet or two  all very pre internet but set us on our way |
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Was working nights and had really bad shifts= no sex.Decided to try contacts,no success.Then moved on to phone lines(quite a bit better).Then from that got recommended a club in Stratford,London.Then the internet kicked in(for me anyway)Havent looked back,that was about 12/13 years ago now. |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
It was simple, my ex-fiancee introduced me to the scene back in the early 90's.
We broke up before getting married; years later, when my personal circumstances dictated my life, I made my return move here and have stayed since! |
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Originally found an old contact mag and replied to an add and met a couple where he liked to watch her having sex... Then a break of 20 years while I was married but it never went away. After divorce just wanted NSA fun was on a dating site met a lady who suggested here, to be honest got more sex on the dating site as a single guy then I did off here. Met my partner and was honest with her and she fancied it too so we set out on this path.. Now nearly 30 years later I am the guy who likes watching!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We'd chatted about fantasies and mine was always a mfm threesome. Curiosity took over and I put us on here to see what it was like and chat to people, now I love it   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We both got a bit fed up of pretending Mrs's dildo was a real man and decided that you can't beat the real thing. So in we jumped. Had our first MfM Saturday gone and was amazing!"
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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I was always like that and when I met "the one" I still had another, so we discussed it and over time my, by then fiancee, accepted my nature and we have not looked back since.
I suppose we have been swinging since 1978.
Happy days.
Jane x |
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Like a lot of married men (I hope), when you're trying to start a family, you get sex day and night, anytime you want, and sometimes when you don't want.
When the kids come along, time to yourselves is a huge constraint, but also your wife becomes more content with being a mother than a lover.
I've trawled various sites on t'internet, ranging from exhibitionism, dogging, cheating wives, and finally salvation  in here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Drink drugs and rock not roll. In are 20s started getting naked with friends at 1st mini orgys then contact mags sending pics and telephone nos to post boxes ..those were the days lol but thank god for Internet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My forces fb asked me to set us up a profile & sort some fun out for us for his next lot of leave...... He met a lovely guy & decided that he wanted to play that way so I set up this profile |
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we met on a naughty site so had chatted a lot about fantasies before we even met for the first time. Plenty of saucy messages followed and exchanging ideas. Google is your friend, we found a club and as others have said never looked back!
I'd had bi experiences before and he'd had 3somes, we both have a laid back view to sex and experimenting and just can't get enough!
R x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Google...where would we be without internet? Sure I would be home bored or knitting instead of being on fab
Internet...Where would we be without electricity"
Erm what about phones? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A girl I met from pof showed me fab
Someone from POF told me about Fab too"
Pof gets a lot of hate on here
But it's great for meeting girls/guys
If you are looking for NSA fun on there, it's pretty easy to find |
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"A girl I met from pof showed me fab
Someone from POF told me about Fab too
Pof gets a lot of hate on here
But it's great for meeting girls/guys
If you are looking for NSA fun on there, it's pretty easy to find"
I may try in there, may have more luck than in here, thanks! |
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By *nly-AliceWoman
over a year ago
Chester / North Wales |
Pure curiosity really. I was a little young and extremely inexperienced when I met my husband. He had dipped his toe in the scene before. Must admit, was his idea and I took some convincing, but here I am - never looked back since. |
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Hi, with us we are married for over 19 years and we were both our first sexual partners. So we thought we dont want to die stupid without trying other partners but continuing with our healthy relationship. Shame with children time is not allowing as much as we would like... Kiss Kiss (choose where...)  |
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