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By *trongbulluk OP   Man  over a year ago

Huddersfield

I would be grateful if couples and women who are seeking guys could offer some advice please. What are you looking for in a profile or private message?

Thanks,

StrongBullUK

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As a couple we want a guy to include my hubby in any dirty talk as he is often left out and this puts us both off.

Also be confident but not overly so.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like erotic photos rather than porno shots, such as in black and white? Ones that show your sensuality, maybe the good old suit or tux? No photos of your cock, but ones that hint of it such as you starting to undo your flies?

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

More pics and more uptodate pics will help. The one you have is from 2009. Arty pics are good.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman  over a year ago

bolton


"I like erotic photos rather than porno shots, such as in black and white? Ones that show your sensuality, maybe the good old suit or tux? No photos of your cock, but ones that hint of it such as you starting to undo your flies?"

Could not agree more on this, as that is what does it for me, also not being arrogant in your introduction, most definitely no one liner messages, a few lines about yourself and something from my profile to prove that you have read it, but for me there has to be a rapport with the following messages.

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By *ucy and CarlCouple  over a year ago

Broadstairs

First of all the username says a lot about a person. No cock pics. Pics leaving something to the imagination. Also having clear face pics available

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By *trongbulluk OP   Man  over a year ago

Huddersfield

Thank you for your help. What sort of info do couples/women want?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I want to see that you always do a social first in a public place and you are happy to take it a relaxed pace.

That would hook me in

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By *orsetandheelsWoman  over a year ago

Wimbledon

Showing that you're not totally desperate, have some personality and that you want me to have a nice time as well as you helps a lot x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thank you for your help. What sort of info do couples/women want? "

Well seeing as all women/couples and god forbid single males are different, there is no SET FORMULA for opening messages, if there was, then they would all be the same and a complete waste of time!

Read the profile of the person/people that you are thinking of contacting and make your message relivant to thier profile, this is often a good way of breaking the ice, but will still only work if they're interested in you, so make you're profile stand out from the masses in some way.

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By *empting Devil.Woman  over a year ago

Sheffield

I don't chat dirty in pm unless I've already met you. So no wank messages for me, some do however but at least keep the first message clean, light and chatty till you can gauge the situation.

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