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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"You meet other couples but after each meeting the other couple dont like your partner!"
Do they give you a reason or is this just a general impression you get if they don't want a subsequent meet? 
If it's specific feedback - maybe your partner could take it onboard and adjust whatever it is they're doing wrong (in the views of the other couples) - or it could be that it's their issue and not yours!
If it's nothing specific but they just don't want to meet again - it's going to be hard to work out why! I suppose you could ask them but they may be reluctant to spell it out in clear terms and prefer to look for alternative, 'fuzzy' reasons as to why further meets are out of the equation!
Tricky one - but good luck!
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couple swinging is the hardest thing in this world because 4 people finding each other attractive is just so hard to find. The reasons people find each other for relationships are often quite different to what they look for in casual sex partners as well so its even more complicated.
All you can do is ask why ? (if you really care enough) and change what you can (dress, haircut, shaving, etc) or just accept you are who you are and some people will like you and some wont.
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It's ruder of them to say that they didn't like one of you I have had meets where i didn't really like one of them but i would never say it to them, would have just given them a polite excuse why i wouldn't meet again and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ignore the peeps who have said:-
~ get a new partner
~ take one for the team.
Just keep up your spirits - you will eventually find playmates who both of you want to play with.
Good luck xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is very hard to find couples that I truly click with both parties have met a few at clubs over the years but have only met one couple on my own the only have met them quite a few times at chams and they came to Peterborough the only down side is they live bloody miles away on the isle of wight lol x But we see each other about 4 or 5 times a year x |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"You meet other couples but after each meeting the other couple dont like your partner!"
Couple meets can be tricky for everyone to like one another. Keep your chins up and don't let it get to you. |
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Not sure how you know or why they don't like your partner. Not enough information really but your relationship is the most important thing and if you're saying that other couples don't like your partner in open forum you might want to think about stepping back and examining why you think that and the effect it might have on your partner. |
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