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"One meet in a year??? I like to keep private hence pics but seems I get to the point were going to meet all arranged then bam no replie? "Focus on what is right with you, your profile needs paragraphs as very hard to read. You need to sell yourself, not feel sorry for yourself as that is not an attractive trait. | |||
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"your profile is hard to read, and screams married playing away, sowe wouldnt go there" Married?! The guy is only 22! Why does the default setting for single guys seem to be either playing away or secretly bi? But you're right about the profile beig hard to read and 22 is probably a bit young for quite a few of the women/couples on here. Chin up though dude, there are plenty of guys would be happy to get that first meet. Patience my young Padawan.  | |||
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"your profile is hard to read, and screams married playing away, sowe wouldnt go there Married?! The guy is only 22! Why does the default setting for single guys seem to be either playing away or secretly bi? But you're right about the profile beig hard to read and 22 is probably a bit young for quite a few of the women/couples on here. Chin up though dude, there are plenty of guys would be happy to get that first meet. Patience my young Padawan. "Well he meets Tv's   | |||
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"your profile is hard to read, and screams married playing away, sowe wouldnt go there Married?! The guy is only 22! Why does the default setting for single guys seem to be either playing away or secretly bi? But you're right about the profile beig hard to read and 22 is probably a bit young for quite a few of the women/couples on here. Chin up though dude, there are plenty of guys would be happy to get that first meet. Patience my young Padawan. " | |||
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"yep as has already been said, you state your straight yet you seek tvs, your profile is all one block of text, use some punctuation, and your profile does show signs you maybe cheating, which isnt good at all." being a single farther goes against single men now?? I didn't know that  | |||
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"yep as has already been said, you state your straight yet you seek tvs, your profile is all one block of text, use some punctuation, and your profile does show signs you maybe cheating, which isnt good at all. being a single farther goes against single men now?? I didn't know that "single men have it hard | |||
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"your profile is hard to read, and screams married playing away, sowe wouldnt go there Married?! The guy is only 22! Why does the default setting for single guys seem to be either playing away or secretly bi? But you're right about the profile beig hard to read and 22 is probably a bit young for quite a few of the women/couples on here. Chin up though dude, there are plenty of guys would be happy to get that first meet. Patience my young Padawan.
Well he meets Tv's "Yeah, I missed that bit the first time round. Sorry dude, it looks like you're bi-curious at least. It was the married bit that got me. I'm 31 and have no desire to get married anytime soon. Very few of my friends are married either and I think that's pretty normal in this day and age. I certainly wouldn't be anything but single at the age of 22, I would be having as much fun as possible while at my physical peak! | |||
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"your profile is hard to read, and screams married playing away, sowe wouldnt go there Married?! The guy is only 22! Why does the default setting for single guys seem to be either playing away or secretly bi? But you're right about the profile beig hard to read and 22 is probably a bit young for quite a few of the women/couples on here. Chin up though dude, there are plenty of guys would be happy to get that first meet. Patience my young Padawan.
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Yeah, I missed that bit the first time round. Sorry dude, it looks like you're bi-curious at least.
It was the married bit that got me. I'm 31 and have no desire to get married anytime soon. Very few of my friends are married either and I think that's pretty normal in this day and age. I certainly wouldn't be anything but single at the age of 22, I would be having as much fun as possible while at my physical peak! "well I have a beautifull daughter which may be the reason I can't meet at drop of a hat so may be off putting but she comes first | |||
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"your profile is hard to read, and screams married playing away, sowe wouldnt go there Married?! The guy is only 22! Why does the default setting for single guys seem to be either playing away or secretly bi? But you're right about the profile beig hard to read and 22 is probably a bit young for quite a few of the women/couples on here. Chin up though dude, there are plenty of guys would be happy to get that first meet. Patience my young Padawan.
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Yeah, I missed that bit the first time round. Sorry dude, it looks like you're bi-curious at least.
It was the married bit that got me. I'm 31 and have no desire to get married anytime soon. Very few of my friends are married either and I think that's pretty normal in this day and age. I certainly wouldn't be anything but single at the age of 22, I would be having as much fun as possible while at my physical peak! well I have a beautifull daughter which may be the reason I can't meet at drop of a hat so may be off putting but she comes first "all comments really helpfull thank you | |||
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"then maybe you will have to accept the volume of meets you get, not ideal but thats the way it works" | |||
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" Comments such as: Discreet meets please. I don't want every one knowing my business arouse suspicion. " We say we want to be discreet | |||
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"For me, your first paragraph sounds too abrupt and would put us off " | |||
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"For me, your first paragraph sounds too abrupt and would put us off "I know no one has to take any advice given, but the change looks much better | |||
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"For me, your first paragraph sounds too abrupt and would put us off
I know no one has to take any advice given, but the change looks much better "thanks to u | |||
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"One meet in a year??? I like to keep private hence pics but seems I get to the point were going to meet all arranged then bam no replie? "I wouldnt reply.. cos I hate being sent cock pics unsolicited. I normally have that written on my profile. but cant be bothered with text right now. | |||
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"One meet in a year??? I like to keep private hence pics but seems I get to the point were going to meet all arranged then bam no replie?
I wouldnt reply.. cos I hate being sent cock pics unsolicited.
I normally have that written on my profile. but cant be bothered with text right now." | |||
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"Do you really care what others think ? maybe your trying to hard when it happens it happens, remember it is a free site "thats true | |||
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"One meet in a year??? I like to keep private hence pics but seems I get to the point were going to meet all arranged then bam no replie? "You like to keep private??? Your avatar suggests something altogether different my friend ...dangling your cock like - even with no face attached - is far from what I would describe as 'private' | |||
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"I understand people wanting to be private but surely there is one pic that won't identify you that you can have In public? " can easily show upon request | |||
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"You like to keep private??? Your avatar suggests something altogether different my friend ...dangling your cock like - even with no face attached - is far from what I would describe as 'private' Jumping the gun there pal you have no face pic ever " | |||
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"yep as has already been said, you state your straight yet you seek tvs, your profile is all one block of text, use some punctuation, and your profile does show signs you maybe cheating, which isnt good at all. being a single farther goes against single men now?? I didn't know that "i didnt mention anything about you been a single father, and we all have it hard unless we put the effort in, i gave you a few pointers, why ask if you dont like the replies. | |||
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"I understand people wanting to be private but surely there is one pic that won't identify you that you can have In public? can easily show upon request "Yeah but you've automatically lost a good chuck of the site who browse for meets themselves and make first contact. I (and a lot of others I've seen say the same) wont bother messaging anyone with no pics at all. | |||
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"You like to keep private??? Your avatar suggests something altogether different my friend ...dangling your cock like - even with no face attached - is far from what I would describe as 'private' Jumping the gun there pal you have no face pic ever "Nope but that wasn't what I was getting at - waving a cock around is not 'private' - the OP was suggesting he likes to keep things private. Incidentally ..I don't know the majority of people on here don't have face pics - I suppose I don't because most others don't either - obviously however I have them to exchange with interested females | |||
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"You like to keep private??? Your avatar suggests something altogether different my friend ...dangling your cock like - even with no face attached - is far from what I would describe as 'private' Jumping the gun there pal you have no face pic ever
Nope but that wasn't what I was getting at - waving a cock around is not 'private' - the OP was suggesting he likes to keep things private.
Incidentally ..I don't know the majority of people on here don't have face pics - I suppose I don't because most others don't either - obviously however I have them to exchange with interested females "like wise | |||
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"You like to keep private??? Your avatar suggests something altogether different my friend ...dangling your cock like - even with no face attached - is far from what I would describe as 'private' Jumping the gun there pal you have no face pic ever
Nope but that wasn't what I was getting at - waving a cock around is not 'private' - the OP was suggesting he likes to keep things private.
Incidentally ..I don't know the majority of people on here don't have face pics - I suppose I don't because most others don't either - obviously however I have them to exchange with interested females "what makes you think I don't have face pics. An maybe I'm not as confident of my body like you. So what makes you different to me? | |||
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It might be a good idea to have a different pic too, it doesn't have to be a face pic , you can still send them in private | |||
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"Nope but that wasn't what I was getting at - waving a cock around is not 'private' - the OP was suggesting he likes to keep things private. of course its private no one knows what he looks like lol " thanks. Nice to know some people are genuinely trying to help an others that just want to criterzise??? That how you spell it lol. I just wanted a little help an I'm sorry if I don't live up 2 the standards of some o you | |||
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"I think what he means is you can't want things that private as your cock is hanging on your pic for us all to see.
It might be a good idea to have a different pic too, it doesn't have to be a face pic , you can still send them in private "i don't mind cock pics private I mean as revealing my identity | |||
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"I think one of the points is that why would go to the lengths of messaging a guy with no pictures to view on the profile when others have various? like anything single guys needs to sell themselves on this site - I dont mean literally!" Thank you!! At least someone knew what I'm trying to say. | |||
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"I think one of the points is that why would go to the lengths of messaging a guy with no pictures to view on the profile when others have various? like anything single guys needs to sell themselves on this site - I dont mean literally! Thank you!! At least someone knew what I'm trying to say. " but I think every one has the right to privacy from the outside world an people who just want to see if they know you at all. There's nothing stopping me sendin in private | |||
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"I think one of the points is that why would go to the lengths of messaging a guy with no pictures to view on the profile when others have various? like anything single guys needs to sell themselves on this site - I dont mean literally! Thank you!! At least someone knew what I'm trying to say. but I think every one has the right to privacy from the outside world an people who just want to see if they know you at all. There's nothing stopping me sendin in private" Of course it's up to anyone to have whatever pics they want on display. But what I'm trying to say is if people do a search and 100 matches come up for location/age etc including you. 75 of those have got a few pics in a public gallery to tantalise and the other 25 have no pics at all who do you think they are going to make contact with? It's just a suggestion as to why you might be struggling for meets that's all. I don't think your age will be helping either as I've seen a lot of posts from under 25 and this seems a common reason. | |||
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"I think one of the points is that why would go to the lengths of messaging a guy with no pictures to view on the profile when others have various? like anything single guys needs to sell themselves on this site - I dont mean literally! Thank you!! At least someone knew what I'm trying to say. but I think every one has the right to privacy from the outside world an people who just want to see if they know you at all. There's nothing stopping me sendin in private" you would probs be best to take the advice given, rather than ask a question then argue with the comments. | |||
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"I think one of the points is that why would go to the lengths of messaging a guy with no pictures to view on the profile when others have various? like anything single guys needs to sell themselves on this site - I dont mean literally! Thank you!! At least someone knew what I'm trying to say. but I think every one has the right to privacy from the outside world an people who just want to see if they know you at all. There's nothing stopping me sendin in private you would probs be best to take the advice given, rather than ask a question then argue with the comments." not arguing. Adium shut thread down please | |||
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"I think one of the points is that why would go to the lengths of messaging a guy with no pictures to view on the profile when others have various? like anything single guys needs to sell themselves on this site - I dont mean literally! Thank you!! At least someone knew what I'm trying to say. but I think every one has the right to privacy from the outside world an people who just want to see if they know you at all. There's nothing stopping me sendin in private you would probs be best to take the advice given, rather than ask a question then argue with the comments. not arguing. Adium shut thread down please "stupid iPhone auto correct admin shut down thread please | |||
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" you would probs be best to take the advice given, rather than ask a question then argue with the comments." Who says the advice is right? He obviously doesn't agree with some of it, and qyiute rightly can if he wants. | |||
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"I think one of the points is that why would go to the lengths of messaging a guy with no pictures to view on the profile when others have various? like anything single guys needs to sell themselves on this site - I dont mean literally! Thank you!! At least someone knew what I'm trying to say. but I think every one has the right to privacy from the outside world an people who just want to see if they know you at all. There's nothing stopping me sendin in private you would probs be best to take the advice given, rather than ask a question then argue with the comments. " Ah yes in the site FAQ's it says that single males should obey others without question. 
OP your profile looks fine to me. What one person likes, the next person doesn't. I didn't see your profile before it got updated so I can't comment but it looks good to me now. Good luck. | |||
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"I think one of the points is that why would go to the lengths of messaging a guy with no pictures to view on the profile when others have various? like anything single guys needs to sell themselves on this site - I dont mean literally! Thank you!! At least someone knew what I'm trying to say. but I think every one has the right to privacy from the outside world an people who just want to see if they know you at all. There's nothing stopping me sendin in private you would probs be best to take the advice given, rather than ask a question then argue with the comments. Ah yes in the site FAQ's it says that single males should obey others without question.
OP your profile looks fine to me. What one person likes, the next person doesn't. I didn't see your profile before it got updated so I can't comment but it looks good to me now. Good luck. "thank you | |||
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" you would probs be best to take the advice given, rather than ask a question then argue with the comments. Who says the advice is right? He obviously doesn't agree with some of it, and qyiute rightly can if he wants." I think the feeling amongst many however is people(mainly guys) either ask for feedback or complain about the lack of meets, others post helpful comments and sometimes these comments are disregarded or responded to negatively which does make you question why such posts are made in the first place. Whilst it is up to the op whose advice he takes I think we would all agree that single guys (and indeed anyone) have a much better chance when they have public photos. People get a flavour of who the person is As for convents over being spotted this is a concern for most but not all of us. However we all manage to post photos which don't give away who we are. Unless the op has distinctive marks such as tattoos etc then I don't think they should be too concerned about being spotted | |||
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" you would probs be best to take the advice given, rather than ask a question then argue with the comments. Who says the advice is right? He obviously doesn't agree with some of it, and qyiute rightly can if he wants." he is arguing with every bit of constructive advice (which he asked for) and even bringing up other things, i quote "your profile reads like you could be married" he quoted "so been a single farther goes against you now" thats his spelling by the way, so why shoot me down when i offer advice to him, at the end of the day its upto him if he takes it or not, but as has been said many times before, you put a question on a public forum then dont expect to like all the comments you get back, and i should be free to post what i want when i want as long as im not breaking any rules, which by offering advice im not. | |||
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"I am not arguing at all why would you think that?? Admin I asked to shut the thread down " There's no need to shut the thread down. I think what people are trying to say is that you started a thread asking why you weren't getting meets then every time someone makes a suggestion as to why you disagree with it. Which is entirely up to you obviously but seems a bit pointless asking in the first place. | |||
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" you would probs be best to take the advice given, rather than ask a question then argue with the comments. Who says the advice is right? He obviously doesn't agree with some of it, and qyiute rightly can if he wants. I think the feeling amongst many however is people(mainly guys) either ask for feedback or complain about the lack of meets, others post helpful comments and sometimes these comments are disregarded or responded to negatively which does make you question why such posts are made in the first place. " The advice given he may not agree with it, and one bit of advice on here it looks like he doesn't...that is his right. Just because people give advice it doesn't mean it is gospel or will suit the person recieving it. | |||
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" you would probs be best to take the advice given, rather than ask a question then argue with the comments. Who says the advice is right? He obviously doesn't agree with some of it, and qyiute rightly can if he wants. he is arguing with every bit of constructive advice (which he asked for) and even bringing up other things, i quote "your profile reads like you could be married" he quoted "so been a single farther goes against you now" thats his spelling by the way, so why shoot me down when i offer advice to him, at the end of the day its upto him if he takes it or not, but as has been said many times before, you put a question on a public forum then dont expect to like all the comments you get back, and i should be free to post what i want when i want as long as im not breaking any rules, which by offering advice im not." He isn't. He doesn't agree with the photo ones and that is all. He has taken all the other advice on board and changed his profile hugely. The same applies though, if he asks for advice and you give it, he can answer you back of wether he thinks he likes it....thats not shooting you down, that is him disagreeing with what you have said. Maybe take your own advice of (with one word added )"you put a question/comment on a public forum then dont expect to like all the comments you get back" | |||
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"I am not arguing at all why would you think that?? Admin I asked to shut the thread down " After all the threads we have had asking for advice you were one of not many who took most of the advice and changed a lot of your profile. As is your right you don't HAVE to implement any of the advice as not one way is right or wrong so do as you did and pick out the bits you want and see if that works....if it doesn't maybe you can think about the others to see if that works. Good luck. I will shut your thread now. | |||
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