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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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"I message women & get women messaging me but it is harder. Fabs has a wealth of incredible men but some great single women too. Finding one that isn't coupled up or with a fb/bf is like gold dust but worth it 
Keep looking, you'll find one x "
So I'm gold dust  |
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By *msmithWoman
over a year ago
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"I message women & get women messaging me but it is harder. Fabs has a wealth of incredible men but some great single women too. Finding one that isn't coupled up or with a fb/bf is like gold dust but worth it
Keep looking, you'll find one x
So I'm gold dust "
 well I can be gold dust.. Or fairy dust.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That rules us out as we are looking for lady for threesome and are fbs..........
We looking for a lady that lives locally to have regular fun.
We are a horny sexy fb couple that have good hygiene and expect same with lady and discretion a must.
So hard on here finding a lady with all timewasters etc........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women who are genuinely Bi or Gay and who are genuinely looking to spend time alone with other women, one-on-one, are very rare on here.
Many of us who have been looking for other women on here have probably given up (like me!) and now look elsewhere...
I've met some lovely women here, only to have them want to involve a man in things somewhere - not what I'm looking for!
Either I want to meet a woman, or I want to meet a man - but not both!!! I don't want to mix my pleasures, simple as that....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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women for women are on here, you just have to have a little bit of luck and lots of patience.
My single female friends and I are always on the look out for other single women, and yes it is so annoying when they turn round and ask for a mff 3 some  (hence why I no longer meet with couples)
Keep smiling ladies, you are in the right place |
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There are a handful of lovely ladies I message regularly...and of course I shamefully and openly as well as outrageously flirt with them in the forums...
But it took me a few months to get there....patience!  |
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Mostly contacted by the "female" part of a couple asking me to join them for FFM. I offer to allow the female to join me alone and hubby can watch on cam from their home. That doesn't go down to well lmao  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a handful of lovely ladies I message regularly...and of course I shamefully and openly as well as outrageously flirt with them in the forums...
But it took me a few months to get there....patience! "
being lovely and having a great sense of humour helped  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There must be better sites than this if you want to meet girl on girl only. Have you tried googling and see if you can find something along those lines.
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"There are a handful of lovely ladies I message regularly...and of course I shamefully and openly as well as outrageously flirt with them in the forums...
But it took me a few months to get there....patience!
being lovely and having a great sense of humour helped x "
Mwaa right back at ya! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love to meet more women one on one or in a purely female group setting. I have never met a woman off here and the ones I've spoken to in the past (like one or two) haven't been able to hold a conversation.
Always craving a woman's touch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I exchange messages with women fairly often. Although I've met tons more guys I actually prefer bi or lesbian women. It's just much harder to find local ones I click with xx |
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"I'd love to meet more women one on one or in a purely female group setting. I have never met a woman off here and the ones I've spoken to in the past (like one or two) haven't been able to hold a conversation.
Always craving a woman's touch "
Same here, but a lot of the times nothing comes out of the conversation (I am talking pre-pandemic, on my old profile). Sometimes a male partner pops out all of a sudden, and she "only" meets with him, but he "only wants to watch". Sometimes it's me, getting this uneasy feeling that I can't really explain that stops me from chatting. Or, last but not least, the conversation just goes nowhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So hard to find a girl nearby who I click with.....starts off well then messages tail off or just no attraction. All I want is some girly fun and laughs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So hard to find a girl nearby who I click with.....starts off well then messages tail off or just no attraction. All I want is some girly fun and laughs "
Ditto. Im not keen on travelling for meets but it looks like it may have to go that way because there few ladies local. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All of the above really. I’ve been burnt too many times before that now it seems I almost start off any conversation with a cynical expectation that they’re really a guy or part of a couple or ,more often than not, a bot.
It’s sad really but maybe when things start to open up a bit again I might let my guard down and start conversations with a more optimistic outlook |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd love to meet more women one on one or in a purely female group setting. I have never met a woman off here and the ones I've spoken to in the past (like one or two) haven't been able to hold a conversation.
Always craving a woman's touch "
That sounds like something I’d like to try |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s so much easier in clubs to flirt with other women. I guess the whole atmosphere makes it that way.
When it does happen on here it seems to fizzle out or turns into general chat about kids, partners etc.
Are we females just bad at flirting with each other?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s so much easier in clubs to flirt with other women. I guess the whole atmosphere makes it that way.
When it does happen on here it seems to fizzle out or turns into general chat about kids, partners etc.
Are we females just bad at flirting with each other?
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I think we must be!! Why are all the women spread out and so far away? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s so much easier in clubs to flirt with other women. I guess the whole atmosphere makes it that way.
When it does happen on here it seems to fizzle out or turns into general chat about kids, partners etc.
Are we females just bad at flirting with each other?
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We do seem to very well spread out...
I think we must be!! Why are all the women spread out and so far away? "
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"It’s so much easier in clubs to flirt with other women. I guess the whole atmosphere makes it that way.
When it does happen on here it seems to fizzle out or turns into general chat about kids, partners etc.
Are we females just bad at flirting with each other?
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I think we must be!! Why are all the women spread out and so far away? "
YES!! I Noticed this. We aren't used to it so it's all awkward and seems harder.
I think for me I have got so used to guys being a bit more pushy/forward to take it from chatting to actually meeting, and with women we both don't want to seem pushy so noone actually moves it forward and then we both give up thinking the other can't be that interested
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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had more success finding other women on apps like Blendr than on here
usually a few flirty chats that either go a bit too far too quick or when you ask to take the next step (other contacts, arranging to meet socially when allowed) then often don’t here from them again
not sure if its due to me being on a couples profile, the amount of messages single women get or maybe its just me (likely a mix of all 3)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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YES!! I Noticed this. We aren't used to it so it's all awkward and seems harder.
I think for me I have got so used to guys being a bit more pushy/forward to take it from chatting to actually meeting, and with women we both don't want to seem pushy so noone actually moves it forward and then we both give up thinking the other can't be that interested
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Perfectly summed up! If a guy fancies you he makes it plain. If I fancy a guy I’m no shrinking violet but when it comes to other women I’m worried I’ll offend them so it ends up going nowhere.
I’m looking forward to bi nights starting up again at clubs. It really is so much easier. Shame as there’s some gorgeous ladies on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do seem to very well spread out...
I think we must be!! Why are all the women spread out and so far away? "
In the past on the forums there have been a few attempts to sort out a night for any ladies interested in meeting but it’s never come to anything and then of course came Covid.
There’s lots of ladies that contribute to the forums that it would be great to meet in real life for various reasons 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is what happens to me a threesome is fun but it's fine for me to see a woman on my own and I'd like to.
What has happened is the woman agrees and then starts saying can my man just watch or just cum over your face  
Only met one that would meet but because I'm a 15 minute drive away she said I was too far! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I MAY of had some last fun from here quite recently "
You guys look amazing please message if you'd like to it wouldn't let me message as I'm not a site supporter |
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"I'd love to meet more women one on one or in a purely female group setting. I have never met a woman off here and the ones I've spoken to in the past (like one or two) haven't been able to hold a conversation.
Always craving a woman's touch
Same here, but a lot of the times nothing comes out of the conversation (I am talking pre-pandemic, on my old profile). Sometimes a male partner pops out all of a sudden, and she "only" meets with him, but he "only wants to watch". Sometimes it's me, getting this uneasy feeling that I can't really explain that stops me from chatting. Or, last but not least, the conversation just goes nowhere. "
I (Luke) find this very sad and disrespectful. In my relationship with Hannah, if she finds a woman she wants to see on her own and that's clearly what the other woman wants, neither of us would dream of making any attempt to get me involved in any way. Hannah has had sex with a woman a couple of times since we've been together and I played no part in it.
I would consider it a lovely thing if Hannah saw a woman on her own if that's what they both wanted. She's unlikely to actively search for it, but if it came about through somebody else kicking things off I would be supportive without seeing it as an opportunity to muscle in on it. It would be about them, not me. |
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Well we do meet women ( and the occasional elusive unicorn) The m half is happy for me to meet women alone but equally happy to watch or join in - I prefer him joining in but would consider other ways xx
I think it’s affected by wether you are truly bisexual or just curious- I like to think I’m neither - I am bi enthusiastic lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I (Luke) find this very sad and disrespectful. In my relationship with Hannah, if she finds a woman she wants to see on her own and that's clearly what the other woman wants, neither of us would dream of making any attempt to get me involved in any way. Hannah has had sex with a woman a couple of times since we've been together and I played no part in it.
I would consider it a lovely thing if Hannah saw a woman on her own if that's what they both wanted. She's unlikely to actively search for it, but if it came about through somebody else kicking things off I would be supportive without seeing it as an opportunity to muscle in on it. It would be about them, not me. "
What a lovely comment Luke. It exactly sums up how we feel about this.
I have met other females at home and Abby has played no part at all. She either went out to see friends or kept a low profile downstairs.
It is possible for females to enjoy solo meets but it involves building trust.
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