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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do ppl feel about having a baby with another man to humiliate there partner. My partner loves seeing me with other men whilst he's dressed up and feminised. Something we've talked about is getting pregnant with another man and my partner living with it.. The humiliation. Its such a turn on for us both want to hear your opinions and experiences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually id say each to there own.
But on this occasion we'd say have a good think, this could cost your relationship.
Would you aim for a Asian gent to seed or are you happy with any ethnic/ Caucasian.
then you guys have to think about your family/friends.
then there your child in later life!!
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I don't think it is a joke unfortunately.... I don't get it either but i do know someone who has done it and was still meeting different men the whole way through pregnancy also. As far as i know, the child (only recently born) is going to be brought up that husband is the father.....
We have a cuckold relationship but its not a lifestyle for us its for fun. I don't think I could either lie to that child and risk the potential complications (health history etc) or tell people the truth, even with some things being more socially acceptable that's taking it a bit far! |
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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago
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"seems a little extreme
child: Dad why was i born ?
Dad: because your mother likes humiliating me
Child:  "
Pmsl
On a serious note though, I suggest taking a step back as the others have said. Is this taking it abit too far? I think it may be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's called breeding but I don't think it actually happens. Does ur partner not produce sperm? In which case I can see why people may do this. Not very different to going to a sperm doner when couples can't naturally conceive.
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Our input to this would be ... You do not start the thread as a 'fantasy'. If you want a degree of respect I would close the thread down, as the way you describe things any prospective meet may consider this to be something you actually want to achieve, potentially without their consent. |
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If you were really approaching it from an 'unable to have children' view point then in our opinion we can see this ... however it would not be something that would have any relevance to humiliation. Maybe the humiliation element as part of your meet but certainly not in the production of life. Having just had a baby and having tried for longer than we would have hoped I think you need to think long and hard how where your motivations lie.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is bad. We all play a game on here but that to far outside the box. What if he wanted to see u kill someone ?? Some lines are meant not to be crossed. Just sayin  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were really approaching it from an 'unable to have children' view point then in our opinion we can see this ... however it would not be something that would have any relevance to humiliation. Maybe the humiliation element as part of your meet but certainly not in the production of life. Having just had a baby and having tried for longer than we would have hoped I think you need to think long and hard how where your motivations lie.
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I like how first of all it was just a "fantasy" and one or two posts later the big reveal is her partner now cant have children.
The internet and sex should either be outlawed or have some sort of rigorous personality/IQ testing done before you're allowed on any sex sites.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was reading the Guardian a few weeks ago about a web site that's been set up for people who want children by either artificial insemination or via the lady have full unprotected intercourse with the "donor" male so this kind of thing does go on.
The fact that there is a "dating" site full of people looking for a sperm donor reinforces this
However I think the subtle difference is that these people can't have babies naturally themselves and its not for sexual gratification
I won't condone your fantasy but as others have said its not going to show you in a good light and the ramifications of this on you as a couple and the prospective father would be far reaching both legally and emotionally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP: This is the Swinging Support and Advice forum. And really, no-one is going to Support this idea.
If you want to talk about your fantasies, then post in the Stories and Fantasies forum.
If you want children but can't have them naturally with your partner, then talk to your doctor about Artificial Insemination by Donor. Screened sperm, legal ramifications fully documented etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you are seriously thinking of having a child with another man for a sexual kick then yous serious need to go and seek professional help something along the lines of a psychiatrist. A child is not an object to be used in a way for you to fulfil your fantasies. How would the child feel if they knew they were brought into the world for a awful sexual kick. It is totally sickening to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My partner can't have children. So I don't see it being any diff to going to a sperm bank."
I seriously think that you're massively attention seeking but I'm sure your "full
inbox" tells you otherwise...if only the block button hides your forum posts from me like it does on another site I belong to... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do ppl feel about having a baby with another man to humiliate there partner. My partner loves seeing me with other men whilst he's dressed up and feminised. Something we've talked about is getting pregnant with another man and my partner living with it.. The humiliation. Its such a turn on for us both want to hear your opinions and experiences"
Just how fucked up are some people?
Then you go on to say its a fantasy then your partner cant have kids.
What you need to do is make your mind up first about your 'story' or 'fantasy' then post it on here. You'll have a lot more credibility that way and less people thinking you are just a sicko. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whilst the suggestion and idea of this sounds immoral the fantasy aspect is massive within the cuckold lifestyle, pregnancy play is just one variation on the theme.
Fantasy time is one thing, reality would be a whole different thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact that anyone would have a child for any other reason than to love them unconditionally shocks me.. Children are/should not be part of some bizarre adult game |
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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago
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"Its a fantasy and he can't have children."
It's a fantasy and he can't have kids!! Fantasys come and go, granted your fella may like humiliation a little now.. But for the remaining years of his life he'll have to feel that way
I'm no shrink, but seriously if you want kids together there's many other ways other than completely emasculate your man.. |
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