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Things to put in a first message?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I was wondering what things are best to put in a first message so that people arent left uninterested or put off?

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By *renchbambi xWoman  over a year ago

Need to know basis

If you have read the person's profile, you should have not problem in broaching a subject that will be of interest to them and they are less likely to Delete and block!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Tell them they sound nice (from what's on their profile) not just look nice. It shows you've thought about what they're like as people, not just a shag partner.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A compliment (people generally like them), a reference to their profile (to show you have read it) and a bit about yourself (to allure them to you over any other guy).

Maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Tell em 'u fancy a fcuk' works every time lol!!!! Well that's what 99.9% of males who got in touch with my FB wrote!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you have read the person's profile, you should have not problem in broaching a subject that will be of interest to them and they are less likely to Delete and block!"

Unless the profile says will fill in later

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

16 cock pics and then a pic of your puppy, the cute fluffy thing gets them everytime.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

make sure they can see you have actually read their profile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"Can I please rim you" always goes down well

But seriously, always attach a face pic in your first message. Folks seem to appreciate that a lot on here

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By *livia_KWoman  over a year ago

South London


"A compliment (people generally like them), a reference to their profile (to show you have read it) and a bit about yourself (to allure them to you over any other guy).

Maybe. "

This exactly. And no cock pic.

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By *ucy and CarlCouple  over a year ago

Broadstairs

I have to ask the question. If guys have to ask what to put in their first message what are the chances of them turning up for a meet? even if they did turn up are they going to go on here and ask what to say and do. Come on guys get a grip. If you can't put a message together take up fishing or something.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"I have to ask the question. If guys have to ask what to put in their first message what are the chances of them turning up for a meet? even if they did turn up are they going to go on here and ask what to say and do. Come on guys get a grip. If you can't put a message together take up fishing or something. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

read profile, show that you have read profile, attach a facepic.

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By *hinaManMan  over a year ago

Twickenham


"A compliment (people generally like them), a reference to their profile (to show you have read it) and a bit about yourself (to allure them to you over any other guy).

Maybe. "

Spot on, can't agree more. In addition some will ask for a specific word to be mentioned in the subject header so I strongly recommend reading profile fully.

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By *1KandiCouple  over a year ago

Jacksonville

A couple lines to say hi... Must have a face picture.

If you are worried about discretion bla...bla...bla...

Grow up you are playing with adults here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I remember when a first message was?

Age

Sex

Location

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