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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So I bought some pretty tough metal police style handcuffs to use with my girlfriend.

Only problems are i only have the one pair, and our bed doesnt have a headboard.

I wanted to cuff her to something and blindfold her, but there is nowhere i can do that without a headboard.

Any ideas? And also any positions/scenarios would be welcome

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By *indobona_1TV/TS over a year ago

Tring

Get some rope and tie the cuffs to the legs or casters of the bed. I would recommend bondage cuffs rather than handcuffs as they can bite into the skin if awkwardly angled. Oh yes, don't forget about the legs - they need to be cuffed too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't cuff a wrist to an ankle.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

can I throw my tuppence worth in.

You know when you were looking at the said handcuffs, did you play a scenario out in your head about handcuffing your good lady to the bed n am sure very gorgeous n pretty she is, that perhaps a bit of a hole would be needed to make said handcuffs work? Please don't think I am taking the piss cause I am not. Just that i once handcuffed a woman when I was in a profession that needed them but sadly the woman turned out to be my mother who in all honesty when she asked to handcuff her I should have noted the strange look on my step father at the time that indeed it was perhaps a kink of hers but being a dutiful son did indeed handcuff her and proceeded to take her to the Police station and lock her in a cell well she did say she was curious. As sick as this sounds I can assure you it was all in jest, well I thought that by giving her the full experience of a steel door slamming behind her whilst I went and had a coffee would ensure her curiosity was satisfied I didn't think for one second that perhaps she was getting off on it. Yuk I don't even like that thought popping into my head. Yet as she continues to impart her wisdom on me that I was borne from her loins which I might add makes me somewhat bawk at the thought I now think bless her she is suffering from Alzheimers. Anyways having shall we say been experienced in the art of handcuffing people albeit in somewhat an expedient way otherwise I would have got my head kicked in had I not been quick, I will impart my knowledge to your good selves in the fine art of handcuffing.

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By *ichaelsmyMan over a year ago

douglas

Carefull with the police style handcuffs. Don't close them to tightly.

Also you have to double lock them to stop them from tightening up any further.this is the small spike into the small hole to double ock them.

This type of handcuff can cause a lot of pain, so be very very careful with them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Talk it through with her she may have some wonderful ideas. Heed the not to tight thing mentioned above and perhaps think of something (more sexy than this but popped in my head - wrist sweat bands) to stop them digging in.

if it help you can then try table legs her bent over chairs her sitting radiators pipes even banistor railings if you fancy it if you really want to do it in the bedroom then some of those screw i things from B&Q may give you something to lock on too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oooo I love handcuff sex, we have brought some bondage Velcro wrist restraints they brilliant no need to tie to the headboard either.

Blindfolded at the same time as being restrained is such a huge turn on for me.

Have never used policestyle handcuffs as I think they would hurt, the ones we have are soft and easy to release.

There's loads of sites to by from we got ours from lovehoney.

But i would suggest that you also talk it through with your girlfriend as well, need to have trust and communication.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Material restraints for me too.. he can be rougher and they don't dig in or get tighter. Plus as has been said you don't even need a headboard then. Have fun

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We have a couple of sets of metal handcuffs. I prefer them to the soft velcro type ones as they feel more secure and tight.

But you do have to be careful as they can dig in and mark the skin quite easily.

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By *ichaelsmyMan over a year ago

douglas

Really have to say that metal police type handcuffs shouldn't be used.

They really need training to use them, in the wrong hands they can be quite dangerous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol i have underbed restrainsts which can be ideal , can be brought online, and much safer, the handcuffs are velcro

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"lol i have underbed restrainsts which can be ideal , can be brought online, and much safer, the handcuffs are velcro "

We have these too and I love them, nothing better than being restrained fully and blindfolded at the same time.

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By *oddamnCouple over a year ago

leicestershire

I agree - we have tried metal (cold and uncomfortable), velcro (too noisy - can't wake the kidds!) and finally leather - perfect!

if you want to try the metal ones out then use the carrying handles of the mattress instead of the headboard

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

Vince has proper handcuffs (no safety release, ect)... I just indulged in a little self-bondage while playing with my vibrator but once my hands were locked behind my back, I remembered how uncomfortable handcuffs are... Saw it through to the end but my wrists are a little red and marked. - Then again, I guess some people would like that pain...

MUCH prefer my leather shackles, personally.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Carefull with the police style handcuffs. Don't close them to tightly.

Also you have to double lock them to stop them from tightening up any further.this is the small spike into the small hole to double ock them.

This type of handcuff can cause a lot of pain, so be very very careful with them"

I gt brusis from my handcuffs lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Scarf ( or soft japanese rope) tied to one of the slats under the edge of the mattress and tied to said hand cuffs.

Or if you have a radiator handy, tie the rope/scarf to that (Burn caution)

Another few scarfs round her wrists before the handcuffs

sorted

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"Carefull with the police style handcuffs. Don't close them to tightly.

Also you have to double lock them to stop them from tightening up any further.this is the small spike into the small hole to double ock them.

This type of handcuff can cause a lot of pain, so be very very careful with them

I gt brusis from my handcuffs lol "

Keep an eye open for Hiatt Darby handcuffs on ebay or at antique/ collectors fairs. They don't have as many sharp edges as modern police issue types and you can find smaller sizes, ideal for ladies.

Whatever you do, don't lose the key.

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By *opping_candyWoman over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Just don't do what I did, had my hands cuffed behind my back then ended up laying on my back, on my arms, for some time. My shoulders still aren't right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Completely agree with your statement

"Oooo I love handcuff sex, we have brought some bondage Velcro wrist restraints they brilliant no need to tie to the headboard either.

Blindfolded at the same time as being restrained is such a huge turn on for me.

Have never used policestyle handcuffs as I think they would hurt, the ones we have are soft and easy to release.

There's loads of sites to by from we got ours from lovehoney.

But i would suggest that you also talk it through with your girlfriend as well, need to have trust and communication.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A pair of tights works well, stretch them behind the headboard and then use the feet/leg to tie her wrists. Cheap and easy for now till you find something else x

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

There's a handcuff attached to a tree at a well known dogging site just north of Glasgow.

It's been there so long the metal is ctiing into the wood.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A pair of tights works well, stretch them behind the headboard and then use the feet/leg to tie her wrists. Cheap and easy for now till you find something else x"

Imagination does wonders!

Tesco's black pillow cases, and scissors. Voila!!

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