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Overhauled my profile ... Are my pics to porno ?
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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I personally prefer action pictures. I like seeing someone having fun.
The only downside for me is that it is very slim women you are with in all your pictures. This would put me off as I am a larger lady and look for men who would find me attractive. But this is typical of most profiles.
But I did enjoy the perv  |
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"Only thing we tend to look out for is any signs of bareback.
You put safe sex down, as an interest but if I were you I would show that or explain"
That's a good point you've made , and had it before . I do OWO but always condom for penetration . in both pics I am wearing a condom , it's just not visable . Do you suggest I have a pic wear it is visable ? |
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"I personally prefer action pictures. I like seeing someone having fun.
The only downside for me is that it is very slim women you are with in all your pictures. This would put me off as I am a larger lady and look for men who would find me attractive. But this is typical of most profiles.
But I did enjoy the perv "
 I do like this comment . Why do women put two and two together and come up with seven !!! Just because the women in the pics are slim , you can't assume I don't find larger women attractive , which I do . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"your pics say very little about you, but a lot about the ladies you have met!"
i disagree..
ur pics show u having fun..I tend to get alot of pics from a meet(where they like that aspect too), most would know if they had a peek that I meet various types/ages...
1 week she/they could be young slim..
the next BBW and older
or any combination of that lol
as a single male..I'd prefer to see a guy showing pics of himself AND pics of meets
*even though I have no interest in him lol
and if I get blasted for this I dont particularly care, but some people are either negatively envious or plain jealous
if couples can show themselves in pics with others...why cant singles???
stand out from the crowd(which are single men),sell urself..and in my experience mainly..it works more than the guy standing in front of a mirror in twenty cock poses, or the unbuttoned shirt,suit etc etc..fucking boring in my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"your pics say very little about you, but a lot about the ladies you have met!
i disagree..
ur pics show u having fun..I tend to get alot of pics from a meet(where they like that aspect too), most would know if they had a peek that I meet various types/ages...
1 week she/they could be young slim..
the next BBW and older
or any combination of that lol
as a single male..I'd prefer to see a guy showing pics of himself AND pics of meets
*even though I have no interest in him lol
and if I get blasted for this I dont particularly care, but some people are either negatively envious or plain jealous
if couples can show themselves in pics with others...why cant singles???
stand out from the crowd(which are single men),sell urself..and in my experience mainly..it works more than the guy standing in front of a mirror in twenty cock poses, or the unbuttoned shirt,suit etc etc..fucking boring in my opinion"
Cheeky bugger Paddy!! 
I like my suit pics!! Although in the interest of balance I have popped the odd play pic in there too!
Variety is the spice, and all that!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If im looking at a single guys profile....thats exactly what I want to see......a single guy!!"
Exactly! For me the first 2 are a complete turn off...I don't get why you think they would attract a woman? |
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"If im looking at a single guys profile....thats exactly what I want to see......a single guy!!
Exactly! For me the first 2 are a complete turn off...I don't get why you think they would attract a woman?"
I will take this on board as two people have said this now , however I am looking to attract couples on here as well , and I'm not into vanilla sex at all . Thanks for the comment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is the female in the pics turning you into a couple?If not get rid of the pics with her in them.You are a single guy."
As the rules for uploading pictures state - other people can be included as long as you have their permission and you hide their identities!
I've seen plenty of couples profiles with group shots, 3somes and 4somes - why should singles not have the same options of including others?  |
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"Is the female in the pics turning you into a couple?If not get rid of the pics with her in them.You are a single guy.
As the rules for uploading pictures state - other people can be included as long as you have their permission and you hide their identities!
I've seen plenty of couples profiles with group shots, 3somes and 4somes - why should singles not have the same options of including others? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"your pics say very little about you, but a lot about the ladies you have met!
thanks for that feedback . are you saying I should lose all the sex pics and just have all of them of me ? "
If you trying to encourage others to meet just you then have pics of just you.
If your trying to meet others with your fb or whatever then say so and by all means add them to your profile along with there pics.
In short we will assume you want others to meet you just you, that being the case have pics of yourself no need for endless cock shoots we know you have one from just one pic, a nice full body shot which you already have then face pics in your private gallery to show if and when you start to get messages from interested parties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some startling views on what a single guy should have as pics...
if I want pics of the groups it attracts, lets say those that like GROUP sex..then I will show pics of group sex
pics police do my nut in, especially those thinking singles cant play (or display) themselves in the swinging ethic of the site..which mainly is group sex(involving more than two people..)
Sorry Obi..wasnt a dig lol..suits are fine..but then I feel they tend appear more like 'lets date'
UI have and know how to attract females/couples(who are interested), so I would base on my experience, sex pics help..theres very few who fab my lonesome pics...that tells me something (not that I'm a minger lol), just that they see the side of the site that is extrovert and sexual..and lets hope FUN!
heres some pleasant advice OP..it is slightly contradictory...but I wouldnt listen to a lot of forum dictates to be honest, some of them come from much less experienced swingers anyway..
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I hear what you're saying KF but the op asked for opinion.
However having read your post I do agree that profile and pictures reflect the person and their tastes and listening to what someone else likes makes it their profile nor your own.
I still prefer a different type of picture but as you say I must make my choices based on what a person shows on their profile and vice versa.
No one person can say how any of us should use this site or dictate how someone else runs their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hear what you're saying KF but the op asked for opinion.
However having read your post I do agree that profile and pictures reflect the person and their tastes and listening to what someone else likes makes it their profile nor your own.
I still prefer a different type of picture but as you say I must make my choices based on what a person shows on their profile and vice versa.
No one person can say how any of us should use this site or dictate how someone else runs their profile."
its ok..I'm fairly consistent with the same approach every time in regards to what singles should have on their profiles..often coming from cpls, who never display their male half lol...there itself IS the irony |
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