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over a year ago
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Did you leave the veri in error?
I don't understand why people want to remove them.
You met up she/he/they were gen, so you verified them. (Which is what a veri actually is for)
What happens after is of no consequence.
Or is this the new thing, play nice, do as I say or I'll remove the veri?  |
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"Did you leave the veri in error?
I don't understand why people want to remove them.
You met up she/he/they were gen, so you verified them. (Which is what a veri actually is for)
What happens after is of no consequence.
Or is this the new thing, play nice, do as I say or I'll remove the veri? "
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I have heard of instances where a first meet has gone well, a suitably glowing veri has been left and then something has gone badly wrong and the verifier realises they've endorsed a muppet! |
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"I have heard of instances where a first meet has gone well, a suitably glowing veri has been left and then something has gone badly wrong and the verifier realises they've endorsed a muppet!"
This. Such as meeting a guy who you later find out is married, for instance - you wouldn't necessarily then want your veri to be showing as you endorsing them |
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"I have heard of instances where a first meet has gone well, a suitably glowing veri has been left and then something has gone badly wrong and the verifier realises they've endorsed a muppet!
This. Such as meeting a guy who you later find out is married, for instance - you wouldn't necessarily then want your veri to be showing as you endorsing them"
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"Did you leave the veri in error?
I don't understand why people want to remove them.
You met up she/he/they were gen, so you verified them. (Which is what a veri actually is for)
What happens after is of no consequence.
Or is this the new thing, play nice, do as I say or I'll remove the veri? "
very presumptious ....Im pretty sure the lady in question has very good reasons of why she wants the verification removed and that's her choice,she has asked how to do this not be slated for her reasons in doing so  |
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One of the most overused word in swinging is "genuine". Genuine what? Genuine, as in ... yes he said he was a man and he had a penis, so he is genuine??? I don't think so!
I had to remove a verification from someone whose profile said he was single (my profile made it quiet clear that I don't play with married-and-cheating men). I thought I'd done my due diligence, chatted for hours, exchanged numbers etc. Then his wife got her hands on his laptop, and started sending me messages via msn and Fab.
So, I'd verified him when I thought he was genuinely single ..... and I blocked him (to remove the verification) when it turned out he was actually married. And so stupid that he left his laptop unattended and logged in!
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"Did you leave the veri in error?
I don't understand why people want to remove them.
You met up she/he/they were gen, so you verified them. (Which is what a veri actually is for)
What happens after is of no consequence.
Or is this the new thing, play nice, do as I say or I'll remove the veri? very presumptious ....Im pretty sure the lady in question has very good reasons of why she wants the verification removed and that's her choice,she has asked how to do this not be slated for her reasons in doing so "
It was a genuine question, and as other posters have already said they also don't understand... I don't understand why you thought she was being slated..
Ps I've had a meet turn around and say if I declined another meet then he would remove my veri.. I blocked him and wasn't even showing the veri so I had a good reason to ask what I did. |
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