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By *anajaTwa OP Couple
over a year ago
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Help. Been around the swing scene a few year's now but we never swong, my partner would not like me fucking other women, which is fine by me because i'm a giver and love making her orgasum and only her, she knew that i wanted her to fuck black guys with big cocks, and christmas she said she would fuck a black guy but it would only happen once, she has fucked 4)) so far, but she won't let them make her orgasum... just wish she would totally let go and enjoy .... Is it right for me to want this if shes not letting go...HELP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No woman can really let go and enjoy if she feels she is under pressure or doing something for the gratification of a third party rather than herself.
You wanted to see her with a black guy and she obliged, now sit back and let her decide what it is she wants from this and allow her to enjoy it for what it is, derive pleasure from knowing that she is doing what she is comfortable with - she is much more likely to enjoy and let go if she is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest, it sounds like she's given in for your sake rather than her's... Never going to end well.
If she doesn't want to do it, don't pressure her.
- Amy. x"
 spot on amy |
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By *anajaTwa OP Couple
over a year ago
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yes Amy your probably right , but she says ive got something missing to want her to fuck another guy, i dont think i have i just love seeing her enjoying sex, she said she would have to have something missing to want to fuck another guy.. Amy if you fuck other guys do you feel you have something missing or do you just enjoy the sex, because if you can answer that question i might have my answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds to me like she is doing this for your benefit bud, I share the same fantasy but my missus said "No" its not for her so it stays a fantasy and we will have fun in ways which make us both happy as we do.
Take the pressure off her a bit and if she changes her mind I am sure she will let you know, I know what us blokes can be like nag nag nag but it won't really give you what you want until you know she's fully enjoying herself, keep patient  x
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just by reading your post I would say no it's not right for her and she's feeling pressured to do it but justifying in her own mind that its ok because she didn't cum. Stop playing games with her or your going to loose her and from her pics I would say it isn't worth the risk. |
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"Seems all one sided to me!
She can fuck guys but you can't fuck girls
She's having her cake and eating it big time!!!!"
I see it as a form of control: from both of them.
It's his fantasy to see her with a black guy, she's not enjoying it just going through the motions. However, she knows he'll be as happy as Larry being balls deep in another woman.
Why should he have fun whilst she isn't?!!
Well that's how I read it. |
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"Amy if you fuck other guys do you feel you have something missing or do you just enjoy the sex, because if you can answer that question i might have my answer "
Everyone is different so you won't get that answer from me. You need to talk to HER. My reasons will not be the reasons of every woman on here.
- Amy. x |
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For the record though, we meet people as we enjoy the adventure TOGETHER. I wouldn't say there was anything missing... It's like a naughty little adventure on top of our own antics. - However, if either of us weren't happy with a situation it wouldn't happen. Simple as.
And from the sounds of the information you've given us so far, it doesn't sound like she is happy.
Might be worth taking some time out and discussing what you both want.
- Amy. x |
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By *anajaTwa OP Couple
over a year ago
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Hi Amy
thanks for the advice, we have been together for 25 years and have a great sex life, she is still a very sexy lady,
we have got up to a lot of antics over the years she has moaned about most of them, but found she enjoyed it once she chilled into it, she has old fashion views and a few moral issues, i think she thinks if she has a orgasum she will grow a pair of horns & a tail lol  , i think i will give her a little more time to chill into it because being a one man women for 25 years she might be finding it hard to let go of that, just want her to be really happy and see it as a little adventure on top of our own antics)),only time will tell Amy, at the end of the day we love each other very much and are a very strong couple.... thanks for your advice Amy. be safe be happy Andy xx |
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